Why don t men marry women who have cohabited ? There are several reasons for this

My friend, Mr. Zhang, once said in the company's office. Realizing that the woman he loves has lived together, he definitely can't accept it. The woman has cohabitation experience and can deal with her, but will not marry her.

He used to have a girlfriend, but they broke up after a year of dating, because he accidentally found out that his girlfriend had lived with his ex before.

Mr. Zhang was very disgusted at the time, he always felt that his girlfriend was untidy, and then he was not as good as before, and his mentality suddenly became very indifferent. No matter how much his girlfriend loves her, it is really difficult for him to let go of his concerns, and the relationship between the two gradually becomes colder and colder from enthusiasm, and finally the relationship collapses. Mr. Zhang did not feel sorry for this matter, but was very glad that he felt that a woman who had lived together could not be married.

He can fall in love with her, but he will never get married.

After that, Mr. Zhang chased other women, and it was still the same. For women who have lived together, he is just playing, and it is not very possible to get married. One of the biggest reasons why men don't marry women who have lived together is that they want to be white, and they are unwilling to take responsibility for their feelings.

Getting along with women, this kind of man is difficult to give sincerely, just casually playing, until the relationship is cold, after breaking up with each other, they will pursue the perfection of other women again.

This suggests that a woman in love, when getting along with a man, must observe more of his sincerity. Once you find out that he can't be responsible for you, don't blindly invest. This kind of man, especially selfish, can only get you at the lowest cost and will not make your married life promise at all.

Regardless of whether he has the experience of living together or not, he will ask that the woman has no past, and it is not worth the woman's investment.

Another reason why men don't marry women who have lived together is that they can't accept a woman's past and have reservations about their feelings. Unknowingly, they may cherish women and feel that women are the best women in the world. However, as soon as they learn that a woman has lived together, they immediately change their attitude, and they especially dislike women.

Even if the woman explains it to him clearly, loves her wholeheartedly, and lives with him with all her heart, she will not get his approval.

In fact, this kind of man is nothing more than loving to the point of reservation, leaving a way out for himself, and not getting along with women wholeheartedly. They blindly worry about a woman's past, but they never mention whether they have had emotional experiences before, which is not enough love. When a woman gets along with a man, she still needs to know more about his sincerity and whether he has the attitude and actions of loving you.

If a man is blindly worried about your past, and uses this as an excuse to snub you, or even betray you, he can't come out rashly.

A man who really loves you doesn't care about your past easily, but pays more attention to the present and the two of them working together to create a happy future. In the hearts of men, women who have cohabitation experience are not good women, and they subjectively mark women with false assumptions, and they will not be responsible at all. However, many women have been hurt by scumbags before, and they are not casual about their feelings, they just treat men with preconceived notions.

Women try not to easily believe in men's rhetoric, in love, if you can't see the man's sincerity clearly, don't live together rashly, in case you will be hurt in the future.

There are two reasons, the first is that there is a psychological shadow, and the second is that I feel uncomfortable doing with them.

Men will think that a woman who has lived together is not much different from a divorced woman, and will mind this matter.

They are psychologically unable to accept such a woman; Women who easily live with others are not self-respecting and self-loving, they feel that such a woman is suitable for being a red face and not a wife.

Would a man mind a woman who has lived together? In fact, many men will mind dating girls who have lived together from the bottom of their hearts. It's not because of sexism.

But there is another reason.

1.There will be estrangement in the hearts of men. For most men, they think that a cohabiting girl is equivalent to being married once, so a lot of times, I don't want to marry such a girl, or even have contact with such a girl.

This perception of men leads to estrangement between cohabiting girls. Even if a man has feelings for such a girl, they cannot fully remember the girl's past. This is a very real situation.

This is a psychology that almost most men have, but some men can control this psychology, so they can accept girls who have cohabitation experience, and some men have a hard time controlling, so they will care a lot about girls who have cohabitation experience.

2.Men are worried that this type of girl will not be able to give sincerely. When men are faced with emotional problems, they all want to find a girl who truly loves them.

They believe that only by marrying a girl who really gives can they live happily in their old age. This is a potential requirement for men to deal with emotional issues. It is precisely because of this need in the hearts of men that they care about the girls who live together.

Because men think that it is difficult for such a girl to be sincere to themselves, many times they are reluctant to fall in love and marry such a girl. Therefore, men believe that after marrying such a girl, they will not only not be able to get a sincere love, but will also usher in some tragedies in their lives. In this case, a man cannot live happily.

This is a deep thought of many people.

3.Men are worried that this type of girl still has feelings for her ex. For many men, they have some doubts when faced with emotional problems, but as they trust in girls, this suspicion fades away, but they still have some apprehension in the beginning.

It is precisely because of men's suspicion that they will care about girls who live together, because men will worry that such girls still have feelings for their seniors, and even worry that such girls are still in contact with their seniors. For most men, they think that the girl who lives together must have given all her affection to her senior, and even fell in love with her senior after a breakup, so it is difficult for a man to fully trust this kind of girl.

Of course men will mind, because men are very taboo about this aspect of things, and they want their women to be very clean. But there are also people who don't think so.

Of course I mind, I will take this matter very seriously. This is the mindset of most people. If it were me, I wouldn't have a relationship with this kind of woman at all.

The shortcomings of such a woman are obvious. Difficult to change. The girlfriend I'm looking for is always the kind of down-to-earth type.

Don't do anything that isn't simple. The greatest advantage of people is that they are simple and reliable. Everything else can be done.

It's not simple, it's unreliable, and you can't settle for it.

Then again, if it's a second marriage, the requirements will be much more relaxed. The man has already been married once, and it is unreasonable to make a lot of demands on the woman.

Some men (such as men with machismo ideas, narrow-minded men, and men with cleanliness) will mind, while some men (such as men with correct views on 3 things, and men with open hearts) will not mind.

I think no matter how much I love her, men should be more or less mindful. But I think if you're already planning to be with him, don't care about the past, and even if you do, don't say it.

Men will mind. This is because no man wants his wife to live with another man, so he will have some mind in his heart.

I think it's mainly because I've lived with a boy, so the requirements for men in this regard will be higher, not just to look at his status and appearance, but to rise to some details, so marry late.

Because men feel that such a woman is not reserved, they are more resistant in their hearts and are not interested in such a woman.

When it comes to the topic of "cohabitation", the controversy has always been very big, although the society is now open, but when it comes to marriage, men still hope that their wives are a woman who has nothing to do, why do men who look at it care so much about it? Today we will analyze the reasons.

Because cohabitation means the fact that you have a husband and wife affair with someone else, it seems unfair to people who do not live together.

Summary. Hello, if the man doesn't love the woman, he will live with the girl. Everyone expresses love in a different way.

Some girls will feel that true love is that the lover will give him whatever he wants, and the two will never be separated; There are also girls who believe that boys will not like casual girls, so they must insist on not living together without getting married. Just look at your girl's usual personality to know what kind of person she is. Even if some people don't love each other, they will be with each other and hang on to him.

Hello, if the man doesn't love the woman, he will live with the girl. Each Qiaosanhu person expresses their love in a different way. Some girls will feel that true love is that the lover will give him whatever he wants, and the two will never be separated; There are also girls who think that Minba boys will not like casual girls, so they must insist on not living together without getting married.

Just look at your girl's usual personality to know what kind of person she is. Some people don't love each other, but they will be with each other and hang on to him.

Two people live together, the man's mobile phone is not shown to the woman, and even when he sleeps, he has to put the mobile phone under the pillow and press it for what.

Kiss, because boys have secrets, mobile phones can't be shown to girls, so it's good to hide.

There's also pretending to love you very much, but everything is guarded against you, and there's playing games before any relationship is public.,Add another woman's game number to hide the relationship.。

Kiss, this boy doesn't love you very much, it's just that while being with you, he is still talking about other girls, a proper scumbag, it is recommended to break up as soon as possible.

Now I'm living with him, and he's beaten me out of his temper, and he's chimed me out of money, but I feel that he doesn't love me, but I regret that I love him too much, what should I do? But Shenna is going on like this, and I am really uncomfortable every day, and every day I will be suspicious and cranky.

Kiss, he started beating you, and cheated you out of money, do you think he will marry you in the future, so Zixiang is married, he may beat you after marriage, and it is best to break up as soon as possible.

I may not regret it in the future.

But I'm so uncomfortable, I really can't get out, I love him too much, what should I do.

Dear, I can teach you to be nice to you, not to treat you like this.

If he doesn't change, you'll have to leave him.

Otherwise, it will be too dangerous for you, even though you love him very much.

We can communicate better with this, unlimited times.

If a woman has a history of cohabitation, it means that the woman is very indecent, and it is not necessarily clean.

Because I don't like each other, this is actually related to cultural traditions, so this situation will occur.

This is because men are very mindful that their women have cohabited with someone else, and then they are also very disgusted, so this situation will occur.

Of course, men will mind women who have lived together, because their thinking is actually a bit conservative, and they want their girlfriends to be pure and flawless.

Will mind, because men are very narrow-minded and think that women who have lived together are impure, so they will mind.

Men will mind, the possessiveness in men's hearts is very strong, they all want this woman to belong to them all the time, and they don't want to be shared by other men.

In fact, women's willingness to live with men is mostly caused by these 4 reasons: their feelings for each other have reached a certain level and they are willing to accept further development; Curious about cohabitation and want to try cohabitation and understand the details of each other's lives; dedication, thinking that not living together means not loving each other; Being coaxed, he doesn't have enough bottom line and resistance, and whatever a man says, he is ......

When the love is strong: let alone living together, even the child can give birth to you. Emotions are the best "incubator" in the relationship between the sexes, and when the love is strong, many times they are willing to do it for each other.

And when the relationship between a woman and a man is deep, let alone living together, even if she knows that giving birth to a child will suffer great pain, she is willing to give birth to a man ...... even if she gives birthOn the other hand, if they have little affection for each other, they will generally refuse each other's request to live together......

Long-term love: want to get to know each other in cohabitation life and test each other in details. There is also a type of woman who knows that they have not lived together with each other, and the other person they see may be him after "carefully packaged", not the real him, so they agree to live together, and will try to observe what kind of person the other party is in the daily trivialities, give each other a chance to "run in", and let the other party see a real ...... of themselves

In fact, many men and women like to live together before marriage, and it is because they are afraid that they will find out that the other party is a sloppy person after marriage, a person who does not close the door when he goes to ......the toilet, does not flush after convenience, and does not like to do houseworkMany problems, if encountered before marriage and properly resolved, will not ......be bloody when encountering similar situations after marriageOf course, if you find that the other party has alcoholism, leg splitting, domestic violence and other behaviors, you can also stop the loss in time, so as not to fall into ......

Dedication: Being easily coaxed by the other party, thinking that not wanting to live together means not loving the other party, and taking the initiative to dedicate himself to the other party. Some women mistakenly think that when they fall in love, they have to be with each other, and they have to dedicate themselves to each other.

Of course, there are also factors in the sweet talk and coaxing of men, but in the end, they are willing to each other. It's just that "cohabitation" is linked to "love", thinking that living with each other means loving each other......There is even the wrong idea that "if you give your body to each other, you love each other" ......Probably, it's because of the scumbag who said "You don't love me, otherwise why don't you live with me" ......

Unprincipled bottom line: I don't care about cohabitation, I don't care about having sex, and I don't know how to protect myself. Nowadays, the concept of marriage and love is relatively open, and it is no longer possible to live together and have sex only when you are married, but many people taste the "forbidden fruit" ...... earlyThey don't care about cohabitation, they don't care about having sex, they can do anything with each other, they can do ...... anythingFor this reason, it is possible to get pregnant before marriage, but there is no ...... to give birth to the child

ActuallyFemale friends should be more self-loving, and they should also have a basic moral bottom line and behavior bottom line, know what they can do and what they can't do, protect themselves, and take care of themselves