Was it my fault that caused the breakup, or were there some problems that simply couldn t have been

It's actually very simple, I just don't like you that much!

Think about it from your perspective: when you like someone, you find that you will revolve around him, take him as the center everywhere, and think about him, for fear that you will not do well and give not enough, right? So if he likes you, he will also be centered on you!

I don't think this is the right object for you, he is stronger, and you have been cautious and submissive, so this disparity in strength has caused an imbalance in your power, and he has not accepted you from the heart, so he continues to aggravate this imbalance of power, and the result is that this relationship has become a one-man show, a one-man movie.

Let it go before it's too late, and think about what you should do!

This can't be regarded as your fault at all, some of your problems really can't be avoided because the three views of two people are different. So if you don't have the same views, there will be some arguments and incomprehension, and eventually you will be separated.

I tell you, don't condemn your own mistakes, everyone makes mistakes, and if there is a mistake, you can correct it. As for the breakup, it's not your fault, but the problem is inevitable. It's that your fate has not arrived at all, and the emotional foundation is not deep at all, so there is no need to dwell on being yourself here.

Get back on your feet and find what is rightfully yours.

In this case, it's not your fault, and it's not his fault that the breakup was caused, it's that the two of you don't have fate, obviously, he used to have a good impression of you, but because he feels that his personality is incompatible, he is already avoiding you, you just still have feelings for him, this itself is um, it doesn't make much sense.

In the worst case, he doesn't love you anymore, and needless to say, everyone can see it.

There is also a situation where the man has too much self-esteem and wants to work hard to give you better conditions and put an end to the situation. But I don't want to say that I am incapable. The sign is that he is not satisfied with his work, but also seeks another way out, wanting to succeed.

The disadvantage is that you can't do both emotional work, but I will explain it to you.

If you don't meet the above two points, don't think about it, if there is a problem between you, either you do it, or he doesn't love it. I'm not married, but from a man's point of view, I don't know what it will be like after I get married.

He shouldn't love you as much as you love him. Measure for yourself how long you can endure with him. If you can't bear it, there is no need to continue to waste time, don't let yourself be humble when you love someone, but two people are comfortable together, and you don't need to pay and feel that you are not worth it.

You also have to reflect on yourself, whether you are asking too much, or being too active in this relationship, everyone has their own degree, and you will be annoying if you cross his degree! Wishing you happiness!

Since you can reconcile, then there is no problem with your relationship, but there is a lack of communication between you and you have not found a suitable balance between work and life. It is recommended that you have a good chat with him and talk about your own needs. Then, know exactly how far He can give you, so that you can solve the problem and thus make the relationship smoother and more intimate.

It should be that everyone does not have good communication, there are still differences, and each other is still a little unhappy, people are angry, and it is inevitable that they will be irrational when they speak and do things, if everyone still cares about each other, they should talk about it calmly and explain the misunderstanding clearly. I think you guys are still very emotional, and you don't really care too much.

Is it my fault? There are still some problems that lead to the breakup, and it is impossible to avoid both possibilities, maybe it is you who caused the breakup, maybe the two of you are not suitable, and it is not inevitable at all.

I think there are some problems that are impossible to avoid, and more importantly, you may not be able to cope with them, so they lead to a breakup.

I think it's over, so don't think about who's right and who's wrong, since we've broken up, it means that there's no fate.

Face every bit of emotion.

Have faith in yourself.

Try to accept others and understand others.

Learn to open yourself too.

If you break up, you can sincerely apologize, and the result is not important.

There are many reasons to break up, just look at how you face it? Or maybe it's not one person's fault.

Is it my fault that caused the breakup, or is there some problem that is unavoidable at all, it is of course your fault that you broke up, because the relationship needs to be maintained by both parties.

Not necessarily, there are many reasons for a breakup, not necessarily unloved, there may be other insurmountable reasons, there is nothing right or wrong.

I think that breaking up is because I don't love each other, and I will only choose to break up when I don't love each other, and if I really love each other, I am reluctant to let go.

It must be like this, many times two people don't feel it when they are together, or two people don't love each other anymore, and there will definitely be a breakup.

If it weren't for the issue of principle, then there really was no right or wrong way to break up. Feelings are not something that they don't love in an instant, it may be that after two people get along for a long time, one party gradually loses its charm in the eyes of the other party and then doesn't love.

There is no right or wrong to break up, I think there is no need to waste time if it is not suitable, let go as soon as possible if you don't love, in fact, it is good for both parties, don't let the other party fall into pain.

There is no right or wrong to break up, it must be that they do not love each other, or that two people have problems in some way, in which case there will be emotional problems, and in the end they will break up, and in the end two people will part ways.

If you love him, it's not wrong for anyone to break up! Because there's no one right or wrong in love, if he doesn't love you anymore. You don't have to care, because what you have lost is someone who doesn't love you!

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun... Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude.

Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up. Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...