After getting married, do you regret not being with the person you like?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-24
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If you're young, don't get married so quickly. When the person who loves you and the person you love appears, choose him if you are older. He likes your temper very much.

    But you still don't want to be vexatious all the time. After all, there is a limit to human patience, and it will explode. Actually, love and love are just one thing.

    After two or three years of marriage, I can't find a reliable one. Of course, you can't grieve yourself. You should give him a neutral score on his appearance, personality, family background, and income.

    Do you regret not being with the person you once loved the most? It's always a bit dishonorable to be a life coach. Everyone's life is unique, and other people's experiences are useless to you.

    That is, 10,000 rehearsals, and the beginning is doomed to the end. I'm not trying to pretend to be profound. Emotional problems are never just emotional problems.

    A person is tired of the people around him. He or she is tired of his or her current life. Changing partners seems to be the lowest cost and the best way to implement.

    The emotional problems of two people are irreconcilable, and it is never just a matter of communication and understanding, but a great conflict between the three views and the pursuit of life. When many people choose a partner, they are actually choosing their own lifestyle. If a man in his forties regrets his partner's choice, it can only mean that his life was completely ruined in his forties.

    A lot of outcomes are inevitable, so how can we regret it without so many ifs, without so many options? In fact, the world is huge.

    Now I'm happy every day, and when the other party broke up with me, they already had a family. Two months after the breakup, they got married again, and the new love became pregnant. When they broke up, both the other party and their families were extremely embarrassed.

    Later, the other party told me that if I had married him earlier, there would not have been so many things. Always selfish and evasive from responsibility. A very bad lover.

    At that time, my self-esteem.

    Injuries are everywhere, so it's extreme. Now, in my opinion, being a man should have a higher pursuit, especially for girls, who can't give up on themselves.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It is possible, because after getting married, the life of every family is very dull, and it is all some trivial and trivial things, it is easy to have contradictions, and at this time you will miss the person you like and think he is very beautiful.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    No, because I married someone I really liked, and the other party also liked me very much, so I didn't have any regrets.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I won't regret it, since I made such a choice, I should be responsible for my choice, so I won't regret it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You may regret it, after all, it is not easy to meet someone you like in your life, but two people may have a little regret if they don't come together.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Happy marriages are all the same, but unhappy marriages have their own misfortunes. When I was young, I thought that feelings were everything, and I had to marry the person I liked when I got married, but later I found out that feelings are only a small part of life, and many times feelings can't decide anything. Walking into a marriage, if you can marry the person you like, and that person happens to be the most suitable person, such a marriage must be happy, but how can there be so many coincidences in this world, the person you like may not be suitable, and there will always be various stumbles in the relationship.

    I watched a TV series before, and the hostess in it is a person who is very good at managing marriage, married to a person she doesn't love, but her married life is extremely happy. Therefore, I think that whether or not you can be happy after marriage depends on whether the person in the marriage will manage the marriage, and some people can live happily no matter who they marry.

    1. Some people are happy, and some people are unhappy. Don't think that everyone can marry the person you like, most of the people in this world who are together are not people who love each other. Most of the people you know on a blind date don't like them, but among these people, some people are very happy, and some people are unhappy, so the focus of happiness is not whether you like the person you like, but yourself.

    2. Marriage is all on your own. Some people are unhappy even if they marry the person they love, because married life is not just about feelings. In a happy marriage, there must be someone who is good at management, does not indulge in the past, and can come out and face the future calmly.

    Some people will be happy if they marry anyone, because this kind of person knows how to manage.

    3. There will be regrets, but it will not affect happiness. There will always be some regrets in this life, and there will be regrets if you can't marry the person you like, but this shouldn't be a reason to affect your happiness, and you can't come out of the past, which is unfair to yourself and your other half. Even if you marry someone you don't like, you deserve a happy marriage.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Happiness. Because I just got married to someone I didn't like, and then I slowly developed a relationship, and now I'm living happily.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    At the beginning, I didn't like the person I liked, and I must have lived a very happy life after getting married, because I didn't say it at the beginning, because after getting married, I will have love again, and many times it will probably not be, and I will only be unhappy later.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I live a very happy life, although the other party is not the person I like, but slowly contact myself through life, it is reasonable to fall in love with the other party, because I fell in love with his meticulous care, I am afraid that there is no way to leave his care in this life. Because he has made his breath useful in his life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I married someone I didn't like. Later life can be happy or unhappy. Because people who don't like it come together, there will be no emotional foundation.

    Unless it is to get married first and then fall in love, the cultivation and development of feelings in housing and construction will of course also produce marital happiness after marriage.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Of course, it is unhappy, because there is no need to force the relationship, only if both parties like each other very much, then they can really be together, if two people do not have any love at all and get married, they will not live happily at all.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    They are not happy, they just live an ordinary life, because it is impossible to get real happiness by marrying someone they don't like, they are just married for the sake of getting married, so they will not get divorced, they just live a normal life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you marry someone you don't like at the beginning, then the future may not be so happy, because you have given up on your marriage and have no pursuit, just live a life and have to get by.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Some lived happily, although he didn't like it at first, but after getting married, as they got along, he fell in love with this person, so they lived happily.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The road and the person he doesn't like to marry, and then he is not happy, because he doesn't like him, so there are many things that he will not put himself in his shoes, and the two people will have a lot of estrangement, and they can't talk about it together.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When you married someone you didn't like, and then you lived happily or not it all depended on whether the person you didn't like liked you or not? If he likes you, then you will definitely live a very happy life. Because he accommodates you everywhere and loves you.

    If you don't like her, and she doesn't like you, then the matter between the two of you, I will definitely be very painful.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I didn't like it at first, but then I got married and I liked it, and I also had a happy life. An unhappy life, this varies from person to person, and some marry someone they don't like, maybe they can cultivate some feelings that are dull. Some people have been married to people they don't like, and they are not happy at all, so I feel that I should have a relationship in advance and get married when the time is right.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Later, they were quite average, because marrying someone they didn't like, such a marriage was very painful and torturous, and there was no affection between them, so they wouldn't be very happy.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you marry someone you don't like at the beginning, it is very difficult to live happily in the future, so there is a high probability that you will not be happy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If two people work together, it should be very happy, maybe this will make two people have a tacit understanding, and there is a feeling of quite happiness, I think maybe these two people will be very happy after living together.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you marry someone you don't like at the beginning, you shouldn't be happy later, because if you don't like it, you will be prejudiced and resistant, so the possibility of two people cultivating a relationship is very small.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    People who married someone they didn't like at the beginning also had happiness later, because although they didn't like it at the beginning, after getting married, the two of them will also have feelings after understanding and communicating, so they will live happily.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Just because you don't like it doesn't mean that two people aren't suitable. Feelings can be slowly cultivated from behind, and some people live very happily after getting married later because two people can respect each other, support each other, and work together.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you marry someone you don't like, as long as you can accept some of the other party's shortcomings and cherish them well, this relationship and marriage will be very good

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In my case, ours is only referential. I didn't like it at first. Person.

    Married to him. If they can live for a few years after getting married, their relationship will also be cultivated. Cultivate a relationship, two people.

    You will live happily. Otherwise, it would have been divorced early.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    When you married someone you didn't like, did you live happily? I think I was very happy later, and when I had children, I focused on raising children, so I think I was very happy to marry people I didn't like.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    People who married someone they didn't like at the beginning, but after the tempering of life, they slowly developed feelings and finally became happy.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    When they marry someone they don't like, and then they get married, their marriage is not very happy, because they don't have a good foundation for their marriage.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Later life is unsatisfactory and regretful, because it must be a pity not to be able to marry the person you like, this regret will be magnified in the life of rice, oil and salt, and it will increase complaints, because there is no emotional foundation, there must be less tolerance, and the more unsatisfactory it is.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you marry someone you don't like very much, you will live a very unhappy life in the future, because you don't have any love for each other, and you won't care so much about each other.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Later, life was better, because two people would be together for a long time, so married life would always be very happy.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    None of them had a particularly good life, this is because these people treat each other without feelings, so the two people don't have a common goal, and they end up walking and dispersing.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Later life is not very happy, and I am also very anxious, and it is difficult to live with people I don't like.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Later, their relationship made great progress, because they slowly ran in together, and the relationship became stronger later.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Marry someone you don't like, and basically end up not having a good life, either divorced or always quarreling.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Later, they both divorced, and the two did not have any emotional foundation, nor did they have any feelings, so they were finally defeated by reality and parted ways.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    These people's lives may be relatively ordinary, and they have no common language with each other all the time, and life is relatively boring. Usually nothing too good comes out.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    There are many people who have a very good life in the future, and two people will be in love for a long time.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I won't regret it.

    In love, if you can't go with the blind person you love for a lifetime, there are regrets, some people may not be able to marry the object they love very much when they are young because of their family, and he may break up with that object for the sake of his family.

    In this society, the empty price of socks for marriage is too big, and having a house and a car is extremely important in the eyes of parents, and they can only make such unreasonable demands for their daughters to be happy, but they don't know that their daughters don't value these.

    Marriages without love will end sooner or later, when you marry a boy whose family conditions are good, but you don't love him, you will find how wrong your decision is, and you will begin to regret it, in fact, sometimes if you stick to it a little bit, the ending will be much better.

    If I don't marry the person I like, there is a premise that the other party also likes you, for me, if the other party also likes myself, I also like each other, then I must regret not getting married, the two like each other but can't be together The kind of mental torment is actually difficult to describe in words, regret may be just a form of expression. If it's just that I like the other person and the other person doesn't like me, even if there will be regrets, then I won't regret it, because you can't ask people to like you, and you don't have that right. Then there is only the last one left, the other party likes you but you don't like each other, maybe you understand that the love at that time is too unclear, there are regrets, but there are not many regrets, when you look forward to the arrival of love, love has already been waiting for you in the same place.

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