Do you feel sorry that the person you ended up with wasn t your favorite person?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-24
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Preface: The last person to be with is not the person I like, and I will definitely feel regretful. Because in life, everyone will have some things that they think are more regretful, especially those who can't love, are the most regrettable.

    obviously loves each other the most, but because of the distance, the two have to consider separating. The object of the first love affair is also a foreigner, because he lives in Henan, and the other party lives in Hainan. The distance between them is also very far away, and in the end, after meeting their parents, their parents directly refused the request to marry far away.

    Everyone in life will have things that they think are more regrettable, and such regretful things cannot be loved. I usually don't talk to my other half, mainly because when I fall in love, the person I love the most is not necessarily the most suitable person to live, but the person who chooses to be together in the end must be the most suitable person for myself. When you fall in love, it is difficult to tell what the definition of marriage is, and when you really enter the marriage, you can realize that the love in the marriage is not everything, but mainly in the delicate mind of the other party.

    Everyone will have their own regrets in the face of love, and the person who loves each other the most is obviously the one who loves each other the most, but in the end they didn't come together. In the end, they chose a person who had never thought about it and thought that they couldn't look down on each other, and they were together. Mainly because after time and training, when women are looking for a partner, it is a completely different feeling from when they first start falling in love, because the older women get, the more they want to find someone who can live a stable life.

    Instead of blindly thinking of yourself, it is better to cherish the person in front of you than to regret the things you once regretted, because the person in front of you is also the person you love the most. Regret has become regret after all, the past is the past after all, and no one will always be sad about the past. After all, people have to look forward, and think that since they have no fate with each other, they should not continue to entangle the beautiful love that they once had, and they should always keep it in their hearts as a memory in the future.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I will feel regretful, because the favorite person must be the most memorable for me, if I can't be with him, then there will be regrets, and I may think about him from time to time in my heart, in fact, it is quite painful.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Yes, but life is like this, not everything will make you happy, we can only learn to reconcile with regrets.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I feel regretful because marriage is a major life event, and if I don't end up with the person I love the most, I will feel very regretful.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You can't find a partner on a pure campus, and you can't find it when you step into society.

    As someone who has come over, I really want to tell you that when you go to college, find someone to fall in love with. If you like it, you will confess it, and if you love it, you will be brave enough to say it.

    When I went to college, everyone was still relatively ignorant about feelings, no one would be too entangled in material aspects, as long as the feelings were in place, this was a beautiful love.

    This period is also the easiest stage for a person to find a partner. Although there are many people who say that "graduation season is breakup season", there are not a few people who enter marriage.

    After stepping into society, it is different, girls meet more excellent boys, and the choice is greatly increased, and sometimes even picky. The reason why it is a pity not to fall in love in college is because love during college is particularly innocent. At that time, the other person really likes you. And after leaving society, most people fall in love just by weighing the pros and cons. They will never be with each other again because they like each other, nor will they be nice to someone from the bottom of their hearts.

    Adult love begins after considering each other's family background and feeling that it is appropriate.

    In this respect, it is a pity not to fall in love in college.

    In fact, campus love is relatively pure. Because at that time, most students were very ignorant of love.

    They like a person who doesn't mix too many interests and doesn't involve too many material conditions. And when they are in love, they will give for each other wholeheartedly without expecting anything in return.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    How sad is it not to be with someone you like? I don't think it's a pity. Chaconi once said that this is a phenomenon called the Checoni effect:

    People are obsessed with unfinished business and dwelling on what was unexpectedly interrupted. In a relationship, if you try your best and finally break up peacefully, it will be easier to let go. But if you love each other deeply and fail to use all possible ways to save this relationship, you will not be able to let go of it for a long time in the end.

    When you understand this psychology, understand that you are just being tortured by unwillingness, there is no possibility for each other, and there is no way to go back to the past, it will be easier to let go.

    Actually, if you think about it from another angle, there are no such regrets. In a person's life, you will meet many people, some people will teach you to be grateful, some people will teach you to love, some people will teach you to be loved, and you will also meet many people who like you or you like. There will be people in these individuals who are bound to you, once the fate comes to an end, no matter how regretful it is, you can only say goodbye, and more importantly, say goodbye.

    Years later, you may still feel sorry for each other's misses, but what you don't know is that maybe you escaped and left the best impression on each other. I once liked someone very much, even if they were separated, they would fade from each other and know how to love more.

    Mountain birds and fish have different paths, you will regret not being with the person you like, but you must not affect yourself to meet a better person because of this regret.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's true that you can't be with someone you like. I will feel sorry for this life. But you have to know that your own life is still long, just treat regrets as memories, don't indulge in them, because you still have life, a future, poetry and distance.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There are many helplessness in life, but this cannot be the reason for your regrets. Although I can't help it, I have to try hard, and I don't regret it when I look back on the past. After all, I have tried. What will happen next, only do your best to obey the destiny of heaven.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    "It's also a pity in this, because in the end, I didn't have my first love, or I didn't get with the person I liked the most, which must be a certain regret,"

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's definitely a pity not to be with the person you like, but it may not be together, it must be a good ending, it's better to keep this original good. So you can't dwell on the past. We have to challenge ourselves.

    Striding forward. There are still so many things in life, we need to do it, what regrets or no regrets about ourselves, a good life is the most important thing.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Life is not all a perfect process, there will inevitably be regrets, and there is hope only with regrets. It's a pity not to be with someone you like; With such regrets, there will be better likes!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What you get is not necessarily the best, if you like it and the other party doesn't like you, even if you are strong together, you won't be happy, if both parties like each other but are not together for other reasons, it can only be said that the degree of mutual liking has not reached a certain level, and both parties really like each other is not prevented by any reason.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    How sorry is it that I didn't spend time with someone I liked? Let me give you my personal opinion. In fact, if we young people are concerned, we have reached this age when love is beginning to open, and even some people of the same age, and even now, some people have begun to get married and have children, which is indeed the one we have to face after 00.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It is very regrettable that there is no one you like together, but it is useless, you should hide your inner pain in the deepest part, cherish the people in front of you, and live your own choice.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There must be too many regrets when you are not with the person you like, but you have to believe that some people are destined to be inseparable from you and can never be together.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Probably very desperate, and even feel that you may not necessarily meet the right person in the future.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you can't be with the person you love, that's the biggest regret, and there will be no happiness at all.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Students have repeatedly asked for more healthy and beneficial extracurricular activities.

    For the sake of our healthy growth, the teachers have taken great pains.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's a pity, but it's impossible for a person's life to be without regrets, and a life with regrets is even more nostalgic.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's a pity, if you're with someone you like, it's sweet to drink cold water.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There are no regrets, and it doesn't have to be with the person you like.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's a pity not to be with the person you like, after all, two people have paid a lot in this relationship, and it's really a pity that they haven't been together, and it will be very uncomfortable.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Very regretful, you may regret yourself, and it may become a lifetime memory for yourself in your life, and you may even think of each other.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you think about it carefully, there are actually no regrets, and you will meet countless people you like in your life, accompanying us to grow up and forming our good memories.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's a great regret, this regret will make me remember it for a lifetime, and it will make me remember this person deeply.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Your favorite person doesn't necessarily love you, so instead of looking at Mei to quench your thirst, it's better to live a real life in a down-to-earth manner. I don't regret not waiting for her favorite. Because what I love most is the ideal, and the real her is the reality.

    I regret not marrying my favorite in my life, I not only regret it, but also feel distressed, and I will never forget it for the rest of my life. Then again, it's not easy to laugh in life, there are always many unsatisfactory, maybe this is the most unsatisfactory thing.

    Love and marriage are two different things, and love is the freedom and romance of two people's work. Marriage is a matter of two people subject to the law, so this kind of thing is not complicated. It's not something that can be said in a few words.

    And everyone's situation is different. The same, not the same. Most of them are much the same.

    Important issues cannot be together. Can't get married. You can't get married because one of the parties compromises and can't be together.

    Anything in the world is absolute, no regrets, no regrets, the sun is new every day.

    As long as you are attentive, you will confess that there is more brilliant sunshine in front of the sunlight that comes out of this meter. Better love and life. Isn't there another sentence, letting go is also a kind of love, if she can find her own happiness, you can also be at ease, so that you don't blame yourself more.

    Nothing in the world is absolute, regret it, don't regret it, the sun is new every day, as long as you do your best, go to confess, and there is more brilliant sunshine and better love and life in front of this meter of sunshine.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I didn't spend time with the person I love the most and I won't regret it. Because after so many years, the epiphany marriage is run by itself, and if you are really with him, you may not be happy, because the firewood, rice, oil and salt in life can polish all love, and only true family affection is the best life.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Of course I will regret it, because the two of us love each other very much, so it is a special pity and a sad thing not to be together at this time.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I won't regret it, maybe it's really fate, although I love it the most, but it's not suitable for being together.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Of course, I will regret it, because the person I love the most can't enter the palace of marriage with me, which makes everyone unacceptable.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    No matter how good the relationship is, it is possible to separate, there is nothing to regret, haven't you all been in love, do you still love each other and don't love each other, you can not love anyone, there is nothing to regret.

    There are gatherings and dispersions, sooner or later, it's just a matter of time, if you want to open a little, your relatives, your friends, your lovers will leave you one day, and everyone will come and go alone.

    In the past, you went to the store alone to buy candy, and suddenly one day someone took you by the hand and went with you day after day, and suddenly one day he stopped holding you and left you in the traffic, it was nothing.

    You just want someone to be with you all the time, but hope is just hope, life will not always go smoothly, and it will not go as you wish.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    In fact, she was also brave at the beginning, ate with the boy she liked, and watched movies together. She has done almost half of what the couple has done, and the remaining half was originally planned to confess to that person and then plan the future together.

    The love between girls may be like this, sometimes they would rather miss than take the initiative. In fact, she also knew that the boy didn't like her, and he had always just treated her as a good friend, so she knew about this result early on.

    Later, the senior sister did not contact the boy, and the boy did not take the initiative to contact the senior sister. At that time, she realized that it had always been her who took the initiative to contact the other party, so the other party politely replied to the message.

    The senior sister said that when she decided to let go, it was after countless late-night thoughts. And those tossing and turning late nights, only those who have experienced it will understand the sadness. Some people don't like to be together, maybe it's just a flash in the pan, but at least he's in my life.

    The reason why the senior sister didn't end up with the person she liked was very simple, that is, the boy didn't like her. In order to protect this friendship, she didn't take the initiative to say what she thought, so in the end they were still friends with each other, but those carefully cherished love could never be felt again after graduation.

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