Will there be a good future for divorced at the age of 30 with a child?

Updated on society 2024-06-21
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I have just been divorced for more than a year, and I have not been pregnant for four years of marriage, and my mother-in-law has preached everywhere that I can't give birth, and my husband also gives me a face, and he will quarrel with me when he drinks, and he has beaten me. Last year, I finally got pregnant, once I had a stomachache, my mother-in-law took me to a small clinic in the town for a check-up, and the next day my mother-in-law told me that the doll in my belly was a daughter and asked me to go to the hospital. Because of this incident, I quarreled with my mother-in-law, and my husband came back from drinking and scolded me.

    I filed for divorce that day and went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to sign it. At that time, it was probably winter, I was wearing cotton clothes, and others didn't know that I was pregnant, and after returning to my parents' house, after the New Year, the amount of clothes was reduced, and my belly was getting bigger and bigger, and there were many people talking about it. I tried to adjust my mentality for the sake of the baby in my belly, and then I gave birth to a baby boy.

    It's been a tough year or so, but I think it's all worth it. Now, my ex-husband and mother-in-law have come to my door again and again to beg me for forgiveness, and I asked my mother to close the door, hoping that they will never set foot in my door again in this life. Because they are not eligible.

    Child, mom will work hard to earn money and give you the best life. Mom, I will also try to be a good mother and give you the warmest love in the world.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I divorced my husband because of my mother-in-law, who scolded me all day long, thinking that I was not diligent enough. No matter how well I did, she didn't like it. My husband has a good temper, but he doesn't care about anything, and he listens to his mother-in-law.

    It may be that my mother-in-law thinks that I am a foreigner and does not accept me from my heart. After having a daughter, she still introduced my husband to someone, and my husband didn't refuse and went on a blind date without telling me. When I got divorced, my mother-in-law told me to make it clear that I should never go back after the divorce, and they wouldn't care about my daughter.

    At that time, I secretly vowed in my heart that no matter how hard it was in the future, I would definitely let my daughter live a good life. Now I work three jobs by myself, my income is okay, and my daughter is temporarily handed over to my mother. In this life, I am grateful to no one, but to my parents.

    Mom and Dad, after my daughter makes money, I will buy you a big house and let you enjoy it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I married my ex-husband at the age of 22, and at the age of 25 I found out that he was in frequent contact with his first love, and when he divorced, he chose to ask for money instead of a daughter. My daughter was just over a year old at the time, and since the day she was born, he has not taken care of her, and I have taken care of her alone. After the divorce, I took my daughter back to her parents' house, and after that, I worked in the tailoring business while supporting my daughter.

    Here, I am really grateful to have a good mother, thanks to her, who taught me this craft and often took care of my children. Seriously, it was tiring, hard, and desperate to work alone with children, especially when the child was sick or I was sick, it would be very fragile, but I got through it. Now, my daughter is very good, smart and sensible, and I have saved some money to take my daughter and mother to travel abroad this year.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    We must face up to our divorce, divorce is not a disgraceful thing, now there are many divorced people, we don't need to be inferior, we haven't done anything wrong, it's just wrong love. Don't feel that divorce has no face, we have to let the other party know that after divorce, we can still face the crowd and the world. It's not a big deal, we're not thieves.

    We can still be human with our chests held high.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I should have listened to my parents in the first place, and I shouldn't have married far away. The living habits are different, my mother-in-law treats me badly, and my husband also thinks I am troublesome. After the divorce, I didn't know how to live, and I was really confused about the future.

    But what about the two children, they are still so young, I have to look for a job. I don't remember how many times I've cried before, and I don't remember how unwilling I was before. I have survived like this until now, and I have never been married for the sake of my two children, but my standard of living has still risen.

    I opened a small shop and business was good. As long as the two children are happy, I am satisfied.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's been 10 years since I got divorced, and my ex-husband almost didn't take care of the children, and he didn't give a penny of child support, so I relied on me to go to work alone to support my daughter. It's impossible to say it's not hard. Fortunately, her daughter is very sensible, and her current husband is also very good to her.

    I have been married to him for seven years and have a son after marrying him. Now, I am very happy, he is a good man who takes care of his family. Divorce is not terrible, what is terrible is the loss of hope in life and the loss of motivation.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Yes, good fate is regardless of age! A friend of mine has been with her daughter for more than ten years, and she has met a man who is very good to her, and he is fully committed to her and her daughter, both financially and emotionally! So a positive life, maybe happiness beckons to you!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    When I was 42 years old, I filed for divorce, and my daughter had just been admitted to college and didn't understand me very much. If it weren't for her, my father and I would have left long ago, and in order to give her a complete family, it would have been more than ten years. After the divorce, my daughter left me, and she chose to live with her father, whose economic conditions were not good, and I paid my ex-husband's card every month, and my daughter refused to spend my money.

    Sometimes I was very bitter and tired, and I persevered for five or six years, and when she got married, her father told her the truth. She invited me to her wedding. Now, my daughter has forgiven me, and I feel like I am the happiest woman in the world.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Why not. Will God treat a woman who is willing to live a hard life with her children? Even if she treats her children badly, she won't treat her mother badly.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I had a wedding with my ex, I didn't get a license, commonly known as a de facto marriage, my son is about to be seven years old this year, and I have broken up for more than three years, and now I am doing well, I bought a small two-room room, which has been renovated, and I also bought two air conditioners today, I talked about my boyfriend this year, a few days ago, I gave me 99 roses on Tanabata, my boyfriend is unmarried and childless, and he is still an only child at home, younger than his ex, my boyfriend's parents know my past and accept me, and my family is also very good to me, so I am very grateful to my current boyfriend, it is he who gave me confidence.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There is no need to think about the future is the best relief, and there is a future when you come out!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's not scary to be alone, it's scary to die with someone who makes you feel lonely. Very hesitant, after 7 years with someone who shouldn't be together, no love, very tired, he's just a scumbag! But I don't have a house, our small house is super expensive, and there is no small apartment, all of which are about 100 square meters, what should I do?

    Even the decoration has been nearly 1 million, hey, what to do, so tangled! I can feed my children, but I can't afford to buy a house, so pitiful!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Why is there no future, the future is in your own hands. I'm divorced with children, and it's false to say that I'm not tired, but it's really better than the days before the divorce.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It depends on how you manage your marriage, and it also depends on how you behave in the world, otherwise even if you get married at the age of 20 without children, there is no good future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Congratulations on having the courage to take that step, and since you have taken it, you will definitely be fine in the future. I didn't have the courage because I had two children, both of whom were too young to raise both, and I was reluctant to let go of either of them, so I had to settle for them.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The child was divorced just after the moon was over. For the sake of San'er's son, he said that he had no feelings for his daughter and would not give a penny. (The child asked her father, and I said that she was dead, that is, she must be ruthless and unrighteous, otherwise the scumbag will count on her to support her in the future) A person has cried, suffered, tired, worked hard to save money, the child is three years old, and has his own house (take the child out of the house when divorced), so women, be good to yourself, otherwise the hard work will become someone else's.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Whether the future is good or not depends on one's own efforts and mentality. As long as you are financially independent and optimistic, there is nothing you can't get by. Is it possible to rely on men to have a good future? It's funny.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I am 35, and I went out of the house with my nineteen-year-old son, although my son was naughty but sensible, and said that even if I was poor enough to pick up garbage in the future, he would pick it up with me, and he would be there when I was there. So no matter how hard and tired I am in the future, I will never give up on him

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    They are all divorced with daughters, do you have sons with them, my two sons, it's enough, it was good when there was no money before, but now there is more and more money, but the two of them are getting farther and farther apart......

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Work hard, love yourself well, and nurture your children

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I'm a man with my daughter alone, and sometimes I feel really tired.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The child is chosen by himself, and I choose that he will be responsible. There is no one more suitable than myself, as a mother I am willing to pay for him, and I hope to be healthy and safe in the future.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Look at your earning power, if you have money, you will have it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Divorced, without children, I was still disliked.

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