Qingming on the new grave. Can I have saffron on my grave?

If it is the death of the elderly, the proportion of red and pink flowers can be appropriately increased, and these warm colors can better reflect the lingering feelings of the younger generations. It should be noted that unless there are special circumstances, it is better not to use flowers of bright colors with a strong aroma, so as not to give the impression of disrespect for the deceased.

For the Qingming Festival in leap February, according to the traditional culture of "leap month Qingming does not go to the grave", there is generally no need to go to the grave to sweep the tomb. However, this is just the concept and traditional customs of the old people, in fact, whether you need to go to the grave to sweep the tomb also needs to be determined according to local customs and religious beliefs, leap February does not code the tomb of the saying, Jingmen City Traditional Culture Communication Association vice president mentioned in an interview that this statement has appeared in Hubei, mainly to remind us to go to the ancestors in advance, to express filial piety, do not delay until the leap February. Qingming Festival is a traditional ancestor worship festival, usually around April 4 or 5 of the Gregorian calendar, which is the time of the Qingming Festival in the lunar calendar.

At this time of the Qingming Festival, it is generally believed that the yang energy is growing, which is suitable for activities such as worshipping ancestors, sweeping tombs, planting trees, and walking green. In the selection of the specific time to go to the grave, there are some suggestions: 1. On or around the day of the Qingming Festival:

On or around the day of the Qingming Festival is the best time to go to the grave, because this time is in line with the solar terms and is also the traditional time to worship ancestors. 2. Avoid the peak period of the festival: During the Qingming Festival, due to the concentration of people's sacrificial activities than or closed, there may be traffic congestion, surging and other situations, so it is best to avoid the peak period of the festival as much as possible and choose a relatively free time to commemorate the source.

3. Follow family traditions: Some families have their own special or closed sacrificial habits and traditions, and at this time, you can choose the time to go to the grave according to the family customs and traditions.

OK. On the question of the timing of the Chinese New Year's Eve worship of the dead.

Participant: It's about to be the Chinese New Year's Eve, and there is a custom on our side that we invite the deceased grandparents back on the evening of the Chinese New Year's Eve, and then send them away on the morning of the second day of the new year.

Director: Hehe......Definitely not good.

AUDIENCE: What should we do if we don't invite us? There are also those who have gone beyond heaven.

Director: Actually, the winter solstice is their New Year, and the winter solstice itself has been invited.

Participant: Is there anything else I need to do during the Chinese New Year?

Director: The New Year is the New Year of the living, don't celebrate the New Year with the Yin people, the Yin people celebrate the Yin Year, and we live the Yang Year.

Participant: You don't have to pay tribute, do you?

Director: It should be okay to pay a memorial at noon in the Chinese New Year's Eve, if there is a piece of enlightenment, it is no problem to bow and burn incense, but in the evening, don't offer it again!

Note: The method of worshiping the dead at home: put a clean table in front of the Buddha platform (other rooms can also be used), put the ancestors' ** upright, if not**, you can write the number on yellow paper and put the name vertically.

Then water and fruits, flowers, oil lamps (no candles are required for home offerings), incense, chanting, and burning the small house. After the festival is over, the incense can be put away after it has been burned. In general, it is best to leave the portrait or tablet outside before 2 p.m. throughout the day. ）

1. Going to the grave on the Spring Festival is a very important custom for every family. Going to the grave to worship the ancestors is a grand folk activity during the Spring Festival, which is to express gratitude and nostalgia for the ancestors, and hope that the ancestral gods will bless the future generations with prosperity, happiness and health.

2. Qingming Tomb, between April 4 and 6 of the Gregorian calendar every year is the Qingming Festival, which is also called the March Festival in ancient times, which is one of the important traditional folk festivals in China, and was included in the first batch of national intangible cultural heritage in 2006. In 2008, it was officially established as a national holiday.

3. Go to the grave in the middle of July (Halloween). July 15, the day the ghost gate was opened.

4. Pure digging winter to the grave. Tomb sweeping on the winter solstice means that according to traditional customs, you should go to the grave every year on the day of the winter solstice.

Qingming Festival is a major festival every spring, at this time many people will go home on vacation to visit the grave, which is one of the traditional customs in our country. During the Qingming Festival, there is also a certain amount of attention to going to the grave, you can go alone or as a family, these are all okay, and there is nothing to pay attention to.

You can go alone, you don't have to go together.

Since many people will have their own things to be busy, so there may be a certain difference in the time of many people going to the grave to sweep the grave, and it is generally difficult to go to the grave together as a family.

Qingming Festival is not only a traditional festival in China, but also a legal holiday. When it comes to Qingming Festival, there will be a holiday all over the country. At that time, the places will become crowded. If you have relatively free time, you can go to the grave in the morning and evening to avoid the traffic rush hour during the Qingming Festival.

OK. It is permissible to go to the tomb alone on the Qingming Festival, unless there are some special customs and taboos in the place. The time and method of going to the grave on the Qingming Festival vary according to the time and place, but due to people's respect and worship for the experience of the ancestors, there is often a phenomenon of conformism, which violates the original intention of the experience of the ancestors.

Therefore, as long as it is conducive to physical and mental health, social harmony, and family harmony, the time of going to the grave should be determined according to the actual situation of the individual, or the method of not going to the grave and using the method of net sacrifice and planting trees without burning paper.

First: little dolls, minors can't go to the grave (alone), and it's hard to hear, omitted, only talk about scientific explanations, the doll has poor concentration, and the grave will burn money and paper, if the minor goes to the grave alone for fear of causing a mountain fire;

Second: It is better for new daughters-in-law and pregnant women not to go to the grave: the harmful words are difficult to hear, so they are omitted. To be scientific, the new daughter-in-law is afraid of mistakes, and pregnant women are afraid of power and tire gas when they are unable to move;

Thirdly, a married woman cannot go to the grave with her brothers and sisters in her mother's family, but she can go to the grave with her husband and in the husband's family, because in her mother's family, the woman's right to sacrifice is no longer there.

What kind of flowers can you bring to the tomb on the Qingming Festival? What is the right thing to bring to the grave on the Qingming Festival? What should I pay attention to in the selection of Qingming Festival tribute?

1. Do not use any meat and other fishy things.

2. It is better to sacrifice vegetarian food, fruits, snacks, dried fruits, vegetarian wine and other foods.

3. You can use the food that the ancestors liked when they were alive.