How can you forget a love that doesn t belong to you? How can we reduce the suffering?

Updated on healthy 2024-06-02
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Pure heart and few desires, let yourself stay quietly for a while, during which you can think about him as much as you want, just don't disturb his life anymore, no matter how you think about it, you must insist that you know... After a period of time, you will find that he is nothing more than that, in fact, it is nothing, you can use the perspective of a third party to examine the relationship between you and him, prove that you have come out, hehe, just welcome a new beginning that belongs to you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Since he loves him very much, he retreats to the position of a good friend, and is willing to let him fly to more happy places. Friend, now you love, but it's just a hazy feeling that haunts you when you were young. Many years later, when you realize that you can no longer find that feeling, you should have grown up.

    Let the memories pass away in the wash of time!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The feeling of loving a person is so important, but have you ever heard a saying that it is much better to find someone who loves you than to find someone you love, if you love him very much, even if you reluctantly let him have a relationship with you, it will not end well, if he really loves you, the feeling of being loved, that is the best, if he doesn't love you, give up, choose a new one, I believe, you will definitely find the prince charming in your heart, come on!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I fully believe that time and duel can help you dilute everything, because I have had the same experience.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't force yourself to forget a person, the more deliberately you want to forget, the better he will make you remember.

    Find something to do, don't think about it. When you're happy. I said to myself, Actually, life without him is so bad! You'll know after a long time.

    I'll give you a suggestion. Happy every day. Go out with old and new friends, or go online to vent.

    Hehe. Since the other party has said it so clearly, what about us? Don't get into the nitty-gritty! Live your life!! Happy not a day!!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You don't need to forget at all, and you won't forget. After all, I really loved, but the reality is helpless. Sometimes when we love with our hearts and work hard with our hearts, the result is empty, and the pain at that time can only be experienced by you.

    You don't need to forget, you don't need to complain, just face it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Find something else to do to tire yourself out

    Time will dilute everything

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Forget about a relationship, you have to start a new one.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't treat yourself badly. Think about it. Play when you need to.

    It's good if it's been a long time. Since he's going to be friends with you. If I were you.

    There are two options. First. Slowly find a way to make him like himself too.

    Second. We have a bit of character. Since refused.

    Just don't do it as a friend! That's how you don't lose your grace. Hurting yourself proves that you have feelings.

    Not like him! Ambiguous hehe, good luck.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Time can erase everything, let the past fade with time, don't always think about it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Let's start again ... Time will numb your broken heart.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Write down his ten shortcomings on a piece of paper and take them out whenever you think about him.

    Of course, don't tell me that he has no flaws, or that his flaws are that he is too handsome.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It takes time, a sincere relationship will give people a lasting damage that will break for a long time, you can think about the shortcomings of Ta, gather all your attention to do what you like, and constantly improve yourself, and then you will find that you have stepped into another realm, you will meet better and better people, don't miss a whole sea because of a lake, I recommend a sentence to you, although you don't have to stay to pick flowers to preserve, because flowers will naturally bloom along the way.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The best thing to do is to start a relationship all over again.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The title says yes

    If it doesn't belong to you, then, please believe in a sentence that should be your own and your own.

    What is not your own will never be your own.

    If you want to forget, you must first think that this love that does not belong to you is cut off, and after you get it, the consequences are not good.

    Even if it's good, it won't be long before I believe it.

    Be convinced that this love does not belong to you and you will not be happy.

    Or you can be selfish, I can't be happy, why do I still need this love?

    I can find the happiness that belongs to Liang Shiwu.

    Once you have figured this out, you can go and find something to do, divert your attention, and don't deliberately tell yourself, I'm going to forget, I'm going to forget.

    The more deliberate, the harder it is to forget.

    Don't think about it, you're already wrong when you post this question, and you'll make yourself more respectful or deeper about that love.

    Figure it out and then find something to do and bless you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Not being able to forget is the proof that your love is present and profound, don't deliberately forget, don't indulge in pain for a long time, everyone.

    Have your own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by along the way, every relationship and every experience everyone is a mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future

    Don't say anything, if he's happy, you'll be happy. Happiness is all your own. It's true that you're happy. Don't be unhappy for someone who can make you unhappy.

    Don't think about it, the person you love will never be forgotten for a lifetime. It's just that with the passage of time, his memories are buried deep in the heart like tea leaves, and there is no feeling of love or pain at the beginning, only the experience of regret or enlightenment! Everyone will experience such pain to a greater or lesser extent, just so that we can learn how to love, so that we can know how to love the real right person when we meet him!

    Let us be like butterflies out of the cocoon, go through the soul washing again and again, and finally grow!

    Cherish the present and live today!

    Do something you like, try not to think about it

    Or just think about it thoroughly

    Brave face, real solution

    One is to escape, the other is to face, which is feasible?

    People say that there will always be a day in the life of a man (woman) who will meet a woman (man) who can change him, but you haven't met it, don't worry.

    When you meet that girl, you can't help but think of the girl or boy you're talking about as if you're a passerby.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Don't be sad, since the fate is over, let it pass, stretch out your arms and embrace the breeze to feel the spring, summer, autumn and winter.

    Cheer up and welcome a new day, you just don't have a chance with her on the road of life, there will be people who are destined for you to walk through the road of life with you. Believe it.

    Take a break for a while. Make the most of this time and do what you want. If you think it's right, do it.

    If you talk to your close friends, you will naturally feel better. Usually, you should often decompress yourself, and when you have troubles, don't drill the horns of the bull and think about the benefits. Slowly, the knots in my heart melted.

    Laughing at life, but also to cultivate an optimistic and open-minded healthy psychology. Lift your spirits, look to the future, and don't dwell on the love setbacks in front of you.

    Don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her, it means that the traces she has left in your heart should be relatively deep, deliberately forget, will remember deeper, let everything tend to be dull, what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her, it means that the traces she has left in your heart should be relatively deep, let everything tend to be flat, what to do and what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget, and forgetting is not something that can be forgotten by talking about it, but also to see what type of person you belong to, If you are emotional, it is best to find something or activity that can attract your attention to distract your emotional fluctuations; Or go crazy with your best friends and forget about your play. It's best not to listen to any love songs, otherwise you will backfire. I don't know about the other types, you have to face everything by yourself, no one can help you in it, go your own way.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's hard to try to forget love. It's harder to forget someone you love the most, what is forgetting? After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

    But this is very difficult to do, especially when you forget your loved one. To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level.

    So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget. One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it. If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city.

    That's a beautiful place in your heart......There's a saying"You don't have to marry someone you love, and you don't have to marry someone you like. "To live a life, you have to find a man who can live a life A woman You don't necessarily have to find someone you like Think about it yourself If it's love then how to live life In the current era, you need everything Money Happiness Struggle Career Have a happy family Maybe you and she are not people of the same world Happy let go of her hand Say chic: I wish you happiness The opposite of love is not hate and forgetfulness You still care about ta So you won't forget If you really want to forget Keep yourself busy and arrange a lot of things to do, whether it's work or fun.

    Give yourself no time to think about anything else. Tire your body a little, lie down and fall asleep right away! Don't be alone, be sure to be with friends Time will take away your worries. Beg.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Just take your time and don't think about it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Find someone who is more suitable than the other person and start a relationship again, so that you can quickly forget.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you want to quickly forget your ex, you can only enter the next relationship and let your feelings have something to rely on, then you will forget the previous one, which is also the fastest way.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    We can choose to go out and travel, change the environment, so that we can slowly forget, or talk about a new relationship.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you want to forget quickly, then the best way is to let yourself forget all the unhappy things, and don't think about such unhappy things, which will be forgotten after a long time.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her (him), it means that she he) has left traces in your heart should be relatively deep, so that everything tends to be dull, what to do and what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Always trying to forget, in fact, is constantly reminding yourself, remembering this person, these things! As a result, the memory is deepened, and of course it cannot be forgotten.

    In fact, the best way is not to think about forgetting, at least not to forget deliberately. Go with the flow, divert your attention, and those people and things will slowly fade away.

    No one can forget anything! Time can dilute everything!

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