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In fact, it's not that I don't want to get married, but the current social life is very stressful, many people at the bottom of the society, they can't bear the current economic pressure of sending families, and some have been hurt, a lot of love is very fragile in the face of material, as the saying goes, the economic base determines the superstructure, and love belongs to the superstructure.
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Now men who don't want to get married are lazy men who don't want to be responsible, because after having a family and having children, they have to do a lot of things, they are too lazy to do those things, and they want to play by themselves.
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Now the level of education is getting higher and higher, so getting married is getting later and later.
Not only boys, but also girls.
I don't know what's wrong, maybe I want to live a single life for a few more years!
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Because today's men don't want to get married, many men don't even love each other, they focus on their careers, and some people lose their love for the rest of their lives.
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If it's just to find a food partner, many men don't want to get married, and a person's meal can also be very delicious. Whether it's marriage, or love.
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It is a new person who can live more happily, without any responsibility, no pressure, no need to think more about others, you can live what you think, it is naturally different, come on, I believe you can.
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It's not that I don't want to get married, it's that it's too difficult to find the right person, it's even more difficult to live a lifetime, the pressure on all aspects is great, and the burden of various consumption on housing and car loans is too heavy.
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Because of the flowery world, corrupted.
The appetite of pure boys and girls.
Only in elementary school, and even in.
In high school, there is pure love.
Now many college students are also.
Social pollution is serious.
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Now a lot of love is based on money, many men are not too rich because of the economic conditions, so they dare not talk about feelings, if the first time the love is consumed, he has a lot of money so sure, the second time he doesn't dare to believe in love. And many girls also hope that their boyfriends will buy her famous brands as soon as they fall in love, take her to travel, and take her out to eat delicious food.
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Because in today's society, whenever it comes to talking about marriage, you need to buy a car and a house, and you also need a bride price, and the current society is more realistic, and some people will not consider getting married when their economic ability is not very good.
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Now men don't want to get married, it doesn't mean that many men don't even dare to believe in love, but they are married, the pressure is too great, they don't want to, but they don't dare, before your wedding, the bride price, three gold, more or less for a man is still pressured.
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In fact, what you said is not absolute, many men now want to get married, and men who don't want to get married are because they are under more financial pressure and don't believe in love. That's because they've been hurt by love, so they've lost faith in love.
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Not in real life, what you said is so serious. I'm a lot of young men. I look at the beauty.
I'm looking for a partner. Want to get married? These people you are talking about, are the people of **?
I was still in Jiangsu and Zhejiang last year. The people there are also very normal. It's time to talk about marriage.
Each one did not stop falling in love. You didn't make up this kind of thing, did you?
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It's not that men don't want to get married now, but people don't want to get married now, and it can't be said that men don't believe in love, it's just that the cost of love is too high now, and everyone is used to being free.
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Today's men don't want to get married, because after marriage, love is gone, so it's better not to get married, but they will live better.
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Because girls nowadays are too realistic. The divorce rate is too high.
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I've been heartbroken, I don't dare to take it too seriously, come and go freely.
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Many men only want to talk about feelings and don't want to get married, because of the following points: First, a man only wants to fall in love and doesn't want to get married, maybe he hasn't reached the point of loving you. Some men fall in love by eating from the bowl and looking at the pot.
He is now in love with you, but he is not married to you, so your position in his heart is only the object, and there is no intention of getting married. Second, marriage implies responsibility and commitment, which some people are unwilling to take. Men who only want to fall in love and don't want to get married actually don't have the courage to take responsibility and don't want to take responsibility.
Falling in love is not responsible, so it is more inclined to fall in love than to get married. Third, some people are afraid and resistant to getting married, so they will only fall in love and not get married. Some men don't want to be bound, they are afraid that after getting married, they will face all kinds of family trivialities and problems, so they simply don't get married.
Fourth, the requirements for marriage are extremely strict, some men hope to be able to give the other half the best life after marriage, if they can't meet this requirement, then they don't get married. Such a man is said to be a responsible man, but in fact, the management of marriage is not only about material things, but also about communication and mutual understanding. Fifth, of course, some Chenhui people only fall in love and do not get married, it may be because he is not prepared, after all, fear of marriage has become a relatively common thing in modern society.
Such men are generally not confident in themselves and do not believe that they can manage their marriages well. In fact, when it comes to getting married, as long as you have enough sense of responsibility, a certain economic foundation, and the heart to grow old with your other half, it is not a difficult choice to get married. If a woman meets a man who doesn't want to marry you, it's better to choose to break up, after all, a girl's sedan chair is priceless, don't pay your energy in the end, but there is no good ending.
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It's not that men are willing to get married now, but that the cost of marriage in our country is too high, and the divorce rate is extremely high now. Rather than spending your family's life savings to "buy" an extremely uncertain future, it is better not to get married in the first place.
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The sadness of Chinese boys, the marriage partner wants to marry a house and a car, not this person at all.
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There can be many reasons why many men just want to fall in love and not want to get married, and here are some possible explanations:
1.Personal values: Some men may be more focused on freedom, independence, and self-actualization, they see marriage as a constraint and limitation, and they want to experience more freedom and explore unknown possibilities in a relationship.
2.Distrust of marriage: Some men may lack trust in marriage, they may have experienced some unpleasant marriage experiences, or heard some bad marriage stories, which makes them fear and distrust marriage.
3.Pursue self-pursuit: Some men feel the need to take full control of their lives and destinies at a young age, and they want to experience more freedom and explore unknown possibilities in a relationship, rather than being tied down by marriage.
5.Financial pressure: In some cases, a man may need to get better financial conditions through marriage, such as better career development opportunities, higher social status and salary, etc.
However, we should also recognize that not getting married also brings some problems and challenges, such as lack of unstable family support, emotional loneliness, and so on. Therefore, we need to respect everyone's choices and values and seek an equal and respectful relationship with our partner. At the same time, society also needs to pay more attention to and support people who do not marry, and provide them with more support and support.
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1. Sufficient economic foundation as support.
In this era, if you want to start a family, the condition that you must consider is undoubtedly money, which is not to say vanity and power, this is just one of the conditions for surviving in this society.
2. The character of both parties.
Marriage is a matter of two people, the most important thing for two people together is to be able to run in, if they can tolerate and understand each other, then it is possible to live, the man must have enough sense of responsibility to take on the whole family, and the woman must be tolerant and understanding, two people to manage the marriage together, in order to harvest a happy life.
3. Freshness will maintain the quality of the marriage.
Freshness is the most important thing in any situation, keep a proper distance, and give the other half a new experience every day, such as giving each other a little surprise every day, a flower, and a beautiful dinner.
4. The parents of the other half will not interfere too much.
The most breaking thing for a woman after getting married is to face the problem of her in-laws, for fear that her in-laws will not like it and make things difficult everywhere, which is the problem that women are most worried about. The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has a great impact, and two people cannot understand each other, which is prone to many problems.
5. Whether a man has true love for you.
Whether a man has true love for you, whether he has a heart to play or really wants to live with you for a lifetime, you can see from the man's usual details and attitude towards you, whether he can tolerate you and tolerate you, if he is not sincere, don't get married.
6. Family atmosphere.
The family atmosphere of a family is too important, if the family is deserted, everyone does not talk, and everyone does their own things, the family will be very depressing after staying for a long time.
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The reason is that many men nowadays feel that getting married will put them under great financial pressure. They don't want to put that much pressure on themselves, they don't want to carry themselves too much. So they will be reluctant to get married.
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Hello! The bride price and life pressure are very high, and you must have a house and a car, so you can only be worthy.
Because now there is too much pressure for men to get married, both before and after marriage. So a lot of men are reluctant to get married now.
In fact, quarreling does not mean that you do not love each other, it can only mean that you lack communication skills or need to run in, on the contrary, many couples or marriages that do not quarrel have hidden crises. A proper fight will enhance the relationship, but too many fights can also make the two people exhausted. Three years is enough time for you to get to know a person, you can calmly recall and think about it, how much do you know him in three years, if you feel that his character is very good, but when two people will have different opinions, you can solve it through communication; If you feel that you don't know much about him, you are a pair of familiar strangers, then you need to make a careful choice, you must be only in your 20s, although you have reached the marriageable age, but compared with him you seem more naïve and simple, of course, age is not an obstacle, but you have to judge whether he is the person you need, you are sure to marry someone, if you decide, don't suffer from gains and losses, two people will not abandon each other, his maturity will give you a lot of help; But if you're still hesitating, you should make a decision early, or the two of you should be separated for a while and think about it calmly.
For boys, life has been too stressful, houses, cars, families, children, the elderly, the pressure of their own work, especially in this society, it is really hard and tiring, so everything still depends on themselves, and there are many girls who are not married now, it is normal and it doesn't matter.
Marriage means happiness for women and greater responsibilities for men. Generally, men will get married only if they are fully prepared, so that women can enjoy greater happiness, and if they are not ready, of course they don't want to get married.
I don't think boys should encourage girls to elope, first of all, it is a kind of harm to the family, since the boy now has no money and wants to marry you, gave you a blank check, let you steal the household registration book to get married, this is very irresponsible, although money has little to do with marriage, but it is often the fuse of conflicts after marriage, if you believe in this man, feel that he has the ability to achieve his goals, you can consider getting married. But for adults, the earlier they get married, the less likely they are to achieve their goals after marriage, in a word, marriage is based on a certain amount of money, and now there is no money, and when he has saved enough, he will come to you again, it is not a force, just a fact.