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I used to be like this, fantasizing that love could fall from the sky, and I felt that the contact on the premise of marriage on a blind date was too realistic and uncomfortable. Therefore, all the people who mentioned blind dates to me, I didn't have a good face, so that no one dared to mention blind dates to me.
Later, I experienced a failed relationship. The other party clearly said that he liked me and took the initiative to pursue me. But when I got in touch later, he said that I was not good, and that I had to change, and when I was angry, he changed his words again and said that he liked me like this, which made me feel very hypocritical.
On the 4th day of the trial relationship, I didn't know if it was the 5th day, he asked me about the criteria for marriage. After that, I started planning for the future on my own!! I guessed that he was looking for someone to marry, and he couldn't find someone who met his standards, so he wanted to chase me (maybe he thought I was easy to chase) and transform me into what he liked.
Maybe I'm unlucky!! However, many older young people are in a hurry to get married.
After this failure, I carefully considered the blind date. Blind dates are also a way to get to know the opposite sex. I have several friends who are on blind dates.
You can see if you are suitable for each other in the conversation, you can also have a choice, and no one forces you to marry. It is also necessary to get in touch again when it is appropriate, and only fall in love and get married when you feel it, don't have any pressure. A colleague of mine got married on a blind date, and she said that she had been on a blind date before, but she didn't feel it, but her husband had feelings, maybe this is also a kind of fate!!
I also went on a blind date, and I myself was not in a hurry to get married, and he happened to be in no hurry, so we slowly got in touch with each other. However, I have an acquaintance who got married in a flash, and both parties were quite satisfied after the blind date, so it was quickly settled.
Don't worry too much about blind dates, go with the flow, be polite and polite, continue if you agree, and refuse if you don't agree, it's normal.
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I've tried, I'm engaged, and I'll be married at the end of this year.
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I'm going on a blind date on May Day.
First time, eh. Hey, the older young man was so kindly introduced by a friend.
I feel overwhelmed just thinking about it.
But I'm going to bite the nail on the head, and I'm going to get out.
I'll tell you what to do when I get back from the experience.
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I went to see it, and it also made the kind introducer happy! Don't think too much about modern society, as long as you think it's right, brother, rush forward!! I wish you all the best.
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Now unemployed young people like us, with a small circle, basically rely on blind dates, but there are many kinds of blind dates, introduced by parents, introduced by friends, there is nothing bad about blind dates, and they are very reliable.
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There was once a relationship that stung me deeply, to borrow Lin Xi's words, afraid of the tragedy repeating itself, the more beautiful it is in life, the more dare not touch it. Hehe, maybe it won't help you at all. I hope you're happy.
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Look, what's there? What happened to the blind date? It's normal.
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Through blind dates, I learned a very important thing - it is very important to try and get to know others seriously. The process of blind dates often reminds me of the articles I wrote when I was in junior high school, about how important human communication is. The same applies to blind dates.
In the blind date, I try to understand all the details of the other party's middle and late years, from career to hobbies, from personality to the depths of my heart. I noticed a lot of traces that the other party inadvertently revealed, and behind these traces are the bits and pieces of each other's growth and the details of life. In the process, I learned to listen carefully to other people's opinions and respect their opinions.
I realized that it is difficult to truly understand others by our own imagination alone, and we need to be patient to listen to the other person's words and interpret the other person's eyes, so that we can truly understand the other person's heart.
Through blind dates, I also learned that mutual respect and equal communication are important. Maintain a comfortable atmosphere of communication, respect the other person's choices and opinions, and maintain full respect for the other person's thoughts and ideas. In the whole process of selling plums on a blind date, sometimes some embarrassing or cold situations will occur, at this time we need to be more considerate and understand the other party, do not put pressure on the other party or do not have to be upset.
Through blind dates, I also believe more that things that happen are inevitable. After I went through a failed relationship, I slowly realized that there are some things that we can't control and **. Sometimes, we need to believe in fate and give it a go.
I believe that it is precisely because I actively participated in the blind date that I finally had my own happiness.
In conclusion, I think blind dates are a very meaningful thing that helps us get to know ourselves and others, increase our social skills and interpersonal skills. As we continue to challenge and learn, we will become more confident and independent, and we will better understand the true meaning of happiness.
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I've been on a blind date more than five or six times, Cheng Xian has been blind for 2 times, my brother has not been together for long, and I broke up about a year or so, I don't know what caused it to be God's burning bottom, my heart is bitter, no way!
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In traditional Chinese culture, it is common for parents to introduce the children of relatives and friends on blind dates in the hope that they will come together. However, in modern society, such practices seem to be less and less desirable. For me personally, if the arrangement at home is reasonable, I am willing to go on a blind date.
First of all, I think there are some benefits to blind dates, especially for young people who are single. Blind dates can give us a clearer understanding of each other's personalities, hobbies, family background, etc., so as to better judge whether they are suitable for each other. Sometimes, we fall into the wrong relationship because of our own subjective judgment, and blind dates can avoid this from happening.
Secondly, I don't think the parents' arrangements are necessarily wrong. After all, parents have a wealth of life experience and vision, and they may be able to see more clearly. If parents can introduce some suitable partners to me according to my preferences and needs, I am very willing to participate in the blind date.
Of course, this requires enough respect and understanding on both sides.
However, I also believe that blind dates are not a panacea and cannot be limited to parental arrangements. On the basis of mutual understanding and communication, we should independently choose whether or not to further develop our relationship. In the blind date process, we need to keep an open mind and respect the other person's wishes and choices.
Going on a blind date is not necessarily a bad thing, as long as the parents' arrangements are reasonable, and we have clear goals and attitudes, we can find our other half in mutual understanding and communication. Of course, we must also keep in mind our values and bottom line and make wise choices when it comes to marriage.
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Then don't take it so seriously, why sulk in your heart to someone who disrespects you like this?