Help me! The boy who met on a blind date is currently in contact with two, and it is difficult to ch

Updated on society 2024-06-28
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Both conditions are very good, but it can be seen from your introduction that you still prefer the second handsome guy. It's just a little uneasy, but not being at ease doesn't mean you can't control and dislike him. In fact, women seem to be contradictory animals, and they want men to be romantic and romantic, but they are afraid that he will be romantic to anyone.

    You may persuade yourself that the first one is suitable for marriage and the second is suitable for love, but reason still can't overcome emotion, so you don't need to ask, you will definitely choose the second one to try dating. My instincts have always been accurate, haha.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In the long run, it is better for a girl to marry a down-to-earth person, but if you can have fun, you might as well find someone who spends all your time, because in this way there will be less constraints after marriage.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's better to look at the opinions of your family, learn more about them, and see who loves you more.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Let's find a feeling through the side, what two people want when they are together is a feeling.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You're chirping here, people don't necessarily like you, you want to choose or the first one, don't take the interests of everything so seriously, the first one can try to get along, he's not very bad, the second one is seriously unreliable!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Let's take a look at the contact for a while, compare, anyway, the two are understanding at the same time, give yourself more time, and give others more time, maybe you will find out who is more suitable for you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Choose the second one when you fall in love.

    Pick the first one to get married.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1. I don't know what you mind.

    2. Whether you like it or not, I don't know it, I feel that you may not have fully accepted him in your heart now, and you can't fully accept his sudden goodness.

    3. Live up to it, only your own actions have the final say, if you don't have feelings at the beginning, then you can try to socialize and slowly cultivate, but if you don't like him and don't want to accept his good, then you can measure whether to be friends or no longer contact, in short, you can't let people pay so much for you until later.

    Contemptible humble opinion, I wish you happiness o ( o thank you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I know what you mind, do you think it's okay to feel sorry for him if you break up with him one day?

    My advice is this: when you are distressed and troubled, give yourself more time, don't make a decision yet, time will give you the answer, and then you will know what to do when you really think about it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you like someone, you will not only like his good, but also tolerate his bad. Love is not a one-sided acceptance, but more of a giving. Ask yourself if he doesn't treat himself as well as he always does, will you still be with him?

    Emotional matters, to yourself, but also to the other party, don't because you can't find the person you love, just make do with a person you don't love but love yourself, that's irresponsible.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Communicate slowly, don't be too anxious, if he is really good to you, you will feel it, and then you can live together with a little self-motivation.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You should have read the book Remember what Ba Jin said in "Letter to the Children of My Hometown" The meaning of life lies in dedication, not enjoyment, don't refuse because others are in poor conditions, if you really don't like him, don't force yourself, you should tell the truth, thank you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hehehe, as long as both sides come together. Feelings need to be cultivated slowly. Hope it helps.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You can't let people pay so much for you, and then the bamboo basket will be empty.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Dizzy, he may also be an introvert, plus he is more honest, maybe he doesn't know how to express it. But judging from his behavior of helping you charge your phone bill, he should be a little interesting to you. As for why he doesn't take the initiative to call you, ask you out, or text often or something.

    I guess the first possibility is that he is very busy with work, and some people are busy and really can't take care of it. The second possibility is that I don't know if you have had any previous blind date experience, and two strangers suddenly met together in a very awkward form, and they don't know each other's lives, so they don't have anything in common. From "it's almost time to eat, occasionally send me a message" can be confirmed, it's not that he doesn't want to send you, it's that he doesn't know what to say, this kind of person sends text messages, basically only saying "Have you eaten?"

    What are you doing?" and so on, but they have a symbolic sense of inquiry.

    So the problem you have at the moment is that you don't have a certain understanding of each other, so there's no topic. Maybe you can try to add his Weibo, blog, and Kaixin.com to increase your understanding of each other's lives! This practice is very useful in the early stage of understanding, try it!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Of course not.

    It's just beginning, and he's still trying.

    Watch his Valentine's Day performance.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    According to you, he should still be happy with you, but he doesn't have so many tricks! If you like him too, take advantage of it!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't think he's particularly interested in you, but he still thinks it's okay. So just get along with each other first, see if you can call or if you can meet him so that he thinks it's more suitable for him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    That's it for introverts. If you like him, take the initiative and don't miss your chance.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First, we talked a lot for the first time, but then we didn't have anything to say, maybe the first impression didn't leave a good impression, or there was some conflict in life philosophy or personality (this is even more of a cup).

    Second, it should be said that there is no shortage of blind date opportunities for girls who are teachers, and it is unlikely that they don't know what to do after a blind date, and you also made it very clear in the text message, excluding the reason why the teacher can't go online during working hours, and this attitude itself is very clear that it is not cold to you.

    Third, it is not easy to meet no matter what, since you have decided to be willing to go down, you should not only spend your energy on SMS and QQ - this is a good tool for communicating information, not a good tool for communicating feelings, it is a serious thing to make an appointment for the next meeting, and it is a serious thing to make an appointment for the second time, otherwise you will become unrequited. No matter how much other things are analyzed, it's useless, if people are willing to come out, everything is fine, and if they don't want to come out, it's very clear.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Obviously, she doesn't have a crush on you, and if you want to fight for it, go for a showdown. To continue to think nonsense is to abuse yourself.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    What do you mean? You know a boy on a blind date, you are a girl, you must know a boy on a blind date, I don't understand what you want to say.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Hello, you didn't have any strength when he held your hand, so you didn't like him, accept his gifts and give him all the money to break up, so as not to fall deeper and deeper.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There are two main reasons for flash marriage, one is to reduce the cost of pursuit and reduce the investment in the other party. One is that I have major flaws, and I am afraid that I will be discovered by the other party after a long time.

    The first case of the other party is more likely. So he didn't like you in the first place, but he just thought that he would marry whichever girl spent less money, so he chose you. As a result, if you ask him for a house, he naturally can't accept it.

    In fact, it is normal for normal men to chase women, and it is normal for girls to ask for a house, and it is easy for boys to accept it.

    Now that you don't want to marry him even if you say anything, he thinks that your value is lower than he imagined, and you should be able to bargain further, so he is naturally reluctant to buy it at the original price.

    Don't think it's too powerful, when the other party has no feelings for you at all, the relationship between you is also a business relationship.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Summary. Yes, you can meet guys through blind dates. Blind dates are a popular way to socialize and help people find their perfect match.

    The blind date process is very simple, first of all, you need to find a reliable blind date**, then register one, fill in your personal information completely, including your gender, age, occupation, family status, etc., and then upload a real **, so that you can start the blind date. In the process of blind date, you can choose the object of your choice according to your preferences, and then communicate with them to understand their personality, interests, hobbies, etc., and finally, if you think they are suitable, you can agree on a date to learn more about each other, so as to meet a favorite boy.

    Yes, you can meet guys through blind dates. Blind dates are a popular way to socialize and help people find their perfect match. The process of repentance on a blind date is very simple, first of all, you need to find a reliable blind date**, then register one, fill in your personal information completely, including your gender, age, occupation, family status, etc., and then upload a real **, so that you can start the blind date.

    In the process of blind date, you can choose your favorite object according to your preferences, and then communicate with them to understand their personality, interests, hobbies, etc., and finally, if you think they are suitable, you can agree on a date, and get to know each other step by step, so as to meet a favorite boy.

    Can you add, I don't quite understand it.

    Yes, he's a guy I met on a blind date. We met on a blind date**, and we both had the same goal at the time, which was to find a suitable partner. We chatted online for a long time and then decided to meet, and after a few meetings, we found that we were very compatible with each other, and so we started our love journey.

    He is a very responsible boy, he always cares about me very much, often gives me gifts, surprises me, and makes me feel very happy. He Lu Charan is also very patient, always able to patiently listen to me in the morning, give me valuable suggestions, and help me solve problems. He's also funny, always able to make me happy and bring me joy.

    He is also very polite and always able to make a good impression on others. He is also very hardworking, and he is always able to do things well, which makes me feel very relieved. In short, he is a very good boy, and our relationship is getting deeper and deeper, and we have been working hard to be happy and happy all the time.

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I'm glad to answer this question for you See your description of this question My personal opinion and advice to you is this: First of all, you describe whether you need to confess when you meet on a blind date, and then see your description below, You have known each other for more than a month, and you have met six times, but you feel that now, two people can't break through that layer of relationship, and they have been getting along with each other like ordinary friends, and you want to break through this layer of relationship, and you are thinking about whether you can only break through after confessing, or continue to get along with ordinary friends in this way Your description of this problem Well, first of all, confession must be a very good thing, and it is a very formal ceremony, right? Yes, you know each other on a blind date, and it proves that the two of you don't hate each other, at least, because there is still a certain difference between blind date and falling in love, and falling in love may go from a colleague, from a neighbor or from a classmate, to a good friend, from a good friend to a boyfriend and girlfriend, and it takes a process to determine the relationship, and the blind date is generally going to get married So since two people can talk for more than a month, and you have seen each other six times a month, it proves that you have a good impression of each other, and if you want to break through this relationship, it must be that you are in a hurry, so my personal advice to you here is not too abrupt, too abrupt to confess, and suddenly say, hey, do you want us to be together, then the two of you are now together Because you are in contact with each other after a blind date, you are both rushing to get married, and the two of you are going to meet now with that feeling, but what There's no real development, not even holding hands, not hugging, these are the things, I think you shouldn't rush to confess now, and don't get along with this ordinary friend, but make an appointment, don't think about it so much, just talk to him casually, don't take him too seriously, the more you take it, the more nervous you are, the more you don't know how to talk about it, talk about life, talk about something, get in touch more, let you both get to know each other, and then you can tactfully say to him, hey, you see we've been in contact for a while, what do you think of me, you go and ask him like this And then if he asks you in turn, you just say to him, hey, I think you're pretty good, and then I think you're quite suitable for me, and our values should be very compatible, and I still like you, and I like you like this, and I say it, and I think you're not bad, so you say, for example, I think you're good, then you say, well, should we confirm the relationship now, and then give me the opportunity to let me protect you, let's two of us together, one style, say this, so to confess, Ji has confession, and also expresses his feelings, this way is still relatively easy to accept So I personally think it's better for you to do this, and the above is my personal answer and advice to you, I hope this answer can solve the confusion in your mind, solve the doubt in your heart, and finally wish you life

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