Why are many girls so demanding of blind dates?

We often hear that many girls with average conditions have high requirements for choosing a mate, such as 150 themselves, who look average, but require their boyfriends to have a car and a house, a height of more than 180, sunny and handsome, rich and car, a house, love themselves, etc. Why is this happening? There could be two reasons:

One is excessive narcissism, unable to recognize himself, and taking the Meitu App.

and the world of Korean dramas as real, unwilling to accept themselves in reality. They tend to have the following characteristics:

1. Only oneself is worthy of love.

There's nothing wrong with loving yourself, but if you go too far, it's narcissistic. A woman who loves herself too much, the psyche is like a mirror for self-appreciation, at all times, self-awareness.

, the point of interest is on himself, and when he interacts with the outside world, he is only seeking to verify his own charm index. If you are overly concerned about any of your temperament, body organs, appearance, etc., you must always find a few reasons that can prove that you are excellent. Even if it is self-deception.

A narcissistic woman will prepare a perfect explanation for the questions of others, and even if she cannot convince others, she will put on a disdainful expression.

2. Conquering a man is just proving yourself.

A narcissistic woman will be in a group of men because of her vanity, and she can have an affair with multiple men. And the reason she does this is that she sees it as a way to validate her own charm, not so much to enjoy the pleasure as to appreciate the self-fragrance that comes out of the process. This ambiguous game has more beauty effects than any high-end cosmetics.

3. Ask your boyfriend to be absolutely loyal.

A narcissistic woman is actually very psychologically fragile, so she needs to always seek her own charm to strengthen her self-confidence. If you find a boyfriend, you must never express your affection for other women, and you must be absolutely loyal both on the surface and from the heart. Otherwise, a narcissistic woman can be a little neurotic.

Self-confidence will collapse, so it is not easy to be a boyfriend for a narcissistic woman, and sometimes the left is not good, and the right is not good. It is necessary to have absolute tolerance and self-discipline.

4. Think that your charm is absolutely powerful.

A narcissistic woman will always use a "magnifying glass" when looking at her strengths, and a "color changing mirror" when she looks at her own shortcomings, and she will also say her shortcomings as advantages from another angle, so as to give it a sense of color without any intention and fully display it in public. Therefore, narcissistic women have special sensitivity and self-training in terms of speaking voice, intonation, walking gait, body language, etc. Because she stands at the door of her self all the time, one eye staring at the outside world and the other looking inward.

They always lose no time in showing off their charms, even if they are miserable to outsiders.

5. When self-confidence is damaged, it is easy to get angry with others.

Broken self-confidence, which is probably the hardest thing for a narcissistic woman, who puts all their heart and soul into trying to defend something, can become desperate, neurotic, and even exhausted when they are substantially hurt.

At this time, it is easiest to put the dissatisfaction and nameless fire in the heart.

It seems unreasonable to sprinkle it on one's relatives and friends.

6. There is always a side of self in the depths of consciousness.

Relatively speaking, if a girl needs to go on a blind date, then he must not have found his satisfactory partner in real life or in free choice. And the reason for this is because he has too high requirements for the object or his own conditions are not good. So, in this case, you will find that among these little girls on a blind date, his requirements for the other party are often beyond his actual situation, that is, his inappropriate requirements are beyond his actual situation.

Therefore, his, the probability of success will be relatively low, and it will also make the blind date object feel not particularly good. I feel that his choice is unrealistic, beyond his own and appropriate range.

So, the probability of success is not very high.

First of all, the blind date itself is a way to find a suitable partner, so many girls will have very high requirements for the blind date, hoping to find a partner who meets their requirements. These requirements may include aspects such as physical appearance, height, occupation, income, family background, education, moral character, and character.

Second, a woman's demands on her partner can be influenced by the social and cultural environment. In some traditional cultures, women may be expected to play a more passive role in marriage, so they will be more dependent on their partner's economic and social status. In addition, in modern society, women usually pursue self-worth and independence, so they will pay more attention to whether their partners have enough qualities and abilities to support their life and development.

Finally, girls' high requirements for blind dates can also be due to their high expectations for marriage and perfectionist demands on themselves and each other. In this case, the girl may need to re-examine her expectations and values so that she can be more rational about blind dates and marriage.

The requirements for girls should be very high, because the gap between the rich and the poor in today's society is too large, and the proportion of men and women is huge. Originally, there were many fewer women, and according to the one-to-one ratio, there would be tens of millions more single men, which is a huge data. Therefore, no matter how bad a woman is, she does not have to worry about not being able to get married, because the choice is in the hands of women, and they are qualified to compare and choose.

In this way, men and women at the same level, men can fall in love with women, but women may not be able to fancy men!

If the ratio of men to women is normal, and both parties have the same choice, then there will be no single existence, and the requirements of women are generally higher!

For the current situation, I think it is normal for women to be demanding, no matter how they choose. Bless all lovers to be married.

Men should figure it out, women marry you, come to your house to live, they are not productive and they think others are demanding, no matter how high you are, you will not be asked to poke the moon, pick stars and give them to others, if you can't support yourself, do you want others to support you if you marry a daughter-in-law!

Beauties take advantage of their best youth and try to find a good family, is it wrong to ask for a higher point? If you're a woman, you're probably not much better!

People are originally Mu Qiang, not high requirements for blind dates, people are going to high places, marriage is a major event in life, the choice of marriage objects should be cautious, high requirements also include many aspects, high requirements at the same time must be excellent, evenly matched opponents can last a long time.

It should be said that everyone has the right to pursue good wishes, and both men and women will have requirements, which is a normal phenomenon in society.

Because everyone is improving, including the standard of living. So girls are more realistic.

After all, every girl wants to be one person and one heart for the rest of her life, so such a valuable and meaningful choice, of course, has to be a little more demanding.

Because too many of them want to get something for nothing.

1. There are more women than men.

2. Life is stressful, and the blind date requirements are high, so you can reduce the pressure in the future.

3. The heart is stronger

This is a normal reality, and we must strive for the sake of happiness in the future.

I'm not very good, just paint a makeup, no other level, and wait for pie to fall from the sky, which is probably a true portrayal of many girls.

Do men have low requirements for blind dates? The skin is white, beautiful and long-legged, and the average looks are not good. So why can't girls be equally demanding of boys?

Exclude some girls who really don't have self-knowledge. There is one more reason:

The blind date has inertia and thoughts, which is very similar to the habit of buying and shouting and trembling west, and there are some gender differences in ideas and work styles. For example, the girl is very good at bargaining when she buys something, and subconsciously thinks that the other party will bargain, so she first reports the "**" high, and then waits for the "bargaining price". But boys generally don't bargain when they buy things, just do it, don't pull it down!

Therefore, the criteria for choosing a mate for blind date boys are basically "in place", and they don't like to bargain, so if the standards don't match, forget it.

In fact, many girls' self-confidence comes from the highest experience. They will take away the best part of their experience. Or something that you have acquired by chance and luck, and you think that you have owned it for a long time.

This leads them to become more and more confident and more willing to sell. The self-confidence of most men comes from the actual possession, this sports car will only be confident if it is mine, and I will feel inferior if I have only done it once. "Well, why can't I afford to buy one too?

Some boys are short, and he resists when you make him pad to increase his height, and he thinks that although the pad is tall, I don't really grow taller.

Because the quality of boys in the blind date market is generally not very high, all female Liang Xiaoxing students hope that they can marry a boy who is very reliable and cautious and good, and this idea is also very normal.

Unable to recognize oneself; Nowadays, many girls mistakenly overestimate their own value;

It is precisely because of their own poor conditions that they want to change their fate through marriage.

Recently, the news that a 91-year-old girl was scolded when she proposed a blind date in the blind date corner has attracted a lot of attention and related discussions. Whether girls after the age of 30 are eligible to open conditions on blind dates requires a comprehensive analysis of Jingsheng. Specifically, it includes blind date is a major event in life, and you must meet your own requirements to be satisfied, everyone is equal in the blind date process, and you are qualified to put forward your own conditions, and the conditions proposed during the blind date should be reasonable and moderate, in line with your actual situation.

1. Blind date is a major event in life, and you must meet your own conditions to be satisfied.

The purpose of blind date is to fall in love and get married, which is a major life event that not only needs to be highly valued, but also needs to meet your own relevant requirements. ......Therefore, only if you meet the conditions you put forward when you go on a blind date, the blind date can be successful and meaningful to yourself. This is true even for girls after the age of 30.

2. Everyone is equal in the blind date process and is qualified to make their own claims.

In the process of blind date, although each person's own conditions are different, there is no difference between each other, everyone is equal. ......Therefore, everyone is entitled to make their own claims at the time of blind date. Although girls after the age of 30 are deficient in their own conditions, they are still qualified to put forward their own demands and conditions, and no one has the right to stop them.

3. The conditions proposed during the blind date must be reasonable and moderate, in line with their actual situation.

Although everyone is qualified to put forward their own requirements and conditions in the blind date process, the conditions proposed by their specific Liangbian elders should be reasonable and moderate. ......If your own request for enlightenment is unrealistic, it will not only be of no benefit to yourself, but may even cause you to suffer losses. Therefore, in the process of blind date, reasonable and moderate conditions should be put forward in combination with their actual situation, so as to make the blind date process smoother and obtain the desired result.

Of course, girls born in the 30s can open conditions for blind dates, after all, there are different expectations and needs at the same stage of life. Women over the age of 30 usually have some success in their careers and have clearer plans and expectations for their future. Therefore, it is understandable to open conditions on a blind date.

On the road to seeking the other half, anyone can open conditions.

<>First, women over the age of 30 may pay more attention to whether the values and goals of both parties are aligned. They may have gone through some emotional experiences and thought more deeply about marriage and partner. Therefore, they want to be able to find a partner who matches them and can face the challenges and difficulties of the future together.

Second, women over the age of 30 are likely to be more financially and in terms of living conditions. They have a certain income and economic base, as well as a certain social circle and lifestyle. Therefore, they have higher requirements for their future life and hope to find a partner who can build a better life together.

In addition, women born in the 30s may also hope that answering arguments can realize personal value and development in marriage. They may have some success in their careers and are confident in their abilities and talents. As a result, they want to find a partner who can support them in their career development and pursuit of their dreams.

However, opening conditions does not mean that women are too demanding or unrealistic in their requirements for blind dates. Blind date itself is a two-way process of choice, and men can also put forward their own conditions and expectations. A stable and healthy marriage can only be established if the conditions and expectations of both parties match each other.

To sum up, girls born in the 30s can of course meet the conditions, this is because they have a clearer understanding and expectations for marriage and partners. The opening conditions are not disrespectful to the other party, but to find a partner who matches them and create a happy future together. In the process of blind date, both parties should treat each other sincerely, understand and respect each other's expectations, and find a suitable relationship for each other together.