Does my boyfriend not want to marry me right away and break up?

Your boyfriend is reluctant to marry you right away, so you should find out the reason and then choose whether to wait or not. Empathy is also recommended.

1. Marriage is not child's play, he wants to know more about you. Secondly, how does he feel about you? Was it love at first sight between you?

Or do you slowly cultivate feelings? If it is a relationship that is slowly cultivated, then whether this time is long enough for him to have enough feelings for you. The biggest reason why a man doesn't want to get married is how he feels about you, whether he likes you very much or just like it.

2. If a man doesn't want to get married, it depends on whether he has begun to change his mind about you and whether he has fallen in love with another girl. If so, then unfortunately, he chooses you almost very little, because if a man changes his mind, it is not easy to turn back!

3. It is necessary to see what kind of state a man's career is in at this time and what his economic foundation is. Generally speaking, men like to get married when they have money, and they don't want to hold their wedding banquet so shabby, because men want to save face!

So, be sure to figure out the reason why he doesn't want to get married, is he never getting married or doesn't want to get married for the time being? Or that he just wants to play with you and has never considered getting married, that is, he must break up, otherwise he will waste his youth.

Or it is possible that there may be the following:

1. I just feel that the other party is not a suitable marriage partner, some people are suitable for being friends, some people are suitable for marriage, so many years of love time make the two people who are strangers know more about the opposite, then it must be that the two people feel that the other party is not suitable for marriage, but they don't want to give up the relationship for so many years, so there is no further development.

2. Two people have never thought about the future together, they just think that being together for a day is a day, and there is no plan for further development, and men may think that the current state is the best.

3. Men are afraid of marriage, and many people will be afraid of marriage, because love may only be between two people, but marriage involves a lot of things, and various conflicts may occur in marriage that lead to divorce between two people, so because of fear, men are unwilling to get married and unwilling to break up.

How long are you talking about this question? Within a month or within half a year or within a year? But no matter how long you're talking about, I think it's important to figure out if he doesn't want to get married for the time being or if he never wants to marry you?

Find out the reason, does he think that you are still young or the financial conditions are not in place, and he does not want to marry you for the time being. But in fact, as a girl, I think if a man really loves you, when you really want to get married, he will marry you anyway because he is afraid of losing you.

You ask him why he doesn't want to get married, if he prevaricates for any reason, I think it's right to break up, although love is beautiful, but it does consume your youth, and you imagine that a boy who doesn't want to marry someone he loves, what kind of mentality does he have in love? But in his life, he often mentions your future with him, and I think he should want to give you a better wedding, a better future, I hope so.