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If the gift money is relatively small, then the quality of the dishes will definitely be reduced, I personally think that the banquet is still based on the gift money of relatives and friends, because if the amount of money with the gift is not enough, we are likely to need to come up with more funds to run the banquet relatively speaking, we will lose more money, which means that the funds will be limited, so even if the rural area is a banquet, it should also be judged according to the social development of the gift money should be given!
Many people may think that it is a bad social atmosphere to go to the banquet with too much gift money, but now the cost of various purchases is relatively high, if all our money is borne by the person who runs the banquet, the pressure is very great, so the gift money of the person who comes to the banquet is an important way for us to return funds, that is to say, the guests come to the banquet and then can be used to fill the gap in the funds of our banquet. Of course, if the conditions of a certain family in the countryside are better, they may not care about the amount of gifts, and they may face such a family, even if the gift money is not much, then they will show good sincerity to entertain guests. <>
Sometimes such a thing as a banquet is not unhealthy, some people may feel that the cost of holding a banquet is not very high, and then look at the money that everyone gives with the gift will feel very uncomfortable, in fact, we can not compare the past living conditions with the current living conditions, because if you hold a banquet twenty or thirty years ago, maybe sea cucumber, abalone, prawn elbow, these things will not appear on the table, but now the cost of things used is relatively high, So we have more to give. <>
We go to the banquet because the relationship between the two families is better, otherwise we can't deliberately take time out to participate in each other's banquet, so the important thing is to focus on feelings, and don't care too much about the banquet! <>
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I think you can eat a lot of things at this kind of banquet, 30 yuan per person, if there are 10 people at a table, then 300 yuan, which can be said to be more than enough for a banquet in the countryside.
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If this is the case, most of them are some vegetables or some very small meat, and if the rich man wants to look good, he may add some meat dishes, but seafood or other dishes may be reduced.
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You can also have a delicious meal with a lot of meat and rice.
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I think it should be advocated, because the gift money can only be given more and not less, and in the end, the gift money will be pushed to a very high gold attack amount, which is a very good custom, and it will not fall into favor and will not cause financial distress to others.
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I don't think this custom should be promoted, although we don't advocate sky-high wine prices, but it shouldn't be so cheap, it's not worth advocating.
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I think this kind of behavior can be promoted, and this kind of practice is completely affordable for some low-paid families, such as Huai Pao only has a good feeling, and he will not feel morally kidnapped if he gives everyone this Kai in private.
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This local tradition is very good and can reduce people's desire to compare. Nowadays, the gift is getting higher and higher, at least 200 yuan, and the relatives who are closer to them generally start at 500 yuan. The purpose of the banquet has slowly changed, and it has become a kind of comparison to invite relatives and friends to come and join in the fun in order to celebrate.
It also makes this traditional custom taste, and some people even use this way to make money, which has become a variety of excuses to make money, from relocation to children's birthdays, all of which have to be set up for banquets, as if the more banquets are placed, the status will be different. When it comes to holidays, the most feared thing is to receive the ** of relatives and friends, which means that a month's work and empty thoughts will all disappear. In the era of such advanced communication, it is easier to find a person, a friend who has not been seen for ten years, and there is no contact during the period, and suddenly a message comes and thinks that the other party suddenly misses each other's feelings, but in the end it turns out that it is an invitation to the banquet.
What do you think, sending an invitation is to give face, and not going is not giving face. <>
For the sake of face, it is impossible for many relatives and friends to treat them without gifts, and many people may say that they have gone and returned, and they will be able to recover the gifts they have next time. Since you can get all the gift money back, why raise the gift money higher and higher because of face. And now, even if people are not free, it doesn't matter, the money must arrive, and it used to be a person who must arrive, and it can be forgiven if it doesn't arrive.
And now there are more and more ways to get money, which is also thanks to the development of science and technology. <>
The traditional gift money is in love, not in money, and now money represents love, and the more money you want, the deeper the feelings. In this era, the gift money is getting higher and higher, and the affection is getting thinner and thinner. This is also why I personally think that the local custom gift money is only 30 yuan is very good, and the gift money is less to see the love, and people are sincere to celebrate, and will not cover up the love because of money.
Removing the dross and extracting its essence is the meaning of traditional inheritance.
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It is understood that in ordinary rural areas, the 100 yuan that comes with the gift can no longer be sold. But if you have a little friendship, you have to send at least 200 yuan, and if it is a relative who sells this banquet, it usually starts at 500 yuan.
Weddings, funerals, and banquets are the traditional customs of the common people, in order for relatives and friends to join in the fun. However, in recent years, some people have made money in this way, which has become an excuse to make money, which has changed the flavor of traditional customs. Many people have more and more spirits, such as birthdays, houses and houses, children going to college, and giving birth to children.
Some netizens said that when they were young, there were wedding celebrations in the village, and they all borrowed tables from door to door and wrote the name of the family on the back of the table. There will also be people who will offer to help. Later, there was a special one for this industry, one-stop service.
The banquet gift money is only 30 yuan, this custom is very good, this is called a frugal wedding, it doesn't cost much, but the process is not less at all, creative! Money is not much, but affection, not for money can be endless, continuous.
Now whether it is a man or a woman, in fact, the wedding banquet is a large part of the comparison or influenced by others, and there is a lot of waste, although some processes can be retained, for the wedding banquet, which can be simple, or there is a standard, just enough to eat. The traditional customs should also be removed from the dross to extract their essence, and the good traditional customs should be carried forward, and the dross should be abandoned, and the bad habits should be resolutely suppressed, so that people can reduce their burdens and make the society more harmonious.
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Every place has a Xunshan tradition in every place, because the gift money is originally mutual, you give less, then I give less when I return the gift, this is a mutual thing.
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The traditional customs are different in each place, and some places focus on the friendship between relatives and friends, and don't want to burden them too much, which is also good.
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We all know that our country is full of banquets, whether it is a happy event or a white event, there will be a few tables for relatives and friends to celebrate. However, the custom of setting up banquets is prevalent in rural areas. But there are many banquets, purely for the purpose of receiving gift money, so do you know which ones?
Let me give you an inventory!
I don't think there's a need to set up a banquet for the birthday party, and I also think that this kind of banquet is just to receive gift money. In some places, when the elderly reach the age of 70 or 80, their children will set up a banquet for them and invite the whole village to dinner. For such a thing as a birthday, your children and grandchildren can celebrate yourself, and there is no need to call the whole village to eat.
There is also a college entrance banquet, where relatives and friends are invited to dinner when you are admitted to university, and the gift money given at the college entrance banquet is relatively higher. It's just that if you are admitted to a university, there is no need to put up thirty or forty tables.
There are also their own children full moon, and some people will also set up a banquet, what is the purpose of their banquet? Is it to celebrate the full moon of their children? I don't think so, it's probably just a gift money.
How long has it been since I got married a year ago and set up a banquet? Do you want to make a banquet for your child's full moon? There are all kinds of banquets in the countryside, so some people will say that your watchdog will have a banquet when he gives birth to a puppy, which is a satire on those who love to set up banquets.
There are also those who have moved to a new house to set up a banquet, I don't think this kind of banquet is necessary at all, it is purely to collect gift money. Some banquets are very necessary, such as the death of the elderly, so that everyone comes to see the old man off for the last time. There is also getting married, so that everyone can witness their happiest moment together.
So now it is also advocated that the practice of not setting up a banquet, if there is anything good, you can get together as a family and have a few drinks, there is no need to make the scene so big. Do you think what I'm saying makes sense?
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Because of poverty and backwardness in the rural areas, the cultural quality is generally low, and now there is a slight improvement in the situation, and some deep-rooted ideas are gradually being dismantledUnder the propaganda of the policy, there are few banquets that purely accept gift money.
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What hotel is open, snack bar is open.
It opens twice a year, and each time you have to follow a little bit, which is more disgusting.
There are also those who build houses and move to new homes, and this kind of gift money is also difficult to recover.
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Some banquets in rural areas are purely for the purpose of receiving gift money, such as the 10th, 5th, 7th and so on.
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Now it is allowed to hold banquets, that is, weddings, funerals, and weddings, in addition to these kinds of banquets, such as college banquets, birthday banquets, and housewarming banquets are purely for receiving gifts.
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I saw that you have broccoli pork belly, sweet and sour pork ribs, osmanthus fish, roast duck, white-cut chicken, fried lily dice, vermicelli, braised pork, choy sum, soup, a total of 11 dishes, calculated as follows.
1: The pork belly is about 8 taels per table, which requires 25 catties, and the pork belly is 25 yuan a catty, and the cost is about 700 yuan.
2: Sweet and sour pork ribs, 8 taels of ribs per table, 18 pieces of pork ribs a catty, plus other ingredients cost about 600 yuan.
3: Osmanthus fish is about 30 yuan per catty of 2 taels per catty, and the cost is 1800
4: Roast duck is 2 catties per table, 18 yuan a catty, and the cost is 1200
5: The cost of 50 yuan per white cut chicken is 1500, I don't know what kind of chicken you use, if you use the general chicken on the market, this ** is absolutely OK.
6: Fried lily lotus seeds are made of materials per table, the cost is 15 yuan, a total of 450
7: The cost of the pink skin is 8 pieces per table, a total of 250
8: Fried vermicelli costs 8 yuan per table, a total of 250
9: Braised pork per table of pork is 15 yuan a catty, about 600 yuan.
10: Choy sum per table catty, 3 yuan a catty, the cost is 150
11: I don't know what kind of soup you have, the cost is about 15 yuan per table, 450 yuan.
Now for the cost:
In addition, the processing fee of 4500 is 7950 + 4500 = 12450 yuan.
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