Have you ever been on a blind date? Have you ever experienced a blind date?

I'm sorry, I haven't been on a blind date, but I can probably know the specific process of blind date in this society now, not so much a blind date, but two people living together together, because on a blind date, you can imagine, isn't it that there are no two emotional foundations or even two strangers who have never seen before, and then talk about the conditions that meet your own conditions and will get married together, which is completely different from the way of free love, And a lot of blind dates will only be shown under the introduction of parents.,It can be said that this kind of blind date is completely vice.,Impose the will of the parents in it.,It's not a very free way.。

Then I introduce that I and my girlfriend are together is a way of free love, this way is really special to like ah can be said, like a girl to pursue her, do what she likes, chat and talk to her step by step, there are more and more good feelings between two people, so that two people can be together very smoothly, and when the time is right, this kind of love is often touching, and this kind of love is often the most solid, But if you go on a blind date, I think there are still a lot of problems, for example, just ask you, how many houses, how many tickets, how about the salary, what kind of car, this is really too much, and based on the material supremacy of the marriage, two people often end up not marrying marriage, but marrying reality, such a marriage, I feel that it is difficult to withstand the test, so I have not been on a blind date, but I also hope that I will never go on a blind date. Because free love is the better choice.

I'm going to take this question seriously, although I'm not old now, but I've already entered the ranks of blind dates. I personally hate blind dates, but my mother's holy will is unbearable. I had two blind dates, and after these two times, I had a complete showdown with my mother, saying that I didn't want to find a boyfriend through a blind date for the time being, and I would talk about it when I was a freshman.

Let's talk about the first blind date experience, which was introduced to me by my mother when I asked their colleague, and it was hard to refuse. The boy worked as a teller in a bank for three years, and he had a car and a house, but it was a huge awkward moment when we first met, you know? The first time we met, we ate grilled fish, he asked me if I could eat spicy, we ordered a spicy grilled fish, but my snot kept flowing, and then the waiter asked for a box of paper, I didn't eat much to wipe my nose, and then I met a few times, watched movies, and bought clothes with him, but I didn't feel anything about him anyway, I think it's because of the relationship between the form, not a boyfriend and girlfriend based on feelings, so after meeting a few times, I told him that we still want to be friends, This is the end of the first blind date experience.

The second blind date experience is that my mother asked the relatives in the circle of relatives to find a good boy for me, and then my second uncle has an iron buddy, and his family has a son, so we went to his house, so we chatted casually, but their family revealed that his son bought a car for 600,000 yuan, and then stayed at their house, and when he came back, I said no, I think the economic ability is not equal, if you buy a car of about 200,000 yuan, I can still accept it. After that, I told my mom not to worry about my marriage first, I was still in school and there was no hurry. Therefore, I think the road of blind date is a road of no return, and I advise you to fall in love as soon as possible.

Don't do it when you go on a blind date, the last thing to suffer is yourself.

I am not of marriageable age. However, my uncle has been on a blind date many times, and every time a girl comes to the house, my uncle is always very resistant, and in the end the blind date must have been unsuccessful, but it is said that my uncle once had a very sincere relationship.

I've also had, my husband and I met on a blind date! Now I really regret knowing him!

I already have a girlfriend, so I don't need to go on a blind date, but blind dates are also a very common thing now, you don't have to feel ashamed, just look at it.

To be honest, as soon as I heard the word blind date, I felt big, and I don't know why I still have some rejection of blind dates in my heart, which may have a direct relationship with my current age! I don't know what other people's attitudes are towards blind dates, but as far as I'm concerned, I'm not quite comfortable with this at the momentBecause in my subconscious, I still think that love should be talked about by myself, and I should find the object of love by myself, rather than knowing someone through blind dates. <>

Of course, I'm not saying that people who meet on a blind date are necessarily bad, after all, this also depends on fateSome people may have that kind of fate with each other, and the person who knows each other on a blind date happens to be the right person, and there is also such a probability. But I think this probability will be smaller, after all, once you go on a blind date, everyone will not think much about falling in love, it feels like going straight to marriage, I can't accept such a hasty relationship, so my psychology is a little repulsive to blind dates. <>

I haven't actually experienced a blind date yetAlthough someone in my family has introduced me to someone, I always feel that I am not old enough to be introduced, so I politely refused。You must know that I have just graduated from college, I think it is normal to have no partner at this time, and I haven't stabilized anything yet, I always feel that it is too early to talk about marriage now, and I really want to enjoy a few years of single life! <>

Personally, I think that when we reach a certain age, our family really starts to feel anxious about our feelingsWhen they were in school, they would say that they didn't need to rush and take their time, but as soon as they graduated, as long as they were still single, they would start to urge themselves, and at the same time, they might arrange some blind dates for themselves. Of course, some people may think that blind date is a way to meet friends, and they may not be so repulsive, but people like me may be more disgusted in their hearts, so this kind of thing is a person's opinion.

I haven't experienced it, because I am still very young, so my parents are not in a hurry, and I haven't let myself go on a blind date.

I haven't experienced blind dates because my family thinks I'm younger, so I'm not in a hurry to get married.

What I experienced was actually the feeling of having a meal with strangers, and I still felt quite embarrassed at the time, and we didn't have anything in common.

In my opinion, blind date is a hot topic in today's society, the fast pace of society, the pressure of life, so that most people are busy with work, unwilling and powerless to their own marriage。Even TV stations have blind date programs, and they are broadcast during the ** time period, which fully shows the pressure of today's society and the demand for blind dates.

When I was young, everyone was busy with their studies and fell in love at school, which was not allowed by the school and parents, and early love was not conducive to academics. For us when we were students, our faces were full of greenness, we were hazy and expectant about love, and we wanted to explore new things; But most parents are against this, believing that we should focus on our studies when we are studentsWhen we left the school gate and threw ourselves into the torrent of society, the people around us were busy with work every day, and they couldn't even say a few words, they were all busy. I used to be disdainful of blind dates, thinking that love is a matter of two people, and I always have to look at each other to fall in love, but I don't know how small you and I are in the torrent of society.

In the year of establishment, without starting a family, parents are worried, and elders are concerned, which has become another kind of pressure; During the New Year's holidays, I don't even dare to go home, and I always find various reasons to go home。But when it comes to blind dates, it is full of rejection. Inexplicably with a stranger,Blind dates with people who don't have an intersection with your life track are always easy to be embarrassed, seem out of place, don't know how to speak, how to master the rhythm, make small talk with each other, and fake smiles

Parents trust all kinds of relationships to find us blind dates, full of mouths: "You can't pick anymore, the eldest is not small, it's almost enough, you look at who next door, they all have a second child, when do you have to choose, you still have to wait until when we hold our grandchildren."

I don't know if the parents have thought about it, two strangers, there is no process of getting to know each other; How embarrassing is it to eat together and talk together, and how to communicate without common interests and hobbies? With different life trajectories and different ways of communication, how to get along with each other in a short period of time? Having a meal and watching a movie is such a simple communication

What's more, now that social media is popular, let's add our own, let us communicate on the Internet, and even meet a lot less, so it's even more embarrassing。For blind dates, I'm talking about tiger color change now, it's not to go, it's not okay not to go, my parents' hearts are sad, I can't change my own ideas, I'm in a dilemma, it's really difficult.