What is it like to have a crush on someone and dare not say it?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-17
5 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I think it's a kind of spiritual pleasure that immerses oneself in the beauty and happiness that I imagined. Although the process of crushing on someone is a little painful, it is more from the inner shyness and happiness. I think that having a crush on someone is the one you really, really like, but you really don't dare to express it, and that feeling is very sweet, and sometimes it can make you lose yourself, and I mean lost in the pursuit of your crush.

    Crush is a wonderful word, and I think it's a very sincere relationship, and it's also the most memorable one. Crush, often because of not good at expression, ashamed to show, and I think everyone must have a crush in their hearts, maybe many years have passed, things are wrong, but the feeling of having a crush on someone else is often unforgettable. Maybe many years later, when you talk to your friends about the object of your crush, you will still have a trace of heartbeat, and that kind of heartbeat is not the heartbeat of pursuit and liking, but the heartbeat of looking back on youth after time grinding.

    Of course, you and your former crush may never have revealed their hearts, but it is precisely because of this that this relationship will not be as fleeting as the kind of relationship that has been run in together. After all, there is a saying that is very good, and what you can't get is always in turmoil. It is precisely because I don't get it that I will always yearn for it.

    Just imagine that I am still the ignorant age of high school, secretly crushing on someone, every time that person smiles politely at me, or makes a normal joke between friends, or a casual meeting, then everything will become extremely beautiful. That person seems to have an abnormal light on him, and when you walk to the **, you always see him at first sight.

    Regardless, I think crushes are beautiful and precious. Because every self-satisfaction that we take seriously and pursue always makes people feel happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I'm sure many people have had a crush on someone during their ignorant adolescence, and I'm certainly no exception. Next, I will share with you my crush experience <>

    It was in the second year of high school, in the summer of 2013, after the summer vacation, we had a new group of classmates and teachers, when I walked into the new class, I found a seat and sat down, sorted out my school bag, and suddenly I looked up and saw the boy next to the window in the sunset! It's just my male god! It's really quiet, harmonious, and beautiful like a painting, a picture that I will never forget!

    Later, I slowly found out that he was a cold scholar, very smart, didn't like to laugh, rarely talked to girls, but loved to look in the mirror Hahaha, he still paid attention to his own image, maybe this is the legendary contrast cute. At that time, I was average in my studies, and I was not proud of my academic performance, but I liked to make disciplinary mistakes, such as being late for early self-study, and then I was often punished, and I was often punished for standing, etc. My male god has never made a mistake, his grades are so good, and he is very handsome!

    Then I felt like the distance between myself and him was like a galaxy across the way! But as the saying goes, doesn't it say that distance produces beauty! I silently began to indulge in his personal charm and couldn't extricate myself!

    began to unconsciously look at him secretly in class, and felt that his every move was so handsome, the feeling of doing the questions seriously was so handsome, and the back was so handsome! But I'll admit that I was too scared to talk to him. In order to make him notice me, I began to try my best to appear in front of his <>

    At that time, my best friend was the representative of the chemistry class, and I would discuss with her in advance to let me help her collect his nearby homework, and every time I received my male god's homework, I would be very nervous and look forward to it, but people didn't look up at me, so desperate but I thought it was so cool! Well, I'm not sick!

    Crazy things are in the back.,We usually get out of class and continue to write the unfinished homework and then go to dinner.,The reason why my male god is my male god.,His homework is generally done very early.,And then I usually go to eat after class.,So every time I get out of class, I'll be very anxious to scribble the homework or wait until the end of the meal and then continue to write.,And then pull my girlfriend out and run out.,Quietly follow behind my male god.,Because my male god walks fast.,The kind of wind that walks.,We both run while walking., Follow him closely. Then he ate quickly, so we kept watching him, and when we found that we stopped eating when he had finished eating, we quickly left and followed him back to the classroom. It's funny to think about it now, but I really felt so happy back then!

    Later, until I graduated from high school, I didn't have a class, and I was really happy to see my male god every day, although I didn't have the courage to say a word to him until I graduated. Hmmm......I guess that's a crush.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Crush, it can be said that it is very painful, looking at the person you like but not daring to say it, you will feel that the day is beautiful when you say a word to him, some crushes are better to hide in your heart, crushes are always beautiful, and you may not have the feeling you had before when you say it.

    Crush on someone is like a sentence that says: what you can't get is always the best, it is a confirmation of this sentence, this kind of beautiful thing can only be hidden in the heart, it is infinitely beautiful, in fact, I had a crush on a person in our class when I was a child, and I know that many people have crushes, I don't know why I didn't say it at that time.

    Maybe it's out of my timidity, or maybe I'm afraid that other girls will beat me, after all, he has a lot of crushes, and people I play better like him very much, but he doesn't like her, and instantly feels that the situation is so complicated, and when I see him every day, I feel infinitely beautiful, I can giggle for a day, and I think I was really stupid when I was a child.

    One day he didn't come to school, it turned out to be sick, looking at his seat was empty, my heart was a little empty, I couldn't say that feeling, and then I didn't listen to much of the class all day, and I didn't know how he was, I was very excited when I saw him appear in front of me in good health, but I couldn't show it too obviously.

    So I didn't listen to the lecture much for another day, this time I didn't listen to it because I was more excited, maybe I would be rejected when I said it, because I was afraid that I would not even have to do my friend's, and I buried this love in my heart, no one knows, and I have always been naïve to think that I can belong to one person, and then we are not in the same school, and I can still say hello like old classmates when I see it.

    Knowing that he is doing well, I am satisfied, although he is married, I will still bless him, after all, he has found his other half.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think it's a very uncomfortable, very speechless experience.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Summary. Hello dear, you will feel it. Crush is that when you see him, you will be at a loss, you will blush; A crush is when you see him and you can't help but want to be nice to him; A crush is a mess in your heart.

    When this subtle feeling arises, there will be a wonderful sense between you, and he will feel every move you make. Although he can't completely understand your secret feelings for him, there is also a faint sense in his heart.

    Hello dear, you will feel it. Crush is that when you see him, you will be at a loss, you will blush; A crush is when you see him and you can't help but want to be nice to him; A crush is a mess in your heart. When this subtle feeling arises, there will be a wonderful sense between you, and he will feel every move you make.

    Although he can't completely understand your secret feelings for him, there is also a faint sense in his heart.

    Why is it that you can only talk to him on your mobile phone and be embarrassed in reality?

    Mobile phone chat has a delay, which means that when you chat with her, you don't necessarily have to reply in seconds, you can have a time to think, but when you talk face-to-face, you can only respond quickly to the other party.

    Then why do you often look at each other in class?

    If so, he might have feelings for you.

    It's a little more likely to be together.

    The odds will be a little greater.

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