My new girlfriend s family is too bad for my family to be unwilling, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-06-29
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Are you a man?

    It's embarrassing to take out such a small thing.

    I ask you, will you live with your wife or with her family in the future?

    What does her family's behavior have to do with your girlfriend?

    Do you live with your girlfriend for the rest of your life, or do you have a family with her for the rest of your life?

    Think of the little things.

    Failed to grasp the main contradiction of the problem.

    Don't think about anything.

    Is it useful to think so much?

    You can see that you don't have your own principles yet. Standpoint.

    You also care a lot about what other people think.

    It is recommended that you mature first.

    And then go to a relationship.

    Have a good talk. In-depth talk. After really getting to know a person. You make a decision.

    Just you are present. Nothing.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    This kind of problem, I encountered it some time ago, it's my own, my family is the same as you said, it's not good, and the neighbors don't get along well, how to say it, I personally think, please remember, there must be a father and a daughter, but it's not too partial, you can first get to know your girlfriend in depth, after all, it's a lifelong thing, the family is not good, then it depends on how your friend is, of course, what I'm saying is that you like her very much!

    Hope I can help you!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It mainly depends on your own wishes, in fact, the most important thing for two people to be together is to trust each other, combined with what she usually does to you, how do you think of her? Can you continue, in fact, the answer is in your heart, you just sent someone to say it

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The personality of the family will affect her somewhat, but this is not inevitable, the key to picking depends on how you treat your family? Let's get along again.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Ay. Then you can get in touch with it.

    Hearsay is not to be believed.

    How nice it is to see for yourself.

    Then go home and tell your parents what you feel.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You're not married to her family, you're married to her.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The feeling with myself is that you marry a daughter-in-law, not your parents.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Her parents can be unreasonable and snobbish, but you can't be sluggish, so it won't help, and it will make up for your girlfriend.

    I hope you can use your strength to prove to your girlfriend and your girlfriend's parents that you can take good care of their daughter. This requires you to work hard, wealth can be created with wisdom and hard work, I don't believe that if you have a stable job in a second-tier city or below and a monthly salary of tens of thousands, her parents will still be like that. Landlord, your idea is not wrong, your birth conditions are not up to you, and your family environment is not something you can choose, but you can change it.

    I have seen many boys from poor families who are just as good as they are when they come out to work, and they can create very good conditions.

    You have to try to change, instead of being looked down upon or despised by some people and then ask on the Internet, these are useless, only change yourself to change others' views of you, you don't have to be afraid anymore, they will also rest assured that their daughter will be handed over to you, if they still look down on you, then look at their daughter's opinion, if she is also disgusted with the poor and love the rich or obey the decision of her parents, then you try to give up, after all, it is not good with her family, and the future will be very sad. You're right or not.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think she likes your family's money a little more, you better be rational about such a woman, don't wait until you get married and then regret it, it's too late, you don't want to think about it, the big-spending girls from poor families, who else can give them money to spend except Kaizi giving them money? It can be seen that you are a sensual person, as long as a woman gives you a little tenderness, you can't resist, the choice is in your hands, we can't control it, I just want to say "Such a woman is my words, just play, you can't take it seriously, or you will regret it for a lifetime." It's not that I'm biased, it's a personal inference, believe it or not.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Now girls are like that. If you love her and don't care too much, just tell her not to be too arrogant. After all, the family doesn't like the arrogant daughter-in-law very much.

    It's not that the poor have to be poor and can't spend money or anything. My family is not very rich, but my family also raised me as a princess. So I don't think it's a big deal.

    It's good to give each other way.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't think you're a good fit.

    How can there be such a thing?

    At least don't go too far.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Is she your wife? It's not about a girlfriend, it's about a wife!!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    So do you love her? Love, go talk to your parents.

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