If the sky is affectionate, it will eventually become a family, and if the sky is ruthless, it will

At first, when you don't have any feelings for him, he always likes to take the initiative to find you and say something very ambiguous to you, as if he really likes you, wants to develop with you, and is eager to fall in love with you.

He is very active with you, and under his initiative, slowly, you also begin to be interested in him, want to know more about him, and start to take the initiative to find him, and even care about him from time to time.

It's just that when you become more and more active, he obviously becomes cold to you, no longer takes the initiative to find you, and even when you take the initiative towards him, his attitude is very perfunctory, and he doesn't want to deal with you at all.

As a result, it was obviously him who provoked you first, but it was you who were always sad about it and never forgot it.

In your heart, you are very puzzled, why did he treat you like this, and even felt that he had any bitterness, but in fact, of course he was not, and he did not have anything unspeakable.

He didn't feel bad, but he chose to give up.

It is always said that when a woman likes someone, she is most likely to become fond of deceiving herself.

will find all kinds of clues to make yourself believe that the other party likes you, and will use all kinds of reasons to excuse the other party, so that you can believe that the other party is not deliberately snubbing you, because there are other reasons.

You always want to convince yourself and give yourself a reason to persevere, but in fact, you also know very well in your heart that the person who truly loves you will only make you feel at ease, and you will not always need you to help him find some excuses.

Don't lie to yourself, when a man doesn't take the initiative with you anymore, there's no other reason, but it's just that he really doesn't want to look for you anymore.

If you and your lover are a natural pair, then I can become a wishful family at any time. A pair of Ruyi. If it's you and your lover.

Not at all. There is no marriage, then. Either way, the final outcome is messy and scattered.

If there is love between the two, how can it be in the morning and twilight means: as long as the two love is unswerving, why should they be greedy for the joy of the morning and twilight of the dynasty and me.

This sentence comes from the Song Dynasty lyricist Qin Guan's "Queqiao Immortal Xianyun Trick".

Original text: Queqiao Immortal Xianyun is clever.

The clouds are clever, the flying stars spread hatred, and the silver man is dark. As soon as the golden wind and jade dew meet, they will win countless in the world.

Tenderness is like water, the best period is like a dream, and you can endure the return of the Magpie Bridge. If the two love for a long time, how can it be in the morning and twilight?

Translation: Thin clouds change in the sky, meteors in the sky convey lovesick grievances, and the distant and boundless Milky Way I quietly pass tonight. Meeting on the Tanabata Festival in the autumn breeze and white dew is better than those couples in the world who look together but look like each other.

Complaining about lovesickness, tenderness like water, a short meeting is like a dream, and I can't bear to look at the magpie bridge road when we are separated. As long as the two love until death, why should they be greedy for the joy and twilight of the Qing Dynasty and me.

Background: Through the story of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl, the joys and sorrows of the world are expressed in a superhuman way, such as "Nineteen Ancient Repentant Poems: Morning Glory", Cao Pi's "Yan Ge Xing", Li Shangyin's "Xinwei Qixi Festival" and so on. In the Song Dynasty, Ouyang Qianxiao Xiu, Zhang Xian, Liu Yong, Su Shi and others also chanted this theme, although the words and sentences were different, but they all followed the traditional theme of "happiness and bitterness", and the style was mournful and sad.

In contrast, Qin Guan's word can be called unique and ambitious. <>

Queqiao Immortal Qin Guan.

The clouds are clever, the flying stars spread hatred, and the silver man is dark.

As soon as the golden wind and jade dew meet, they will win countless in the world.

Tenderness is like water, the best period is like a dream, and you can endure the return of the Magpie Bridge.

If the two love for a long time, how can it be in the morning and twilight?

Note] Queqiao Xian: This tone has two bodies, and the fifty-six characters originated from Ouyang Xiu, because it has the sentence "Queyingqiao Road connects Tianjin", which is named after it; The eighty-eight characters began with Liu Yong. This tune sings Tanabata more.

Delicate clouds: Slender clouds conjure up many beautiful patterns. This sentence describes the situation of the weaver girl's labor. Legend has it that the Weaver Girl is skilled at weaving and can weave the clouds in the sky into brocade.

Flying Stars Convey Hatred: The galloping Altair reveals (long-awaited) resentment. The author imagined the two stars of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl, who were blocked by the Milky Way, flashed the look of parting sorrow and hatred.

Golden Wind: Autumn Wind. Autumn is gold in the five elements. Gyokuro: Crystal dew drops, referring to autumn dew.

Forbearance: I can't bear to look back.

Morning and twilight: day and night. This refers to the gathering of day and night.

Translation] Caiyun shows her well-behavedness, and the meteor conveys the sorrow of the cow girl.

Even though the Milky Way is wide and wide, the Cowherd and Weaver Girl on the Magpie Bridge are happy to meet.

The reunion is in the golden wind and frost descending on the sun, which is better than how many ordinary feelings in the world.

Don't say that this affection is like flowing water, and don't regret that the good times are like a dream.

Don't sigh at the Cowherd and Weaver Girl's Tanabata meeting, don't be sad and hate Shui Changdong.

As long as the true love is long-lasting, why spend this life together.

Appreciation] This is a poem of the prelude to the Qixi Festival, the beginning of the sentence shows the unique lyrical atmosphere of the Qixi Festival, "skill" and "hate", the theme of "begging Qiao" in the world of Qixi and the tragic characteristics of the story of "The Cowherd and the Weaver Girl" are pointed out, and they are practical and poignant. Through the story of the joys and sorrows of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl, it praises the steadfast and sincere love. The concluding sentence "If the two love is long, how can it be in the morning and twilight" is the most realm, these two sentences not only refer to the characteristics of the love mode of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl, but also express the author's concept of love, which is a highly concise famous sentence.

Therefore, this poem also has a cross-era and cross-border aesthetic value and artistic taste.

This word is a fusion of scenes, lyricism and discussion, describing the mythical story of the two stars of Morning Glory and Weaver Girl falling in love, giving the pair a strong human touch, and eulogizing the sincere, delicate, pure and loyal love. In the words, it is written that there are two stars in the sky, and that there are couples in the world; Its lyricism, writing mourning with music scenes, writing music with mourning scenes, multiplying its sorrows, reading it is heart-wrenching, touching and heartfelt.