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My husband told you that he has no feelings for his ex-wife, which can be believed, and the other party is showing you that he only loves you and will not love his ex-wife anymore, you can trust him, so that you can manage your current married life.
In fact, the second marriage is not so terrible, although there is no heart-to-heart, but if the relationship between two people can continue to improve, then all the estrangement is not a problem, and it can also make this marriage go further and more successful.
The lifestyle of a halfway couple is very simple, two people work separately, and when they return home, they are just partners, each with their own ideas, each with their own career, and they will not suffer from gains and losses as before, as if nothing matters, almost everything will not have the same idea. In fact, this is the traditional concept of second marriage, and it lives up to its sincerity. This kind of thinking is actually very scary, so that many people after divorce are afraid of getting married again and don't want to give their feelings easily.
However, now the thinking is not so feudal, as long as it is a marriage, it doesn't matter if it is the first marriage, the second marriage, if you do not operate well, then it will definitely end in failure, on the contrary, if you summarize the failure in the first failed marriage, and manage it well in the second marriage, then the second marriage will also be a good marriage, so how to manage the marriage and enhance the relationship in the second marriage? Let's take a look at what people have to say!
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A couple who have been married for two years believe that the most important point of the second marriage is trust, and two people must establish trust, which is too important, without trust, you will find that everything is not going well, full of suspicion. In order to establish mutual trust, two people can usually chat together, talk about the first failed marriage experience of two people, this is not nostalgia, but looking for problems, and finding the problems that lead to the incompatibility of husband and wife feelings can be well avoided These problems, and the relationship between two people will get better and better.
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A couple who have been married for six years think that they hope that couples who are married for the second time will not see marriage too complicated, in fact, it is very simple, what is the difference between the second marriage and the first marriage, don't be embarrassed.
is imprisoned by thoughts, and it is clear that the marriage of the second marriage will be easier, because they all know their own failures in their relationships, and the two people occasionally talk about the future, and find their own shortcomings, and the relationship between the two people will gradually heat up.
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If your husband tells you that he has no feelings for him in the early stage, I personally think that in most cases, such words are still not credible, and the specific reasons and reasons I have summarized as follows.
First of all, as the saying goes, a day husband and wife are 100 days, since he has lived with his ex-wife for a period of time, then naturally there is a certain emotional foundation, although later due to various reasons led to the final divorce of the two, but most men are more nostalgic, especially when your husband, in this marriage is a certain responsibility, he will naturally have a certain sense of guilt for his ex-wife, and naturally have a deeper affection for his ex-wife, This kind of affection cannot be let go of no matter what.
On the other hand, the vast majority of men know that their lovers tend to be jealous, so your husband also intends to say such things to you, and wants to repeatedly confess in front of you that there will no longer be any connection between himself and his premise, and always emphasize to you that he and his ex-wife have no feelings, and the purpose of doing it is not only to be afraid that you will be jealous, but also to fear that the two of you will have certain conflicts in marriage in the future, after all, he has experienced a failed marriage, in the future life, He still wants to do his best to maintain the marriage with you and make your relationship more long-lasting.
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There are two different versions of this issue, first, it is true that the man and his ex-wife have no feelings, and even divorced after breaking their hearts. 2. Making up lies in order to get a new love is a common method used by flowery men. Between the two, who is true or false, it must be time to tell.
Therefore, I hope that if modern young women want to live with this kind of man, they must first find out the details of the other person, and then have a relationship, so as not to regret it.
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Dear, this must be believed, because after all, it is his husband, if he has no feelings for his ex-wife, this is very normal, if there is feelings, then it is impossible to become an ex-wife, so if the ex-wife has no feelings, you must believe it, and you must believe it.
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Hello, my husband's words can be trusted. Since it is an ex-wife, it is already a past relationship, and if your husband says this to you, it means that she has let go of her ex-wife.
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I can't believe it completely, I can only say that the feelings are not so deep, but there must be some beautiful little fragments that he may recall.
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Generally speaking, if he has feelings for his ex-wife, it is impossible for you to get divorced and marry you again, so it should be emotionless and should be believed.
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It's so reasonable, almost any woman can't refute it, including me, yes, don't talk about men, women are the same, how can a man who once loved say forget it, but at least we don't usually think about it or contact it, but it's just hidden in the deepest part of memory, who has the ability to erase the experience and emotions of the past?
But it is unknown whether this wife can accept this husband's words, what if this wife has only loved her husband and a man in her life? And my husband once loved his ex-wife, and now he says that he can't forget it, although he shows that he no longer loves, but who knows if there will be a day when the old love will be rekindled, after all, many men are moved again by their ex-girlfriends, and this situation is also there.
So some netizens said that although she won the truth, she lost the sweetness of love, and this wife can only accept it in reason, not necessarily in love.
In fact, two people should still leave some personal space for each other, so that the other party has some memories and some good memories of themselves, which is the right thing to do, don't be aggressive, and make the other party feel very uncomfortable.
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One day is a hundred days of favor for husband and wife. Therefore, it is impossible for a person to have no feelings for his ex-wife or ex-husband. However, few people say that this feeling of being buried poses a threat to existing marriages.
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Since you have chosen to be with him, you must trust him, and if there is no trust between two people, it is inevitable to quarrel and separate.
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The man said that he had no feelings for his ex-wife, and it was definitely impossible for him to think about it, because two people must have feelings from love to marriage to entering the marriage hall. He said that Tsai You has no feelings for Mo Song now, and it may be that you are more important than him in his mind.
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I think if you are with your boyfriend and he can truly love you, it means that he has forgotten every relationship with his ex-wife, there are encounters and misses, there are joys and pains, this is the normal state of love.
Some people will be very calm in the face of missing out, they know that the past cannot be traced, since they have missed it, even if they force it, they will not let the other party return to your side, so forget it, let this relationship get together and disperse.
And some people don't think like this, they will always be entangled in the past relationship, the person in the past, they will think about redemption, thinking that the two of them will be together again, even if there is little hope, they are willing to try their best.
There's nothing wrong with trying to strive for your own happiness, but it's because you haven't confessed yet, or you know that the other person has a crush on you, and if you know that the other person doesn't like you, or has already rejected you, and you continue to dwell on you, it's your fault.
Since you are not destined to be a person, let each other go, and don't look back to him again and again, there is no point.
At the beginning of love, everyone wants to be able to stay together, but there will always be some people who miss each other for some reason, no matter what the reason is that you separate, don't look back.
Maybe you're forced to separate, maybe you're still in love, but since you've missed it, you have to accept that fact and live your life at the same time.
If you miss love, don't think about starting again, and don't look back if you miss it.
There are no ifs in life, missing is missing, no matter how hard you try, you can't go back to the past.
Even if you start all over again, it may still be like this, so don't dwell on it anymore.
Some results are doomed, some regrets are inevitable, as long as you love each other well, it is better to separate well, don't let each other resent each other.
If God destined you to be together, then your fate will not be broken, but if God wants you to separate, then you must not force it anymore.
Don't love someone who missed, since you missed it, it means that you have no chance with each other, since you missed it, let yourself go.
For past feelings, you can recall, you can miss, but you don't have to look back, some feelings are enough to have once in a lifetime, there is no need to start all over again.
People who missed, don't look back, don't regret the love that Zhou Qing missed, no one can say anything about feelings, only love well when you love, even if you miss it in the end, then there is no regret.
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If you follow what he said, the grandson is credible, and he has been divorced for 6 years, even if he felt the Ling chain before, it has faded.
If you think this person is good, you don't need to dwell too much on his past, as long as he is with you now.
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Can't believe everyone, he let Yun say that he has no relationship with this girl or something when he talks to another person, and then goes to attract the attention of others, and in the end he can't give you anything, Tan Liang He just treats you as a spare tire, if which hope is big and which is with whom?
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Don't believe it. It should be that there was affection when I got married, but since I had a new person, my heart has shifted.
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Under normal circumstances, it is normal for a divorced man not to contact his ex-wife. Because, legally speaking, if the divorce is decided, the relationship between the husband and wife has indeed broken down, and it is normal for the husband and wife to generally stop contacting each other after the divorce.
Even if it is an agreed divorce, both husband and wife have been ruthless, signed the divorce agreement, and ruthlessly went to get the divorce certificate, and it should be normal to stop calling the ex-wife after the divorce.
If the ex-wife thinks that the divorce is a mistake, as long as the ex-husband has not remarried with someone else, she can take the initiative to contact the ex-husband. In the case that both men and women voluntarily resume their relationship as husband and wife, they may go to the marriage registration office to register their remarriage and become husband and wife again.
The following are the legal provisions for remarriage.
Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China
Article 30 After divorce, if a man and a woman voluntarily resume their relationship as husband and wife, they must go to the marriage registration office to register their remarriage.
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You shouldn't go to Zao Xingli at all to ask him if he has feelings, he said he has no feelings, you take the thought and say you don't believe it, he said that if you have feelings, you must be jealous again, so don't ask again, it's not necessary, after asking, you can only make yourself feel very bad and search for it.
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Of course, this situation is also credible, if they have feelings, he can't get a divorce, so he says that if they get divorced, it means that their relationship is over.
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Based on the fact that you have been with this man for a while, Lu Xiaomo can judge whether his words are true.
This kind of thing needs to be felt with your own heart. Accompaniment.
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What he does to his wife will do to you, even if the two of them have no feelings, they don't have to say that the wife who used to suffer together is worthless, which shows that this man has a problem with his character.
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Men are self-interested, and they are very considerate of themselves. And if a man says this to you, it's even more implausible, if you don't love, you can't be together, will you be under the same roof with someone you don't like? And the two of them used to have so many intimate acts.
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My husband said that he loved me, but he divorced his ex-wife and didn't leave home, for the sake of his parents, he didn't want them to continue to worry, and he divorced his ex-Tansou wife but didn't leave home. It is actually not advisable to let Lu Li behave like this. Men usually hide their divorce from their parents.
Don't believe what he says.
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Shouldn't. If he really loves you very much, then he will definitely respect your opinion, but he is like this, half-heartedly, ignoring your pain, and talking about the suspect shows that he doesn't care about you, let alone loves you.
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This shows that the ex-husband is possessive, can't tolerate others to live better than him, misses the old love, but is also small-minded.
It is recommended that you try to adjust your mentality, put your whole mind on running a good family first, you have two children with your husband, it is not that you have no feelings at all, don't think too much, your heart will be tired, people will be more annoying, you have not had a bad life, it depends on whether you want to have a good life, for the child to have a complete home, you are more considerate, pay more, I believe that your husband will see it in his eyes, keep it in his heart, and the feelings will slowly heat up, and everything will get better.