Many people say that the second marriage must be as happy as the first marriage, is this true?

According to the data, the number of marriage registrations in the country in 2020 will be 10,000, and the corresponding number of divorce registrations will be 10,000, and the proportion of divorce in marriage will be. Accompanied by a divorce rate.

Increasingly, people choose to remarry or remarry people to form a new family.

Some people say that a second marriage is not as goodFirst marriageIs that really the case?

First marriage, the first time a woman tastes the sweetness and romance of love, and regards marriage as a happy romance; thinks that he is a little princess, a man is to pamper himself, tolerate all he has, and understand that marriage is not the same as love.

Second marriage, women at this time have experienced a relationship and a marriage, so they will be more cautious when choosing, and will not be as dazed as when they first choose marriage, they are afraid of being hurt again, so they will consider this man more seriously, to see if this man is worthy of their love, whether they are worthy of entrusting the rest of their lives, so they will be more cautious when choosing.

Of course, the choice of second marriage depends on the situation. If one party has a child, it is estimated that few people are willing. After all, it is the crystallization of someone else's love. Few people don't care.

Many people divorce no matter what the reason, their hearts must have been hurt, so when they remarry, they must have chosen and chosen, but the second marriage will definitely not believe in love like the first marriage, and most of them belong to living together. If you encounter a similar situation and reason for divorce when you first get married, you will be suspicious. So both sides will be on guard.

Everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness, and it is not that after being married once, they are not eligible to marry again. Marriage requires openness, and you need to trust and support both parties. Because you are each other's family, the most solid backing.

No matter how much wind and rain the other party suffers outside, home is the belief that supports him to fight to the end. Therefore, whether it is a first marriage or a second marriage, trust is very important. Marriage is not easy, but it is done and cherished.

I don't think it's necessarily like this, there are many people who are happier in their second marriage than in their first marriage, in fact, I think this kind of thing is still divided, and I don't need to care if it's a first marriage or a second marriage.

That's the case, because the two people in the second marriage are basically not because of love, but because they are making do with life, and there will be some gap between the two people, it is impossible to be the same as the first marriage, and the relationship between the husband and wife is very close.

Whether you are happy or unhappy has little to do with whether it is your first marriage or your second marriage, whether it is several marriages, finding the person who can make you laugh is the happiest state of life.

I don't think so, because finding the right person in marriage and finding the right way to get along is the most important thing, and there is no need to get entangled in one marriage and two marriages.

I think the probability of happiness is still very low. After all, people who are married for the second time, when they choose marriage, they will pay more attention to the external material requirements. I won't really give my feelings.

People who are married for the second time may also be happy, after a failed marriage, people who are married for the second time know how to cherish the person in front of them, and whether the marriage is happy depends on how they operate.

I think it is possible to be happy in a second marriage, but you need to find someone who suits you, and the probability is generally relatively large, because there will be experience.

Very happy. In real life, many divorced people, whether they are men or women, have a question, that is"Is there happiness in a second marriage? "The answer is often no happiness.

For example, if you have a child and the man has a child, but your economic conditions are not good, the biggest problem facing the second marriage is the economic problem, and many second-married couples quarrel not for the sake of the children, but for the money. So, in this case, if the woman marries for the second time, will the man choose to pay unreservedly? Especially for women who marry with boys, how many men will treat them as their own children?

Even if you say that your second marriage is going well, others will not believe you and think that you just want to laugh. Just like some people go out to work and only report good news and not bad news, in order not to worry their families, they put all their grievances in their stomachs.

But what I want to say is that we can't generalize. There are two sides to a coin. We can't just look at one side.

In fact, if you think about it carefully, many people say that the second marriage is unhappy, and the thief shouts to catch the thief, and he can't help himself, but there are also a few people who say that the first marriage is nothing more than that. Who can say that my first marriage will be happy? In life, how many couples who are married for the first time and couples who are married for the second time quarrel over children or money, and some even calculate each other to reduce the time of divorce"Losses"。

This is the unhappy first-time couple, of course, there are also happy first-time couples, two people tolerate each other, understand each other, have me and you between each other, it is true love, and they can share weal and sorrow.

In this case, there are joys and sorrows in the first marriage, why can't the second marriage be without happiness? Why do you have to say that the second marriage is unfortunate, and you have overturned a boatload of people, and some of them have written about their second marriage experience in order to prove that what they said is right. Among them, there is one that impresses me very much, it is a divorced man who spent 100,000 bride price to marry a divorced woman home, and after marriage, he said that the divorced woman is very selfish and always calculates him, and there is no benefit, and the advice to all unmarried men is:

Don't marry a divorced woman, you will regret it.

After reading it, I think that the public says that the public is reasonable, and the mother-in-law says that the mother-in-law is reasonable, and if she is a divorced woman, she may regret marrying a divorced man, she wants nothing, and she has to do laundry, cook for him, and have children. But a person's second marriage is unhappy, it does not mean that all people's second marriage is unhappy, as I said earlier, a coin has two sides, there is suffering and a happy marriage on the head, and the second marriage is naturally the same, I can't see the second marriage is unhappy, and then compare with myself, and find that my second marriage is unhappy, so I resonate, subconsciously, the second marriage is unhappy.

If you really feel unhappy in your second marriage, there is only one explanation. "You didn't meet the right person"。To put it bluntly, if you meet the wrong person, whether it's your first or second marriage, you're going to be unhappy.

But if you meet the right person, you can have happiness no matter how many marriages you have.

As the saying goes: husband and wife are concentric, and their profits are broken. In the second marriage, as long as two people have no feelings, no trust, no empathy, no tolerance and understanding, no fundamental solution to the problem, and just want to live together, then they will definitely not be happy.

The first marriage is more simple, the emotional attitude is more concerned, will put themselves in the other party's shoes, the second marriage they have their own thoughts, the interests are more important, never easy to deliver trust.

The biggest difference is that people who are married for the first time are full of yearning for love and are relatively simple, while people who are married for the second time become more realistic after experiencing the polishing of marriage.

I think there is a very big difference between the two, two people in the first marriage have one heart for the children, and the two people in the second marriage have selfish intentions.

I think it is very important to have a sincere heart for your partner, regardless of whether you are married for the first time or the second marriage, and the most fundamental difference between them is that they have been married before the second marriage.

I think people who are married for the second time will live happily, because this is the second marriage, and they will definitely choose someone who is good to them, so they will be happy.

Of course, they are happier, because they know how to manage their marriage better after experiencing a failed marriage, so they will be happier when they get married for the second time.

That's right, as long as the two people have a deep relationship, they will definitely live a very happy life, and it depends on how the two people maintain the development of the family.

Many of the people around me who are married don't think that a few are really happy, most of them are making do with their lives, and there are also children for reasons, and some people are for face reasons. There are many second marriages, but I haven't seen any happier ones, all of them are selfish, and some people are dying to save face.