Can you only be regarded as a confidante, why can t you have a confidant?

I think since she said so, then whether he likes you or not, he won't be with you. Do you think he has a crush on you? If you have, then keep pursuing, if not, don't do it, and don't do your best friend, because you can't be friends anymore, then you will be very tired.

You may not like to hear what I say, but I'll still say it, what does the third year of high school mean, do you know, at such an important stage, how can you do what irrelevant things, no matter how you do it If you don't handle it well, it will have a great impact on you, or even a lifetime, the third year of high school is a turning point in your life, take advantage of it. Wouldn't it be nice to keep it like this, what do you have to say after graduation? Maybe you don't think what I'm saying is useful now, but when you go to college, you'll understand.

The third year of high school is not long.

If I were you, you might as well study hard.

And then apply to the same university as her.

Romance in college.

Be a confidant, or I'm afraid you won't even be able to be friends.

Actually, it's good to be friends, you can talk about anything.

You can do what you want, chase if you want, don't be discouraged, girls are not easy to chase now, but you have to grasp the degree, don't disgust her in the end, even friends can't do it, if you can't catch up, you can be a confidante first, anyway, there are a lot of confidantes who have become girlfriends.

In the face of love, people are selfish. Unless it's not true love, you will have an indifferent attitude towards the actions of your other half. Especially in the eyes of women, love requires absolute selfishness, and love is not allowed to be mixed with any sand.

But some people say that the highest state of love is selflessness. Are you able to accept that your partner has a confidant of the opposite sex?

True love is possessive and selfish.

I believe that many people are negative about this issue. Generally, everyone will take the initiative to keep a certain distance from other members of the opposite sex after knowing that the lead has eliminated the object, in order to avoid suspicion, it is also to show respect for the other half, so that the other half has a sense of security.

However, it is rare to meet a true friend in life, and some people will be unwilling to give up like this. On the one hand, in order not to make the subject feel uneasy, and in order to maintain friendship with confidants. In many cases, you can only keep in touch with friends quietly and try to avoid meeting each other.

It is also normal to chat occasionally through the mobile phone, in order not to let the other half misunderstand, everyone is used to deleting records after chatting, or using a calculator to disguise encrypted chat content, and they are not afraid of profiteering mobile phone chat privacy information in the face of mobile phone checks.

Besides, true confidants don't need to meet each other often, nor do they need to chat often, and the relationship doesn't need to be deliberately maintained, no matter how long they haven't met, they won't feel strange when they meet or chat again.

Everyone needs their own friends, and they should also be given appropriate personal space when getting along with partners, but they can't be completely ignored. In the right space, everyone can do what they want, but only if they respect each other and remain loyal to their feelings.

Confidantes are: mutual understanding and respect, intimate communication, trust and support, shared interests and values, selfless care and thoughtfulness, etc.

1. Mutual understanding and respect.

There is mutual understanding and respect between confidants, who are able to express their thoughts, feelings, and opinions truthfully, and who accept and respect each other's views.

2. Intimate communication.

Confidantes are able to confide in each other about their inner troubles, joys and sorrows, share secrets and confusions, and the communication between each other is intimate, sincere and unconditional.

3. Trust and support.

Confidants build a strong trust and support each other, supporting, encouraging and helping each other in the face of difficulties and challenges.

4. Share interests and values.

Confidants often share common interests and values. They may share similar life ideas and goals in life, and be able to build deeper connections on those common ground.

5. Undrafted care, private care and consideration.

Confidantes will be interested in each other and care about each other's happiness and well-being. Be willing to give time, energy, and care to the other person to ensure the other person's happiness and success. <>