Why is my family so feudal, why are so many people feudal and superstitious?

Don't think so, parents all over the world are for the good of their children, and they won't harm you I can also understand the thoughts at your age After all, the thinking of your parents' era was originally a bit traditional, conservative, simple, and thrifty At the age of rebelliousness, I used to be the same as you are now, and I often quarreled with my father for many years, and I drank my father's discord for many years, and how many years have passed, think about it or my own reasons, after all, the traditional thoughts and habits of parents are stereotyped and cannot be changed, so our thoughts are avant-garde, open and active, so we must learn to accept It's good not to speak and be silent Your parents want you to learn some knowledge and have a degree It's good for you Think about which big company doesn't require academic qualifications So your parents' ideological starting point is correct You have to think about it yourself and think twice Do you want to open a restaurant all your life? A good man has ambitions in all directions, and he must have lofty ideals and ambitions There is a popular saying among the people, that is, don't fight for steamed buns, fight for breath Have you really thought about yourself in the future Really live like this for a lifetime? Therefore, if you listen to your parents and go to school well, you will have knowledge and your horizons will be broadened.

If you really don't want to go to school, then you kid has a kind of relying on yourself to run around outside, do your own piece of the world, don't have that ability, just obediently play with your parents, that is not called ability, you know? If you have the ambition and courage, go out and do it, go out and go out.

I'm more direct, don't mind, I hope it helps.

If they don't feel at ease, they can buy a computer at home for you.

If you want to start a business, do it well, why go to an Internet café, where you have experience, or money, although your parents are extreme, but you also seem to be a little rebellious.

Adults think that those who go to Internet cafes are bad teenagers, hehe, buy one yourself.

When I returned to my hometown, the most disgusting thing for me was the feudal mentality.

It's 2022, although it feels like a lot of people have entered the modern mind.

But in the remote mountainous areas, there is still a feudal mentality.

The most annoying thing is to urge you to find a girlfriend, and then give birth to a child.

Watching the people in the village get married and have children in their early 20s is really embarrassing.

In her early 20s, she didn't have a foothold in her career, so she married a wife early, and I don't understand what she thinks, and maybe the woman doesn't think about anything long-term.

There is also breeding cancer, giving birth to children, obviously some people have such difficulties at home, and they are wearing rotten clothes and pants, but they have to give birth to two or three children and put them there.

They don't know what kind of difficult way their children should live this life.

Not only that, but marrying a daughter-in-law is almost the most important existence in their hearts, which is the most disgusting to me.

Although I am 22 years old and still in my third year of college, people ask me if I have a girlfriend, and if not, I will find one as soon as possible.

I haven't even found a job, I haven't graduated yet, and I don't have an independent economy**, I feel that finding a girlfriend is tantamount to adding a burden to my life.

I also listed who was my age who was already married, and who had children... It's disgusting to me.

In addition to that, what disgusted me was that I was forced to have a good relationship with a group of relatives I didn't know.

This is my least favorite.

I'm an indifferent person, and I don't have the heart to have a good relationship with anyone, I just want to get a good ranking in the next semester's competition.

What else is there to protect you in the underworld, so you have to burn more and what, you can't bless yourself and expect others to bless you in the underworld I'm really drunk, and I still look pious.

Zhen Jiannai wants to get out of this hellish place as soon as possible.

1. Believers do not consider themselves superstitious.

2. Don't work. The parable says: Birds and beasts are common when born on the side of the mountain. Fish and boats are common on the seashore.

3. Co-karma. The metaphor says: water, soil, seeds, and light, and the seedlings are combined. It is a common use. The combination of people, times, circumstances, habits, and karma gives rise to the present life.

5. The heart is like a void, embrace everything!

Thoughts are constantly changing, and they are not attached to the thoughts. May the supreme perfection of wisdom be sought. Listen to the teachings of the saints and practice the Fa-rectification. Be kind.

Personal understanding of ideas.

Nan no Master Shakyamuni Buddha.

This is the same as the heart, for example, why are psychologists? That's because it speaks to your heart.

I think it's good.

If you don't like it or don't like it enough, don't talk about it.

It's nothing, I can't say that I have to follow the trend when someone else falls in love, and I have to find one.

Feelings are such a thing, they will always come when they should come.

It's not that you're feudal, you're a very pure and good girl, and you deserve a good boy to love you.

Support you, now people want to fall in love before they are admitted to college, that is called cynicism, if someone must talk to you, then tell them that if they can't be admitted to a university or a higher Tsinghua University, Peking University, Fudan University, Chinese Academy of Sciences University, don't say love me, my pursuit is on a higher mountaintop.

Personally, I think it's not your feudal superstition, but other people, after all, the old ideas and old ideas are far away, say well, they will understand you, good luck, happy heart...

Parents have this kind of thinking, it is not feudal, looking for someone close to home, after all, they know the roots, even if they don't know much, they can also learn about him and his family from familiar channels; And if you look too far, after all, you don't know much about the situation of the other party and your family, and you can't learn about the relevant situation from the corresponding channels, as for what you find from the Internet, it is even more difficult to understand the other party's situation, and there is no corresponding channel to understand.

Your parents are not mainly because of the distance of relatives, but there are more worries, so, even if your boyfriend is willing to follow you, they are not at ease, the current society, very convenient, in the future, your boyfriend and you do not get along, he can lift his feet and leave immediately, where do you go to find him, what should you do with the child? And your boyfriend said that he can follow you, and he will follow you wherever you go, which shows that your boyfriend does not have a stable and fixed job, and he is also a man with no ambition and no career, this kind of man is very unreliable and dangerous for a woman.

If my sister is in your case, I will be the same as your parents against her looking too far, it is better to say that there is a stable job, this kind of man who does not have a stable job, I am firmly against my sister marrying.

Although my sister was looking for a person who was also far away and crossed provinces, my parents were against it at the time, but I was in favor of it because: 1. My brother-in-law has a stable job and a higher income; 2. My sister has been working with my brother-in-law for more than 2 years and has a certain understanding; 3. My two younger brothers have been doing business in my brother-in-law's city for many years, and one of my younger brothers' shop is next to my brother-in-law's workplace, and he also knows my brother-in-law quite well.

I don't rule out that your parents have an overprotective problem. But if you want to change your parents' perception of you, first of all, I think you need to know more about your parents, especially what you think you are like in their minds. Then use the small society of the school to train yourself, and academically, at least you can achieve the status of Baoyan.

There is a more important point, use all the opportunities around you to make money, of course, it is the right way, either study very well and get a lot of scholarships. Achieve maximum financial freedom, and then you can do what you want to do without burdening them, and do everything well, so that they will feel that you have grown up and can not worry about you so much.