Full of pampering! Grandpa bought more than 30 dresses for his newborn granddaughter, why is the nex

Because when everyone gets older, they usually love their juniors more. So we can feel the presence of the next generation.

In our lives, we will find that grandpas and grandparents love their grandchildren more. And the degree of love can also reach the phenomenon of doting, so many people will use love to describe the relationship between grandparents and grandchildren and granddaughters. And this relationship is also called the next generation.

Grandpa bought more than 30 dresses for his newborn granddaughter.

In Hunan, a netizen posted a paragraph**, from the content**, we can see that the grandfather bought 30 skirts for his newborn granddaughter. And the 30 skirts are very beautiful, and the daughter-in-law also called her father-in-law very cute. And he also said that his child's grandfather did not dare to mention it home after buying the skirt, and put the purchased skirt directly in the new house of his son and daughter-in-law.

The reason why the next generation is more close.

The second is that in this matter, we can feel the existence of the next generation. However, the reason why the next generation is closer is mainly because everyone will basically love their younger generations more when they get older. And they will also feel that their younger generation has the appearance of their own children when they were young, so in this case, grandpa and grandma are very kind to their grandchildren and granddaughters.

will even choose to give their grandchildren and granddaughters the best company through their own best conditions. <>

My personal opinion.

In the end, I personally have always felt that grandpa's approach in this matter is very heartwarming. And I think that if this family can have this kind of grandfather's existence, it will definitely make this family have a more harmonious state. At the same time, I also hope that the majority of netizens can also work hard to live a happy life of their own in the process of envy.

I think that the next generation of relatives cannot be explained in words, it may be an innate physiological ability.

The main reason is that if the elderly owe something to their children, they will make up for it on their grandchildren, and the responsibilities of the elderly are different from those of middle-aged people, and they will not supervise their children, which leads them to be more relaxed in the face of their children.

The main reason why the next generation is closer is that he wants to make his grandson happy and better, and he also wants to have a place to store his love, and his grandson is often a hope for his grandfather, and they want to make their grandson grow up healthy and happy.

The identity of grandparents with their grandchildren is essentially the identification of their own genes. Grandchildren are the inheritance of their own genes, and there is naturally a sense of closeness after meeting, which is a biological instinct, but people as a relatively long-lived and strong family concept of creatures, can often see their grandchildren, some animals live for a year or two, and their dictionary species should not have words like "grandpa grandchildren". Compensating psychology, because parents are basically very young when raising their children, and time and money may not be sufficient, so it is inevitable that they will be in a hurry.

Being old is like making amends to grandchildren.

is because there is no estrangement between them, and they get along more harmoniously, so they are closer.

The next generation is eager to give all the best to their grandchildren, and they feel afraid of falling in their handsAs long as the grandchildren want to wave all the big hands to him, he will try to satisfy those who can't be satisfied. Speaking of intergenerational relatives, many netizens couldn't help but complain about their experiences, and some netizens said: I cut my children, and my parents cut me.

There is a lovely old grandfather in Hunan, and his granddaughter bought more than 30 dresses for his granddaughter when she was just born. I didn't dare to bring it back to my own house, so I put it directly in my son's new house. I guess I was afraid that my wife didn't know that she was so generous all of a sudden, so she bought more than 30 dresses.

It's very graphic, imagine an old grandfather carefully selecting a beautiful dress for his granddaughter in a children's clothing store, and I feel that this one is also very suitable for his granddaughter, and that one is also very suitable for his granddaughter, so he simply buys them all. <>

Their own children are used to beat, and their grandchildren are used to hurt. This kind of intergenerational parenting of the elderly often makes their children feel a sense of jealousy, and since having children, the status of the family may plummet. All the attention of the old man is on the child, after all, the child is the inheritance and continuation of a family, looking at such a lovely child, the old man can't help but love.

There will be this phenomenon of intergenerational relatives, in fact, we must start from the traditional concept, many old people think that children are the continuation of blood, and our country is a nation that attaches great importance to inheritance. This is why many elderly people are urging their children to get married and have children as soon as possible. When people get older, the concept of family affection is stronger, and at the same time, they can find self-worth in their grandchildren, pour all their love into their grandchildren, and feel that they are needed.

At the same time, they only need to be responsible for love, and do not need to be responsible for the education of their children. <>

It is also necessary to treat the issue of intergenerational parenting correctly, when it comes to the problem of intergenerational parenting, many people think of doting. But not all intergenerational relatives are doting, intergenerational relatives can maintain a family's feelings very well, so that the whole family is more affectionate.

The next generation, in fact, is the ancestor in the younger generation, and once again saw the shadow of his youth, so he shared his love for his children with his grandson.

Grandpa was of course very happy and happy to see his granddaughter who was about to be born, and prepared a lot of dresses for the child, just so that he could take her out to play in his lifetime.

No matter what the other party says, they will buy it for the other party, and they will put what the other party says on their bodies, treat each other well, and even surpass their own children. The eyes will also be spoiled.

Since my grandfather died when I was very young, I don't know what kind of heartwarming things he did for me. However, according to others, my grandfather is a very stingy person who doesn't pay much attention to his son, that is, my father, and seeing that I am a girl, it should be unlikely that he will do certain things specifically for his granddaughter. Grandpa's generation lived too hard, it was already good to be able to eat enough, ** and money to buy things for children, each generation has a different lifestyle, there is no need to envy other people's grandfathers.

The specifics of this matter.

It is understood that the grandfather likes his granddaughter very much, the child is only more than a month old, and the grandfather loves him in every way, in order to make the child a princess in the palm of his hand, the grandfather went to the mall out of his own pocket and bought more than 30 small dresses. When he brought it home, he was afraid of being scolded by his family, so he put his clothes directly in his daughter-in-law's new house. When the child's mother saw it, she put her clothes on the stairs, and although the child could not wear them now, she was really happy for the child in her heart.

can be treated like this by my father-in-law, I believe that the child will be able to live happily in this family. When the old people pamper their grandchildren, they may be jealous when they see it, which is the next generation.

What do I think about this?

There is nothing wrong with liking children, but don't let children be pampered and arrogant, this kind of love will only ruin the child's life, and at the same time will bring harm to society. Today's children are so comfortable, they are raised in a greenhouse by their parents, and they cry and make a fuss when they encounter a little bump. Give gifts to your child, not too much at one time, and let your child understand that everything is hard to come by, and it will be obtained by personal ability in the future.

can't ask your parents for everything, I hope that this pampered princess will be able to distinguish right from wrong when she grows up, and don't become a bear child in the mouth of adults.

No matter how the grandfather gets along with the child, there is always a difference of fifty or sixty years in the middle, and sometimes it is inevitable that there will be estrangement, so you must not be overly angry, and the love given to the child should not be reciprocated.

According to a report from Hunan**, a warm person posted on the Internet**, grandpa bought dozens of skirts for his newborn granddaughter, and you can feel that grandpa really loves this granddaughter, which is really enviable. Of course, when I asked my grandfather what heart-warming things he had done for himself, he burst into tears instantly. After all, when I remembered things, my grandfather was no longer alive.

Therefore, I didn't enjoy my grandfather's love, and when I saw such a heartwarming event on the Internet, I was very envious that this little girl could be pampered by the next generation. <>

In life, the intergenerational relatives are indeed bottomless, and the elderly should be treated differently for their granddaughters. Even if the granddaughter wants to pick the stars and the moon in the sky, the grandparents are willing to pay for them. Therefore, if there are children at home, the elderly are more loved, and there may be no bottom line, in the eyes of the elderly, the life of children needs great care.

In this era, children are really happy, they can get the love of their parents, and they can also get the love of their grandparents. But when I was young, I caught up with the patriarchy, so many people disliked it. <>

It can be found from ** that the grandmother bought a variety of skirts for his granddaughter, and the styles are relatively novel, and it seems that he is still a very fashionable grandfather. The daughter-in-law also said that her father-in-law was very cute, and after buying it home, she put it directly in her daughter-in-law's room. Of course, this news also made up a lot of pictures in the minds of many netizens, maybe grandpa waved his hand after entering the children's clothing store.

Wrapping yourself in all the good-looking little dresses in the store is really domineering. <>

If this newborn girl knew that her grandfather loved her so much, she would still be grateful to her grandfather. I believe that their relationship is also better, but I can see that grandpa's vision is more unique, and every little skirt is very beautiful. However, the little granddaughter is only about a month, and it seems that this grandfather is still more anxious.

Even when you can wear it, the style may be outdated and the clothes will lose their luster. So there is no need to waste, but this is also a piece of grandpa's heart, and it is worth cherishing no matter what.

Grandpa has done a lot of things for himself, grandpa knows that he doesn't like to eat fatty meat, so when making meat, he will leave these fat meat silently checks for himself, and he likes to eat some small snacks in his usual life, and grandpa will prepare some healthy snacks when he comes to the house, which is usually made by himself.

I am a child in the countryside, and now the lobster in the summer is relatively popular, and the ** sales are relatively high, but since I went home, my grandfather brought all the lobsters to me to eat, and he didn't sell them anymore, and he sold them before I came back.

When I was born, our family was actually very poor, and when I was later, my grandfather was very old, his hair and beard were gray, and he had a hard time picking me up, but he would often hold me, and every time I got out of school, my grandfather would pick me up.

Hunan grandfather bought more than 30 skirts for his newborn granddaughter, this is the next generation, first of all, some old people are out of a sense of guilt, want to make up for it here in the grandchildren. Secondly, some elderly people want to relieve this anxiety because of anxiety. In addition, the elderly are generally more tolerant and tolerant.

Hunan's grandfather bought dozens of skirts for his newborn granddaughter, and such news resonated with netizens, and everyone thought that this might be the next generation. In fact, there are several psychological causes of next-generation parenting, and it is not without reason.

First of all, some elderly people are motivated by a sense of guilt. When they are parents, they may feel that they are not accompanied by their children because they are busy with work and other reasons, after all, they are parents for the first time at that time, and they have no experience, and some things may not be good enough. Now that I have a granddaughter, I want to make up for my grandchildren, so as to alleviate the guilt I feel about my son or daughter, so I will love my grandchildren so much.

Secondly, some elderly people are anxious. As the elderly get older, they have less contact with friends, and their bodies are gradually deteriorating. In this case, it is inevitable that there will be a little sadness in the heart.

In addition, seeing the grandchildren grow up, in the process of getting along with the grandchildren, there will inevitably be a sense of anxiety in my heart that the years will pass too quickly, and I am also afraid of being separated from the children, and I have a sense of fear of the future. Sometimes, in order to alleviate this feeling of anxiety, I give all my love to my children.

In addition, the elderly are generally more tolerant in their hearts. As people grow older, they have different attitudes towards things, and they look at things from different angles, and their thoughts are often more mature. They are more tolerant of the world in their hearts, and they see many things very thoroughly, not as narrow as young people, so they are the same for children, they are very pampered and tolerant.

For young people, they feel that their parents are too pampered by their children.

The above are some of my understanding of the next generation.

It's true that older people will see that their grandchildren are very close and will want to give them everything they have.

Grandpa Hunan bought more than 30 skirts for his newborn granddaughter, which is how the next generation treats his daughter, and he does not treat his granddaughter with all his love.