I m already in my eighties, and I know that my son in his fifties is not my own, what should I do?

This problem doesn't have to be too entangled, for you now, the key is to be able to spend your old age in peace is a good ending, whether this son is your own or not, as long as you have loved him and not paid in vain, he has always been very good to you, and you should be glad to be willing to provide for your old age. The past can never come back, so it's better to face it calmly.

You should be worried that your son will know that he is not your biological and will not be good for you, at this age, do you still want to divorce your wife?

Of course, whoever has a conscience will not treat you badly, and will honor you even more, because you are too wronged ......Don't think too much about it, just spend your days in the rest.

So many years have passed, you should be going to let go, whether it's yours or not, I think the kindness is greater than the grace, so many years of friendship is greater than the blood thicker than the water!

This doesn't matter, as long as you are really filial to you, sometimes it's better to be confused, there are a lot of people who don't have children, isn't it also very good. All these years have passed, treat it the same, people's hearts are flesh and blood, change sincerity for sincerity, and spend a happy old age.

It is better to raise relatives than to raise relatives, so there is a saying that the son who bought it inherits the incense like a child.

Therefore, it is best to live your old age well. Welcome.

When you are in your 80s, you should want to open a little, and you have lived for such a lifetime, in fact, your son is not biological, and he has lived for a lifetime, so he can open a little if he wants.

What should I do if I suddenly find out that the child is not biological? Li Meow Meow gives you the answer!

I was also at the end of my freshman year, I knew that I was not biological, and I didn't believe it at first, and then I asked my mother, am I your biological child, my mother said, picked it up, your dad picked it up, asked twice, both said so, and didn't laugh, I also have a big family that loves each other, my grandparents and grandparents love me very much, and my grandfather died when he was five years old. Aunt, aunt are very good to me, my dad is also very good to me, buy anything, will give me, Qixi only sent me a red envelope, did not give my mother, the newly moved house, I also sleep in a big room, my brother sleeps in a small room, and then my mother still, when you get married, that room is still left for you, you go home in the future, just sleep there, however, my biological parents will not come to me, they really threw me away, probably thought I would have starved to death, so lucky, my dad picked me up, otherwise, now I, I would have died a long time ago, It's too similar, the night my mother gave birth to my brother, I still remember, it was 3 years old, how to deal with it?! I don't want to spend their hard-earned money anymore, I want to earn my own money to support myself and go to school on my own.

There are still a lot of hardships in life, I can't be with my boyfriend, long-distance relationship, plus my parents are opposed, and although I am not my parents' biological child, but from the perspective of kinship, my boyfriend and I have the same great-grandfather, and then I have a village with him, the custom of this village is not to marry the village, and he has been in love for a year, and I don't know if I can get married, but I have to have confidence, if I don't have confidence, how to proceed! The important thing is that my boyfriend heard about it from his parents, and he originally told me two years later, and then I asked him to tell me, and he did.

To be honest, you must be very frightened and scared, all of this suddenly does not belong to you, and it is unacceptable to change anyone, but the grace of raising is greater than the grace of life, and the biological parents suddenly jumped out to recognize their relatives, your parents must be more flustered and anxious and scared than you are in your current mood, they love you and love you So much so that they are so flustered that they make the wrong decision on your behalf "I don't agree with you to meet your biological parents", the feelings of your siblings are real Don't doubt What is more valuable than this? The main thing is that the appearance of your biological parents breaks the existing situation and the balance of everything that exists, people are emotional, but we have to learn to control our emotions and feelings.

Or do you care about your parents as before, for your biological parents, you don't have to care too much, they just gave birth to you but abandoned you, it's impossible to say that you don't hate But what can you get back if you hate If I say let you see it, you are an 18-year-old girl Can you see it? It's also unrealistic The only way to do it is from the heart Do what you think in your heart No regrets, you are willing to forgive your biological parents Return to your biological parents I support you If you are not willing to accept such a biological parent, I also support you, don't care too much, because this is your life, this is your only way, and when you get married, you look back and see your growth along the way, you will be proud of yourself.

In the end, no matter what decisions you make, every decision you make must be affordable by yourself, if it becomes a drag, it will make you tired, don't hide what you have to say, do what you can do, do your best, do it from your heart, be worthy of yourself, be worthy of your parents who raised you, and everything else is a floating cloud.

I learned that I was not biological during this year's winter vacation, and I was also very devastated, but my adoptive parents were very good to me, and my adoptive parents would buy me gifts and send red envelopes on festivals such as Qixi Festival and 520. Although my adoptive parents are not in a particularly good family, they will do their best to give me the best, and I love them very much, so I didn't tell them, I knew that I was not biological.

Actually, it's okay, I knew at a very young age that I wasn't biological, although it was sad. Even if there is no blood relationship, it is a family. Mom and Dad are still Mom and Dad.

He didn't rush when I fainted, he didn't take me to the hospital for asthma, everything was not in line with ordinary people, I suspected that I was not biological, there was a half-brother and they loved him more, I asked my father if I was biological and he didn't speak, and now I'm afraid that I am not biological ......Confused.

Let me tell you, you are still young, and some things can't be turned around, but I want to say that people must know how to be grateful, understand? Besides, your adoptive parents and family are so good to you, what are you doing here, just because you are not biological? What do you want me to say, someone like me who is neither biological nor good to me, then do I want to turn against them??

But I won't. So please don't hurt the hearts of your adoptive parents because of your temporary willfulness, which will chill them and cause them irreparable damage. There will definitely be a pimple in my heart, and I am the same, but I am not the one who gave birth to you, but the one who raised you and gave you a second life, and what a kind person is the person who is still good to you.

There is a saying: born without raising, the severed finger can be returned. Born and raised, the severed head can be returned.

If you are not born and raised, it will be difficult to return for a hundred years!

I want to cry Isn't this situation more girls preferring sons over girls Willing not to have girls Boys are not willing.

I don't think blood relationship is important anymore, adoptive parents are so good to you now, and raise you so big, you should have your own judgment, instead of falling into the whirlpool of whether you are biological or not, there is no emotion for being born without raising, you can recognize it, but you can't live up to the kindness of your adoptive parents to you, isn't there a good saying? You raised me, I will grow old with you, think for yourself.

I'm in the same situation as you, everyone knows that I'm not biological, only I don't. Now the mood is complicated.

I'm now your brother's role, my sister is 4 years older than me, 22 years old, I suddenly know that my sister is not my parents' own, my sister doesn't know, I feel that my parents who carry this secret are so hard, and I will have to carry this secret like them, I don't know how to be good, of course I can't make a claim to tell my sister the truth, that is, I will think a lot by myself, I am afraid that my sister will know the truth one day and will not want us.

I didn't want you at the beginning, but now I'm looking for you just to see that you grow up and have the financial ability to let you raise them, I have seen this kind of parents, I suggest you ignore your biological parents, adoptive parents really treat you as their children, if you leave, what do you think your adoptive parents will think, it is estimated that people who know you will treat you as a white-eyed wolf, it has been said since ancient times, the grace of nurturing is greater than the love of childbirth, and it is good to your current adoptive father and adoptive mother.

I think your parents are better now, your biological parents don't want you anymore, what blood relationship is nonsense, the most important thing is to love you, the parents who brought you up from a young age, think about it, meet when you meet, what's not okay, now that you're a freshman, you have to learn to make trade-offs, and you have to distinguish who loves you.

It's nothing! No better than complaining! We are still alive and well in this world. If you only choose one parent, choose the adoptive parent!Parents are not raised, only blood relations exist, just look at it! No more than bothering!

Me too, but my parents love me very much, and then they wanted to see me, but I didn't agree, I told my parents and my parents, I don't see them, you are my biological parents.

I think so! Your adoptive parents also love you very much, and they are not partial to you because of your younger brother. You should be filial to your adoptive parents, raising you more than giving birth, and they are not mean to you.

If you want to see your biological parents, I think it is possible to hurt your adoptive parents. I know it's a little hard for you to accept that you are not biological, but it just proves that you identify with the family that raised you, that is, you love the family that raised you, and there are people in this family who care about you. As long as you love this home, you don't have to feel uncomfortable.

In fact, you still have to look at this kind of thing yourself, and your parents don't agree with you to meet for your sake! In the final analysis, your current parents love you, and your biological parents can find you at this time and want to atone for their sins! In general, it depends on your own thoughts, you can talk to your parents and meet your biological parents publicly, and let's talk!

The solution is the wisest way, no matter what your choice is in the end, the 2 parents will not blame you!

It's not biological, and I've raised you for so many years, I don't have blood and feelings, so what can you do if you find your biological one in time? Let it be.

I'll be 24 in two days, probably.

Today I was sure that I was adopted. I beat my nephew in the morning, and then he sued his mother, who is my sister-in-law, and she sent a message saying how I beat her son or something, and we quarreled, because she often works in the field and doesn't come back much and doesn't care about the children's studies, I said that she only knows how to give birth and doesn't know how to raise, and if he makes my mother angry, I will beat him, she said, is that your mother, you are adopted, you don't even know your mother's name, no one knows ......I think of the past, for example, my brother is 9 years older than me, how can he be so much older, last year I was hospitalized with silver blood disease, when my aunt came to see me, she learned that silver blood disease will be inherited, generally hereditary mother, she said casually, I don't know where your mother has Mo, I asked which side, she said it's okay, it's okay, and when I was a child, my cousin said to me, sister, I'll tell you a secret, you are not from our family, of course, I didn't think about it so much, and I thought children were joking......

The one-child policy has now been abolished, and all localities do not issue one-child certificates. If you have an only child certificate, the parents of the only child will be given a one-time subsidy for the only child when they reach the retirement age, that is, you need to reach the age of 60 before you can receive your son's only child fee.

Hello, you only have one child, now the state has canceled this policy, and the only child certificate is only half of the only child before, at that time, it was because the country advocated the only child, and now the only child has been canceled by advocating the birth of a second child.

Now that the state has abolished the one-child certificate and policy, it is impossible for you to handle it.

After reading it, I felt that you were an impulsive, a little unstable temper, plus menopause. In fact, as a parent, you should self-examine your own education methods for your children, the more irritated the child is during the rebellious period, the more unable to solve the problem. And too much domestic violence is not good for the psychological growth of children, it is better to put away your temper, don't always hold the mentality that the elders want to establish authority for the child to educate the child, and chat in the form of friends when necessary.

Now don't put too much psychological and mental pressure on your child, let him buffer it, and then remember that you have to care for him as a parent who is not an elder, and do something to soothe him or let him do something to soothe his mood. May your son grow up healthy ...

Ask the local police station, neighborhood committee, nursing home, disabled persons' federation, and various public welfare organizations to see if there are any ideas or solutions.

2.I often ask about the health of the elderly and take the initiative to accompany them to see a doctor.

3.Make time to chat with the elderly and be more obedient to their hearts.

4.If there are any activities at home, it is best to invite the elderly to go with them.

An old man in his 80s is probably sick. As people get older, all the functions of the body are aging. The brain is no exception.

You should go to the hospital for a cognitive function test. Appropriate interventions are made based on the results of the examination**. Cerebrovascular disease.

Cerebellar atrophy. Aldesheimer's disease, etc. can cause cognitive dysfunction in the elderly.

Alzheimer's disease) is an early symptom of the disease. It's not obvious. In the eyes of outsiders.

That is, to make. It's what we usually call the old fool. The above conditions can be ruled out after examination.

That's the reason why people are old and have a generation gap with the next generation. In fact, when people are old, some of them are actually confused, that is, they know that there is a generation gap between some of the things they do and the ideas and practices of our young people, in fact, whether they have cognitive dysfunction or not. For those in their 80s, the care and companionship of family members is very important.

Have time to spend more time with her (him) and don't let him do dangerous things. Your filial piety to the elderly will definitely be praised by everyone. I wish you a happy family!