Ask for help how to be more natural in life

In fact, people always have an instinctive tendency to be consistent with the environment.

When you were in the army, the army demanded a single look, and you also learned to be a one-size-fits-all, and everyone in the army was like this, and you didn't have any special feelings. But once you come back, I believe that there must be a big difference between the actions of ordinary people and those who have been in the army, and it is natural and casual, and you want to instinctively want to be consistent with your surroundings, and you will have a feeling that your movements are very contrived. In fact, the key at this time is to have a positive evaluation of yourself and go with the flow!

First of all, to clarify, the people around me don't actually feel that the soldiers' postures are contrived or unnatural at all! I also know a friend who has come back from the army, and his walking posture, living habits, work and rest are all examples for the elders to let us learn! Chest and fart, strong and rhythmic walking are appreciated in **, so in fact, when you feel very strange, others may be looking at you with an appreciative eye!

So give yourself a positive review.

And go with the flow, your gestures will definitely be slowly assimilated by the environment, and it won't be long before you become more and more like others, and others will learn a little bit of yours, and then everyone will be about the same, don't deliberately change anything.

It's not that you can't let go, it's just a psychological adaptation process. As long as the body feels no discomfort, you can get used to it in the future.

Easy-to-understand life truth: Some people, maybe you have forgotten, if they are still in your heart, they will be lucky. If he forgets what he promised, be wise enough to remind him.

Memorize your favorite poems Don't trust everything you hear, trust your feelings, and don't sleep as long as you want. Whenever you say "I love you", do so with your heart. Whenever you say "I'm sorry," look the other person in the eye.

Believe in love at first sight. Never ignore someone else's dreams. Love affectionately and passionately, maybe you will be hurt, but this is the only way to make life whole.

Resolve disputes in a clear way and don't take offense. Never judge people by their appearance. Say it slowly, think quickly.

When someone asks you a question you don't want to ask, smile and say, "Why do you want to know?" Remember that those who dare to take the greatest risks receive the deepest love and the greatest achievement. Give a ** to the person who is worried.

If not, at least think of her in your heart. When someone sneezes, say "Bodhisattva bless." If you fail, don't forget to learn your lesson.

Remember the three "respects": respect for yourself; Respect for others; Maintain dignity and take responsibility for your actions. Don't let petty disputes ruin a great friendship.

Whenever you find yourself doing something wrong, do everything you can to make amends. Move fast! Whenever you hit **, please smile when you pick up the microphone, because the other person can feel it!

Find someone you love to marry, because when you get older, you will find that with him you have more highlights in your life. Find some time and be alone for a while. Be open to change, but don't abandon your personal philosophy.

Remember, silence is golden. Read more books and less TV. Live a noble and honest life.

When you look back on the past when you are old, you can enjoy life again. Trust God, but don't forget to lock the door. The harmonious atmosphere of the family is invaluable.

Do your best to make your home smooth and harmonious. When you're arguing with someone close to you, try to get things out of the way and don't pull out the things that are old and rotten. Don't get rid of yesterday.

Speak your mind and don't let everything end like that! Share your knowledge with others, that's the eternal way! Be kind to everything about us.

Cherish the little things around you. Do what you have to do. Trust that your partner is what you see when you close your eyes.

When you are young, you can try to go far away to find the harvest. If you have gained a lot, remember to help others a lot, and life will give you the best rewards. Remember that sometimes, it's good luck to get the best of things.

Understand the rules of life and renew them reasonably. Remember: life is like a white horse, don't let everything around you start over and over again, grab what you think you should grasp, and maybe go to another world.

Go back and look at what you've sworn to achieve, and then judge how much success you've had. Whether it is life or love, we treat it with a 100% responsible attitude, dare to try something new, and dare to accept beautiful encounters.

Trouble, thanks!