If the doctor asked keep it big or keep it small , how would you choose?

If this really happens, I will choose Baoda.

In the eyes of modern doctors, this kind of choice does not exist at all.

Let's start with the sudden danger of pregnant women. With the progress of modern medical care and the improvement of economic level, most families will carry out regular prenatal checkups, and doctors judge the health status of pregnant women and fetuses through examinations, which can be said to have pre-controlled risks in the early stage and controlled the maternal danger to a minimum.

Many people may say that they are not afraid of 10,000, but if there is really a problem of protecting the big and the small, then how to choose?

In fact, if there is a serious problem with a pregnant woman during the delivery process, the first principle must be to ensure the safety of the mother's life first, and if there is full certainty, of course, it will also ensure the safety of the mother and child.

After the fetus is delivered, if both of them have an accident, the doctors will do their best to treat them, so there is no need to worry about the cruel problem of protecting the big and the small.

It is worth mentioning that the pregnant women in the film endure pain and strongly demand to keep their children.

To know that the role of mother is great, and it gives meaning to female devotion. But life is one's own, and it is also a tragedy for a child to survive and lose his mother since he was a child, so don't be bound by the moral concept that you have to keep your child.

After all, the reality is that the lives of pregnant women come first, and ensuring the safety of adults is the first principle of hospital midwifery.

If the doctor asks if it's big or small? The answer is very simple. It must be Bao-sama. It's like investing. There is no capital. How to invest?

One. We can only be said to be happy when we have a complete home. If you don't even have a family, what happiness can you talk about? There is you, me, and a little baby in the family.

Two. A happy family is indispensable. Dads with kids, moms with kids.

At this time, the family is happy, and the children will be happier. But if the doctor asks you something's going on. Do you want to protect adults or children?

It's a simple thing. Of course, it's okay to be a protector.

Three. The child doesn't, we can have it again. Adults lost their wives without you.

There is no such thing as a complete home. Can the child accompany you until you are old? It's all that you can give your children a happy and complete home.

Will you be happy? No, where did the mother get the child? Children can have mothers and wives again, there is only one in the world.

Same as I thought, so be it!

I can only endure the pain and choose to keep the big. Because if you keep the big one, you will have a chance to give birth to the small one in the future. Answer: I would not hesitate to keep it big.

Giving birth to a child is a painful thing for a woman. Pregnancy in October is physically and psychologically burdensome, and some women even suffer from prenatal depression. And the pain during childbirth doctors all say that it is a ten-level pain, which is a lot of courage for a woman who is usually pricked by a needle and shouts to break the sky.

In addition, a woman's physiology and beauty have been harmed to a great extent, which must not be shaken at any time. If you keep it small, let him be born and become a child with a mother and no mother, can you bear it, besides, it may not be able to support you if you are so small.

If the doctor tells the family to protect the adult or the child, it means that the pregnant woman has encountered dystocia during childbirth, and the lives of the adult and the child cannot be saved at the same time, and the life of one must be lost. It's best to keep both, but I have to choose one of the two, I think you should still protect the adult, if you protect the child, you are born without a mother and it is also pitiful, his father does not have a wife, and it is also pitiful, and then slowly conceive the child for a while, and then slowly conceive the child, I personally feel that after all, the adult is still in the belly, after all, it is still in the belly, so it must be an adult, it is impossible to protect the child. Let's have a child in the future, even if I can't have another child in the future, I will still keep it, my wife's life is given by her parents, I have no right to give up her life, the child is mine, I have the right to give it up.

If this is really the case, I choose to keep the child, as long as the adult is safe, there will be a chance to have children in the future, and the relationship between the two people is the most important, if the child is small, it is also very sad to let the child be born without a mother.

If the doctor asks whether to keep the big or the small, I will choose to keep the adult, after all, the child can be reborn, well, there is only one daughter-in-law, because they love each other, so they can't lose their wives. I think most people will protect adults, if both at the same time, then I can only choose one of my parents, this is because I have a deep affection for my wife, and I will slowly want children in the future. In the case of being able to have children, and ensuring that there is no danger to the body, they will choose to have another child.

Of course, these are all feelings for his wife, and they are all at the bottom of the relationship that has been with his wife for several years.

As a husband, the husband who loves the woman will keep it big. If a person's family only attaches importance to reproduction of offspring, only pays attention to the bloodline of his own family, and ignores his daughter-in-law, he will say that he is young. In fact, it is possible to regenerate adults if they survive.

Keep small, no mother's child, it's not easy to pull! From another point of view, saying that Bao Daren has a sense of the overall situation, and saying that Bao Da is small will make people laugh at shame. When this man marries another one with a child, the other party will say that he is marrying a fertility machine, and his family does not attach importance to and distress women, such a man, why marry him?

In fact, according to the current level of medical development, the probability of dystocia for a woman to give birth is not too great, and she really can't give birth, and it is a big deal to have a caesarean section. Therefore, it is very rare for the obstetrician to ask the man: Are you big or small?

In today's high-tech developed society, the problem of protecting the big and the small when giving birth is rare, most hospitals will adhere to the principle of "mother's safety, baby first", and make every effort to ensure the safety of mother and child, and doctors will make recommendations for mothers first. The family will not be allowed to make the choice of "keeping the big and the small". However, the law stipulates the right of informed consent of the patient and his family in **, and the family must also seek the opinions of the family when the mother herself cannot be saved or is in a severe coma.

Legal analysis

Protecting the big and the young when giving birth is a situation that may be encountered in life, and since it is life, it must be carried out within the framework of the law. Giving birth involves the birth of life, which requires the intervention of the law and the spirit of the law. The law stipulates the right of informed consent of the patient and his family in **, so when the mother herself cannot be saved or is in a serious coma, it is necessary to seek the opinions of the family, but according to the general medical principles, when encountering a situation that endangers the mother's life, the doctor will first make a recommendation for the mother first.

Most hospitals will adhere to the principle of "mother's safety, baby first", make every effort to ensure the safety of mothers and children, and will not let families make the choice of "protecting the big and the small". In addition, according to the provisions of the Maternal and Infant Health Care Act, doctors have the responsibility to give a medical opinion on the termination of pregnancy to pregnant women whose pregnancy endangers their lives. And according to the general medical principle, when encountering a situation that endangers the mother's life, the doctor should also make a recommendation that the mother should be given priority.

If the safety of the fetus is involved, of course, it must be explained, and it is rare for the mother's family to face the choice of "protecting the adult or the child".

Legal basis

The Civil Code of the People's Republic of China.

Article 1219:Medical personnel shall explain the patient's illness and medical measures during diagnosis and treatment activities. Where it is necessary to carry out surgery, special examinations, or special examinations, medical personnel shall promptly explain the medical risks and alternative medical treatment to the patient.

plan, etc., and obtain their explicit consent; If it is not possible or appropriate to explain it to the patient, it shall be reported to the patient's close relatives.

and obtain their explicit consent. Where medical personnel fail to fulfill the obligations in the preceding paragraph and cause harm to patients, the medical establishment shall be liable for compensation.

Article 1220: Where it is not possible to obtain the opinions of patients or their close relatives due to emergency situations such as rescuing patients whose lives are in danger, corresponding medical measures may be immediately implemented with the approval of the person in charge of the medical establishment or the person in charge authorized by them.

Maternal and Infant Health Care Law of the People's Republic of China

Article 18: In any of the following circumstances after prenatal diagnosis, the physician shall explain the situation to both husband and wife and submit a medical opinion on the termination of pregnancy: (1) The fetus suffers from a serious hereditary disease.

Target. (2) The fetus has serious defects. (3) Continuing the pregnancy due to a serious illness that might endanger the safety of the pregnant woman's life or seriously endanger the health of the pregnant woman.

There is no legal requirement to protect the big and the small. Generally speaking, the life of the fetus is not higher than the life of the fetal mother, and the doctor has the obligation to protect the life of the mother, if the doctor has the conditions to save the mother's life, but chooses not to save it, and allows the mother to die, because the legal interests of the fetus are lower than the legal interests of the mother, it constitutes the crime of intentional homicide by omission. It is not possible to assert a conflict of obligations, although even if this happens, it may be a manifestly minor or minor circumstance.

In the process of childbirth, if an unexpected situation occurs, the mother's own instinctive reaction is to protect herself, not the fetus. When the fetus is not born, if the pregnant mother has heavy bleeding, the body's system will reduce the supply of blood to the fetus, thus playing a role in self-protection.

In a medical emergency, it is up to the patient or his or her spouse, adult children, parents, siblings and other family members to decide whether to protect the adult or the child, but it is usually the main parent, not to mention that the two have a good relationship and can conceive a child at any time. A natural person's capacity for civil rights begins at birth and ends at death. And this kind of situation of protecting the adult or the child refers to the situation that the fetus has not yet been born, (regarding the determination of birth, China adopts the theory of independent breathing).

Therefore, when the fetus is not yet born, there is no corresponding capacity for civil rights, and there is no civil right, including the right to life in a general sense and the issue of kinship to be mentioned later. On the other hand, the mother is a natural person with complete civil rights, so her right to life is real, and in this case, if the husband chooses to protect the child and gives up the treatment of the mother, in fact, from the legal point of view, he is suspected of violating the law or even committing a crime. According to the law, husbands and wives have a duty to help each other, and it is a typical violation of the law to refuse treatment when sick.

On the other hand, if you choose to abandon the fetus, there will be relatively no such legal problems. Generally speaking, the fetus is considered a part of the mother's body before it is born. From the doctor's point of view, the same is true, saving the mother is more legally defensible than saving the fetus.

I think this is a manifestation of maternal love, many men may not understand, women have suffered a lot in pregnancy for ten months, and every day feeling a little life in their womb growing day by day, this feeling is really amazing. When a situation is encountered in the process of childbirth, as a woman, the first reaction is to protect the child, even if it is to lose her own life.

I have a colleague who is like this, she belongs to the advanced maternal age, when she was about eight months pregnant, there were some complications, the doctor suggested dissecting it, but she felt that the child was too young, if he came to this world at this time, I was afraid that the growth would be affected, so she still insisted on letting him stay in her belly for a while longer. However, unfortunately, her complications were more serious, and when it was time to have an autopsy, the child was born healthy, but she is still in the hospital, unconscious.

Before becoming a mother, many people didn't understand such a move, and felt that it was a big deal to stay in Qingshan without worrying about running out of firewood. But when you really experience it, you will definitely change your mind. First of all, if there is no too strong pregnancy reaction, it is okay, if the pregnancy reaction is relatively large, it is really very painful, every day in a situation after eating and vomiting, vomiting and then eating, what you eat in your mouth tastes the same as chewing wax.

When we have fetal movement, we really feel his existence and feel his growth every day, and we feel that our hard work is worth it.

After going through various examinations, all kinds of expectations, when you really want to welcome him, when you want to choose his life and death, you will be soft-hearted, you will want to protect him, the doctor has no right to decide a new life, so it is definitely up to the patient to choose.

Because giving birth to a child is the most dangerous, when there are some problems, you can only choose to protect one, or two, if the medical level does not allow, you can only choose to protect one, or to protect two, which will cause greater danger to life, so choose to protect one.

In the hospital, doctors don't ask questions about protecting the big and the small, and generally ensure the safety of the adults first, and only in the TV series will there be such a thing as protecting the big and the small.

Because some people are willing to protect adults, but some people are willing to protect children, so doctors will ask to protect the big and the young.