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First of all, it is clear to you that parents are not obliged to bear the cost of their children's marriage. There is no legal provision and no such moral constraint. It's just that in reason, everyone thinks that in the economic foundation of the children.
Assistance can be given in vulnerable situations. Now legally and morally your parents do not have any financial obligations to you, but you have an obligation to support them.
So you have to correct your thinking and don't think that your parents should give you money to get married.
I don't know about your family situation, but your parents don't give you money to get married, and there are probably other reasons besides your own financial reasons. For example, whether they approve of the woman and whether they approve of your marriage now. I think that's the crux of the matter.
You are only 23 years old, whether you have a clear understanding and mature understanding of marriage, and whether you are ready to take on family responsibilities, these are all questions that parents should consider. Besides, you don't have the financial foundation now, even if you get married, how can you raise your children? If your financial conditions do not allow it, it will inevitably cause a financial burden on your parents.
Parents are people who have been through marriage, and they think more than you do. So don't just try to get your parents to do what you want. After all, there is no parent who does not feel sorry for their children, and if they think it is necessary to solve the difficulties for you, they will not sit idly by.
So, I hope you first consider the many factors, make a new decision, and don't cause yourself more trouble to solve the temporary dilemma. Another is to put yourself in the shoes of your parents and think more about them, and understanding their situation is the basis for your communication and problem solving. If you still decide to get married right away, communicate openly and honestly with your parents and exchange ideas.
You have to believe that your parents won't hurt you and won't really embarrass you.
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Parents are not obligated to marry their sons. Because these children have grown up, they still have to support their parents.
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How do you say this? Theoretically speaking, parents have no obligation to marry their son, because parents can raise their son until he is 18 years old, but emotionally speaking, parents are of course obligated to their son, and the son does not want his parents to bear it, and his parents have to bear it.
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It is not their obligation for parents to marry their sons, and it is their freedom for their sons to marry or not to marry when they become adults, and parents must not interfere, and if they interfere, it is an arranged marriage.
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When you are an adult and 18 years old, your parents are not saying that you have the obligation to bear it, but that there are parents who have feelings for their sons, mother-son feelings, and father-son feelings, so they are responsible for helping.
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It is said that parents raise their children until they are 18 years old, and there is no obligation to go back, but the current situation in China is that parents generally help their children get married and start a family.
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When a son gets married, parents are not obliged to contribute to the marriage and the building of a house for their children. Of course, parents voluntarily take care of their children, and no one can interfere.
Where there is a dispute over the determination of a guardian, the residents' committee, villagers' committee, or civil affairs department for the ward's domicile is to appoint a guardian, and where the relevant parties are not satisfied with the designation, they may apply to the people's court for the appointment of a guardian; Relevant parties may also directly apply to the people's court for the appointment of a guardian.
Residents' committees, villagers' committees, civil affairs departments, or people's courts shall respect the true wishes of the ward, and follow the principle of the best interests of the ward to appoint a guardian among those who have guardianship qualifications in accordance with law.
Where the ward's personal rights, property rights, and other lawful rights and interests are unprotected before guardianship, the residents' committee, villagers' committee, organization or civil affairs department for the ward's domicile is to serve as the temporary guardian.
After the guardian is appointed, he can change himself without taking Qi Jian's defense pants; Where changes are made without authorization, the responsibility of the appointed guardian is not exempted.
Legal basis] Civil Code of the People's Republic of China
Article 28: Adults who lack or have limited capacity for civil conduct are to be guardians in the following order by persons with guardianship capacity:
a) Spouse; 2) Parents and children;
3) Other close relatives;
4) Other individuals or organizations willing to serve as guardians, but with the consent of the residents' committee, villagers' committee, or civil affairs department for the ward's residence.
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Legal analysis: It will still be managed, Chinese parents will worry about how old their children are, they will worry about finding a partner before they get married, and they will worry about having children and bringing children after they get married.
Legal basis: "Law of the People's Republic of China on the Protection of the Rights and Interests of the Elderly" Article 73: Where the lawful rights and interests of the elderly are infringed, the victim or his or her person has the right to request that the relevant departments handle it, or to file a lawsuit in the people's court in accordance with law. People's courts and relevant departments shall promptly accept appeals, accusations, and reports that infringe upon the lawful rights and interests of the elderly in accordance with law, and must not pass the buck or delay.
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Legal Analysis: The son is an adult, and the father is not obligated to pay money when he gets married.
Legal basis] Civil Code of the People's Republic of China
Article 1046:Marriage shall be completely voluntary between a man and a woman, and neither party shall be allowed to coerce the other, nor shall any organization or individual interfere with it.
Article 1047:The age of marriage shall not be earlier than 22 years for men and 20 years old for women.
Article 1048:Marriage is prohibited for lineal blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations.
Article 1049 A man and a woman who wish to marry shall apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration authority. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. The marriage relationship is established after the marriage is registered. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.
Article 1050:After marriage is registered, the woman may become a member of the man's family, and the man may become a member of the woman's family, in accordance with the agreement between the man and the woman.
Article 1051 Marriage shall be null and void under any of the following circumstances:
a) bigamy; 2) Have a family relationship that prohibits marriage;
3) They have not reached the legal age for marriage.
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Parents are not obligated to help their sons marry daughters-in-law, parents are only obligated to raise their children until they are eighteen years old, and if the children still need to continue their studies, the parents can pay the tuition fees. Parents are legally not obligated to marry their children.
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