My mother doesn t agree with me talking about friends, and my expectant girlfriend s mother doesn t

At the age of 19, you are still too young, you need 2 things to fall in love, one is a mature mind, ready to fall in love, and the other is a stable income, whether it is a man or a woman, you must first support yourself to make a future financial plan and give action in order to have spare money to fall in love.

In addition, friends on the Internet, his family background, what are the names of his parents, where he lives, what relatives are at home, family conditions, living conditions, etc. Tell your parents one by one, and they will rest assured.

My boyfriend also met online, a friend in a forum, and my family didn't agree at first, but he often went to my house, and the situation of his family was also detailed one by one, and my family slowly accepted it. But I'm 22 years old, I'm working, I'm independent, and my family is a little relieved.

I'm also realistic.

You're not realistic, aren't you?

Make friends with a realistic person.

It will also make itself realistic.

At that time, his personality was assimilated by others.

How bad. I've influenced others.

It's making people more and more realistic, even a level higher than me. Regret.

It's best not to look for friends on the Internet, but to look around nearby, for example, the same school, the same city, it's best not to span too much, because you are too young, you have little social experience, and when you graduate from college and work independently, then you have social experience, and you can choose your favorite friends.

You can talk to your parents about the benefits if you make friends, and I'm sure your parents will understand you.

If you really want to be with her for a long time, you can stay in a private relationship (not to her parents). Then, the relationship lasts until graduation, if you can still maintain this intimate relationship at that time, and then you find a job or graduate school entrance examination to find the same city, and then make the relationship public and tell each other's parents, so that the chances of success will be much higher.

It can be seen that her mother is a more conservative parent. So, if you're with her mom right now, there's a 90% chance you're going to fail. As the previous person said, a happy love is built on a certain material basis, and her mother will definitely oppose it.

If the girl insists that her mother does not agree, she will not agree to fall in love, or she will not want to cheat on her mother, and she will say that she will not talk about love. Then you can also use the method of stealing concepts. You tell her that you can have a very close friend relationship with her first, and you will wait for her to graduate.

However, in practice, it is possible to contact according to the standard of the girlfriend, resulting in a situation where the name is not an established fact.

Advice: If it works, I hope you don't have sex with them. Even if it happens, do a good job of contraception and condom behavior. After all, the girl's mother disagrees, and if she gets pregnant at school, it hurts the girl the most.

Remember that a good love is built on a certain material basis, and if you are sincere and stick to each other, that's fine. What you're doing isn't going on a date, what's sweet. It's not about hitting her mother or anything.

It's even worse, you only have to prove like her mother that I have the ability to give your daughter happiness so that her mother won't say it. Only by being excellent can you get everything you want, including your daughter-in-law.

Hey, it's usually like this, it mainly depends on what your girlfriend thinks, if she really wants to be with you, nothing can stop her.

I've had exactly the same experience as you before. There is no right or wrong, life is given by parents, but life is lived by oneself. At your current age, I'm sure you know the truth, but you can't get over that hurdle anyway, because you haven't really experienced life.

Mom was sad and sad, and it would last for a long, long time, and she didn't want to see what she had in mind. But no matter what the final outcome is, she will still support you, because you are her daughter, the flesh that fell from her.

The best thing to do now is: test it with time. Don't worry, marriage is not love, and it costs a lot.

1. Examine your object. See if he can handle your mother and relatives, he is a man, he really loves you, your mother will see it.

2. Test yourself. Given yourself a time, you take care to see if your partner is the person in your life who is destined to grow old together.

Don't be too sad, there will be many problems in life. If it's an important decision, if you don't know what to do, just let it go!

Do you know that your mother is against you being together? What is his attitude? You don't know what to choose now because your mother's consideration has shaken you, because the economic situation she considers is a real problem.

If you want to choose your partner, you have to think about whether you can stay with him if he has no money in the future, and so on. You met online, and he's in the army, have you ever met? Why don't you want to give up?

Just because I like him?? Once you have sorted out this series of practical problems, you will know how to choose.

Well, my partner is also a soldier, his education is not as high as mine, and his family is not from our side. I'm still in college, I didn't tell my mom, and I'm afraid of something like this, huh? I panicked a little.

I think like this now, since he is good to you and loves you, he will run in with your mother well, try to satisfy your mother, hold on for a while, and then work hard for a while, people's hearts are long, your mother may agree? It's not bad to see him, although he doesn't have much money, but he is a good person and willing to do things, and no money now does not mean that he will not have money in the future. If, after hard work, your mother still disagrees in the end, if it were me, I would choose my mother, because my mother is also good for me, she is old, and she has paid so much for me.

Every mother in the world wants her daughter to live well, and if he is good to you, it is indeed very good, and your parents will also see it. Mom and Dad will agree, too, and if they really don't agree, maybe part of it is because he's not good enough... In short, I hope that a lover will eventually become a family member, and support you!

Carry out your love to the end first!

Dear friends, for your confusion is a normal expression of feelings that everyone has, if the two of you really love each other, there is nothing wrong with continuing to develop, your filial piety is also completely correct, if you want to pursue perfection for both, to be honest, it is really not easy to do, you have to understand your mother's insistence, think about whether your mother's words make sense. Combined with your current situation, you must carefully figure out how to choose, and don't regret it for the sake of a momentary mood, I wish you a happy life!

If you can see potential in your boyfriend. Then don't hesitate to tell your parents what you see as potential. Convince them with facts.

Otherwise, it feels good to be together right now. But then you will suffer. Why do you want to keep so many blessings and not enjoy them, but let yourself suffer.

As long as you and your partner are sincere and persistent, Mom will not object.

It seems that my mother loves you very much, let my boyfriend behave more in front of my mother, and after a long time, my mother will accept him, and my mother is still reluctant to let you.

Upstairs is too extreme, a good man is much more important than a good education and a good job, at least I think so.

In general, it is best to get the consent of your elders in love, especially if you are a girl, it is best to do the work of your parents.

1 Your relationship goes underground, and there may be ups and downs, but as you get older, your mother will be anxious, and it may be relatively easy for you to persevere.

2 Forget if it's not good-looking, I think the key may be because of the house. You can discuss with him if there is a way to solve this, if two people can take out a loan to buy a house first, that is also one of the ways to solve the problem.

3 At this time, boys should be more filial to their parents, and you should always consciously say more good things about your parents in front of them, so as to reduce some of the pressure.

You have to do more work in your family, and tell your parents that if they go to trouble and affect their work, you will be the one who will be unlucky in the end. And you don't want to exacerbate the conflict and persecute your parents too much at this time, you can deal with it coldly first and then see.

Category: Annoyances >> in love.

Problem Blocking Description:

We met in college, our relationship is really hard, at the beginning she had a high school boyfriend, I waited a year to wait for her cherishment, now I want to give her a name, told my mother, but my mother thinks she is too short, (she 158 I am 182), and she is half a year older than me, we are now sophomores, my mother said that even if we were admitted to graduate school together, I would not agree, I want me to be filial to her, every time I hit **, I cry to death, I can't bear it, I lied to my mother that I had broken up, but I really didn't want to let go of our relationship and originally planned to get married!! Am I doing the right thing, will my mother change her mind? I don't want my girlfriend to be wronged!!

Analysis: Is it too early to think about getting married in your sophomore year? There are no absolutes.

Now is the first step in your long journey. And I don't want to criticize your mother, but if your mother refuses just because she's short, then it's really unreasonable and crying to death. That's not a reason at all, if you want to focus on your studies now.

Your mother won't change anything in a short period of time, and if you two can't let it go, you will work hard to change your mother with facts, and if your girlfriend is wronged, you will be doubly good to her. But if you want to be filial to your mother, I advise you to let go if you can't let go, and then all three of you will be hurt.