Why are rural elderly so scary?

1. Although honest people are honest, they are not without a bottom line.

Whether in the countryside or in the city, there are many honest people, their characters are particularly soft, and their characters are made of water. Most honest people are kind, but their kindness is not without a bottom line. If you provoke the honest man, the honest man will kill people.

When I was a child, I lived in the countryside, and there was a very honest person in the village, and there was also a bully in the village, and he would have fun with this honest man when he was fine, and make all kinds of jokes. What everyone didn't expect was that this honest man actually took a very thick big wood from their house, went up and gave the bully a stick, and the bully died on the spot. The honest man is not afraid of others, but he doesn't make him anxious, he just doesn't want to turn his face.

2. Some people say that honest people are stuffy gourds, and it is particularly terrible to be angry.

An honest man doesn't have a bottom line in his heart, he doesn't have a sense of injustice, he doesn't have it, he's not like this, he knows very well in his heart, what is right and what is wrong? It's just that he has a very soft personality, he doesn't want to be an enemy of anyone, he is what we call a good old man in our eyes. But there is a premise, you can't deceive people too much, and force honest people to be anxious, and it's a big deal to break the net.

When we were young, our elders always taught us to be upright people and not to bully others, of course, when others bully us, we must not let it. Dealing with people is a science, don't think honest people are easy to bully, respect honest people is also a virtue, but also a kind of kindness.

The old people in the countryside are gossiping everywhere if they have nothing to do! People are terrible, you can't do anything about them yet! After all, they are all elders!

The old people in the countryside are terrible because the old people in the countryside are not highly educated and are always messing around.

It is an indisputable fact that the elderly in the countryside are pitiful, who calls your life bad, dealing with mud all your life, not to mention hard work, and not eating well, not dressing well, sleeping poorly, and worse, they are not able to pay social security, in the past when collectivization, the production team was so poor that they were poor, and they did not have the ability to help the peasants buy, therefore, the rural elderly have no pension after the age of 60, and the poor dilemma is inevitable.

Fortunately, the country and the first do not forget the credit of the old farmers, give more than 100 yuan of pension money every month, although the amount is not much, but it can also be rescued, in extraordinary times, buy rice porridge and send salt, you can maintain life, starvation does not die, this is the helplessness of farmers.

There are people in every dynasty who are officials, and there are people who are people, don't blame anyone, if you want to blame your own birthday, especially the three tones of birth, if you are not loud and loud enough, then it is destined to be not good in this life.

I am a farmer, but I don't feel pity, because every grain of rice, every penny is earned by my own sweat, I spend it well, eat happily, live comfortably, and I am not afraid of ghosts knocking on the door when I fall asleep in the middle of the night.

For thousands of years, the poor and unpitiful peasant people have been passed down in this way, and they feel that they are pitiful people, there must be his hate, a person, no matter what kind of family he is born in, needs his own efforts, if a person does not want to be motivated, lazy thinking, even if his parents have hundreds of millions of family wealth, they will sit and eat empty, and hard-working and self-motivated people, although they can not be rich and noble, but the small water flows, and the life is also free.

Good ugly life generation, seven points of fate, three points of hard work, if a person is not possessed by Fulu, and there is no noble person to help him, no matter how much he tosses, it will be in vain.

There is a death in life, don't care too much about the rich and the poor, after closing your eyes, the ending is the same, turning into dust, after death, no matter how good the world is, you can't see it.

The poor have a poor way of living, and the troubles of the rich, in fact, the quality of life lies in the mentality, as long as you don't care, you can't hear what others say.

There are no children to rely on. In the countryside, most of them are left-behind elderly people, who have no children to rely on and can only work on their own, so they are very pitiful.

Because the living conditions in the countryside are very poor, and there are no young people, only these old people are lonely, so I feel very pitiful.

Because they live a very hard life, they don't have much money, and their material life is not good.

In the process of the aging of the Chinese population, we will see a lot of elderly people in the countryside. Some of the elderly who stay in the countryside are because of their children, some because their relatives and friends are in the countryside and they don't want to go to other places, and some because they can take care of their younger generations at home. But there are also some elderly people who are lonely all their lives and have no ability to go to other places, etc., and I feel very sorry when you see these elderly people in the countryside.

So why do people think they are pitiful? Here are a few reasons to sum up. <>

First of all, the countryside is becoming more and more hollowed out, and there are very few young people in the countryside, and most of them are elderly. People will find life in the countryside very boring and boring, and there is a lack of entertainment. Think that they are backward and abandoned by the times, so they will feel very pitiful.

Some people also think that some elderly people in the countryside guard their own one-third of an acre of land at home, or lead the younger generations of their families to live. I feel that they are old, but they still have to run for life or younger generations, and do not enjoy the life that they should enjoy in their later years, so some people will feel that they are very pitiful, but in fact, they are very happy in this process, because they can help their children. <>

There are also some empty nesters, after the death of their other half, the children also went to other places, only they stayed at home alone, and there was no one to accompany them in their ordinary life, and when they encountered difficulties or were sick, there were no children to accompany them to help. These seniors want to be able to rely on their children when they raise their children at a young age. But when the children grow up, they all go to distant places, and they can't come back to accompany them all year round, just provide cold money to themselves.

The elderly may be looking forward to their children coming home every day, but because young people are more interested in success in the outside world, they are rarely able to go home to truly accompany their parents. When everyone sees this kind of old man, why don't they feel very pitiful? <>

Some don't even have children and relatives, so they can only live on the relief of **. When everyone sees this kind of old man, they feel that he has neither family affection to rely on, nor material security, and if there is no ** care, he may not even be able to meet his basic survival needs.

This is because there are some elderly people in rural areas who live alone and are far away from their children; This is because the elderly in the countryside live very lonely lives by themselves, and they don't have children by their side, so they will look more pitiful.

I think the reason why I feel that the elderly are pitiful is that the old people are lonely and helpless, and it is very inconvenient to live in the countryside. The main reason is that the children of the old people have gone to work in the city, leaving only the old people alone in the countryside, and the old people gather together, without the figure of young people, it looks very pitiful.

Because some rural elderly people are very lonely, their children rarely come to visit them, and their economic conditions are very poor, they live a frugal life, as long as they encounter a little difficulty, they will leave tears, so when we encounter this situation, we should help them and not let them down.

When the old man gets older, if he doesn't pay attention, he will be looked down upon by others, and he won't be able to get off the stage if he doesn't do well, and he will lose face, which is really not worth it. To sum up, there are ten mistakes that rural seniors are most likely to make:

1. I like to nag.

At home, my son is 40 years old, and he is still a child who can't grow up, and he always likes to give thousands of instructions; In society, he can't help but point fingers, don't be too lazy to pay attention to him.

2. I like to talk about things in the past.

Young people have their own experience and knowledge, and their views on things are often different from those of the elderly, and the clichés of the elderly can only make people bored.

3. Nosy.

It may be that there is no big deal all day long, no matter how big or small, as long as the old man knows, he has great interest, likes to inquire and discuss, and other people are unwilling to pay attention to him.

4. Rely on the old and sell the old.

Young people are sometimes forced to ask him for advice for the sake of face, and they always like to sell guanzi and talk about it as elders, but they don't know that these people are going to fall asleep and can't listen to it at all.

5. Reluctant to old objects.

When the countryside moves to a new house, the old people are reluctant to throw away anything, and they stuff their homes to the brim, and the juniors are not easy to say directly, and other people look uncomfortable when they come in.

6. It is not the one who speaks of children in front of outsiders.

In any case, children are the closest people to them, even if there are thousands of bad things, don't let others know, anyway, it will not help anything, and it will not do you any good.

7. Always talking about children not going home.

If you keep talking about your children not going home, it will increase the burden on your children's thoughts, but because you are too busy and don't have time to go home, your children's mental pressure will be too great.

The old people in the countryside, who have nothing to rely on, are very embarrassed, and they are really helping you look forward to it

Nowadays, some young people will choose to go to the big city to develop when they are working hard. As a result, parents at home will be neglected, which will lead some people to think that the elderly in rural China are living a miserable life in their old age. Most of this is due to the fact that young people are busy at work, especially for middle-aged people, facing the dilemma of being old and young.

The inability to take care of the elderly will make some elderly people live a more miserable life in their old age. Young people are also feeling a lot of pressure on this situation. I want to take care of my parents with me, but because the cost of living in a big city is relatively large, I don't dare to take my parents to live together.

Most of the elderly in rural areas are mainly laborers, and their children are sent out of college, and their children have their own careers. Parents are looking forward to their children being able to get ahead, and when their children have a certain economic strength, they can take their parents to the big city to develop. But as everyone knows, when the child stays in the city for a long time, life will find that the child's life personality will change greatly.

So much so that the elderly want to live with their children, but the children always excuse themselves for various reasons and ask their parents to live in the countryside. <>

The life of the elderlyAny elderly person does not want to burden his children when he is living in old age. As the saying goes, old children want to be reunited with their children when they are old, but children cannot understand their parents' intentions. Most of this has a lot to do with the financial ability of young people to live.

Young people with better financial means can get ahead in big cities, and their parents will enjoy happiness with their children in their old age. <>

The thinking of the elderly in rural areas is too traditionalFor the elderly in rural areas, when they live with young people, they will also find that they often have disputes with each other because of their different views. In order not to cause trouble to their children, parents will choose to continue to live in the countryside, only hoping that their children can often come home during the New Year's holidays. Young people should think that it is not easy for their parents, and should find time to spend with their parents even when they are busy at work.

That's because these old people are very spoiled by their children, so they don't know what filial piety is, and secondly, because many children have their own busy lives and are under a lot of pressure.

Because the two-child policy has not been opened, there is only one child in each family, so sometimes the children can't hold on to the important responsibilities of the family, so these old people will live a miserable old age. It may be that the children are developing in other places, they are very busy with work every day, and sometimes they don't have time to go home to see the elderly, so they will have a particularly bad old age.

Because these old people have no education, and they have no insurance, their lives are not guaranteed.

Because these rural elderly people are helpless, and they do not have any income, and there is no one to take care of them in their old age, it is particularly miserable.