If you love a girl deeply, in order not to regret it, is it worth waiting for five years?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-20
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Why set a time limit on relationships? Love is love, but love is a matter of both parties, if it is just one person's unrequited love, then it is useless to wait for ten years. If you feel like you're in love with her now and there's a chance she'll accept you in five years' time, so you're hesitant now, then let time tell!

    There is no need to tell yourself that you have to wait a few years, people are constantly growing, no one knows what will happen tomorrow, and no one knows whether they will meet better people, so it is the most correct thing to do. If, over time, you meet better people and both of you appreciate each other, are you going to draw a five-year circle for yourself and give up?! In this way, it is really a cocoon!

    If, over time, your popularity for her has diminished, do you also want to keep your five-year commitment?!

    Don't put any restrictions on feelings, love is love, nothing, whether it is pain or happiness, experience is your gain. Put this feeling in the bottom of your heart, if you can't forget it, just miss it, it is also a kind of happiness, until this feeling slowly becomes the warmest memory or gradually disappears.

    Actually, I think you should love yourself more, hehe, because, if you want five years, the fundamental reason is that you are afraid that you will regret it; And your hesitation is because you are afraid that you will be hurt when the time comes. From this point of view, this feeling will actually be worn out in less than five years.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Believe me, little brother, no one knows what anyone is like in five years. Don't make promises to yourself. Especially what five years and ten years.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Some people don't understand one thing - the word "deep love" itself contains the attribute of overcoming obstacles and overcoming public opinion. And whatever the price is, I feel that it is worth it, and I definitely have no regrets.

    If one of the two people drops the chain, they are not worthy of being called deep love, and they will not get good results.

    This is an era of freedom, and the distance between the south and the north of the world is a leg lift. It's just that I dislike that lifting my legs is too expensive and tiring.

    So I don't know what some people are sighing about.

    No one used a machine gun to force him to marry someone he didn't love, not because he had taken a fancy to other benefits.

    dumped people, ran to say what he loved deeply, he dumped the people he loved. When I dumped it back then, the premise of deep love was gone, and I was ashamed to give up on my own and say that I regretted it with a shy face.

    What do you want to do when you are dumped? People have dumped people, is it interesting to pray for people to turn back?

    In the end, I couldn't be with my beloved, and there are regrets. Regret but not. The road of life is walked by oneself, and the road of love is walked by two people. Therefore, the tacit understanding that failed to come together is, I will wait for you to turn back, and you will wait for me to speak.

    If there is an if, that day say what should be said, be considerate of the detachment, and give up those damn freedoms. If I wait for you for another minute that day, look at you again, and hug you again...If you chase me a little more that day, and say that I love you again, hug ...... tightly with which force you are experiencing

    Unfortunately, there are no ifs. Unfortunately, there are no ifs.

    Don't complain about regret and regret, many things are not a person's fault, especially love is not a person's fault, and the end of life is not looking forward to the beloved in front of you, because this goodbye is also goodbye.

    The memories are as beautiful as the first hunger, and they are also ...... eternity

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Look at whether this girl is worthy of your love, this needs to be judged by yourself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I can't remember seeing this sentence from **: If you don't love someone, please let it go so that others have a chance to love her. If someone you love has given up on you, let go of yourself so that you have the opportunity to love others.

    This is straightforward but very reasonable, and it also teaches people how to deal with emotions from one side.

    Some things collapse and you won't belong to you no matter how much you like them, and some things you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are, love is a song in life that can never be sung. People may experience many kinds of love in their lives, but don't let love become a hurt. ``

    There is fate everywhere in life, and fate seems to be fateful; Some fates are destined to be lost at the beginning, and some fates will never end well; But I longed for a miracle. To love someone you don't have to have, but to have someone you have to love him well. It's easy to say, but once you do it, it's really difficult, don't believe you try.

    If sincerity is a hurt, choose a lie; If a lie is a harm, choose silence; If silence is a disservice, choose to leave. If love is a hurt, don't come close. But in many cases this is not the case, because you can't help but choose.

    If loss is suffering, are you afraid to pay? If obsession was suffering, would you choose to end? If the pursuit is suffering, will you choose to be obsessed?

    If separation is suffering, to whom do you confide? A lot of things came to a later view, and a lot of things didn't feel bitter at all, but I couldn't find the way I came.

    There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but the expression is imperfect. There is a kind of love that knows that you want to give up, but you are not willing to leave. There is a kind of love, knowing that it is torment, but it can't be lost. There is a kind of love from Gao Biqing, knowing that there is no way forward, but his heart has long been unable to recover.

    Love is not a game because we can't afford to play it. Love is sincere giving, and you must forget that you really can't do it. No matter where the destination will be, I think I should leave an innocent beauty in my heart.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Does she still have feelings for you now? If so, you can think of her innocent as you feel right now. But if you just sympathize with her or feel guilty, you will have to chase her.

    If she already has feelings for you, you don't have to be a slippery brother to chase after you. Because that's to make things happen.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There is only one time in life, do whatever you want, and let your future self not regret it.

    Hehe, to make sure that every day you live, your do what you really want to do, and that's what makes it interesting, at least that's what I think.

    I suggest, go after her.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You also said that it was once.

    Why didn't you cherish it at that time, and only after you lost it did you want to cherish it before you wanted to redeem it. Cherish it after you lose it, what's the point of Sun Chop.

    Some people don't miss it anymore, and how much love can be repeated.

    Sometimes we are like that, we don't miss something that we regret, it's just that missing is missing.

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