My boyfriend said that I wouldn t have wine when I got married?!

Updated on psychology 2024-06-20
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Tie the knot. Wine is not set wine. It needs to be decided by both parties through mutual consultation.

    It mainly depends on the meaning of the old people on both sides. You can talk to your parents about this, and ask your parents to talk to them about it. Marriage is a great event in a person's life.

    It is also the most normal thing to have a wedding banquet. If you don't want to put the wine on the table, you have to give a suitable reason.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you don't have a treat when you get married, you may not be taken very seriously. You can just say what you think. For example, if you get married once in your life, if you don't have a treat, I don't think you value me.

    I don't like this kind of feeling, but I still hope that you can treat me and let your relatives and friends get to know me. And you can't agree to what he says? You have to have your own ideas and be able to speak your mind.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's completely okay, wedding wine is a formality, but most places have this custom, and it is customary to put it on the table. If not, it is advisable to obtain the consent of both parties (including the husband and wife) and their families. Because getting married is a big deal.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you don't put wine, at least he has a better tone For example, he said to me guiltily, "Wife, because the economic conditions of the miscellaneous people do not allow it now, you have nothing to marry me, I really wronged you" Your husband also said this, you feel better, his attitude and tone are like you begging him to marry you, hey! Understand your feelings!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If your boyfriend says that you don't want to drink when you get married, then you can talk to him and tell him your thoughts and suggestions. It doesn't have to be whatever he says, the two of them can discuss it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you think that your boyfriend said that you can accept it when you get married, then just say yes. If that's not acceptable, at least try setting up a few tables. You should also tell some close family and friends.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can convince him that it is a bit unfestive and not lively to get married without wine, and marriage is a lively thing, so it is better to let him know that it is better to set up wine.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If your boyfriend says that you don't want to get married, add more bride price if you agree, and if you agree that you want to set up a banquet, then discuss with your boyfriend that you want to set up a banquet.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    My boyfriend said that I don't have wine when I get married, so you can communicate with him well, because marriage is a lifelong thing, and you must celebrate it with liquor.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    My boyfriend said that I don't want to set up a banquet when I get married, and I think this is also a good way, because it is a waste of money, material resources and time to set up a banquet, so it is better for two people to go out for a trip, which will feel more romantic.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Wedding wine is an important ceremony. Especially in some rural areas, it is not considered a marriage if there is no wine. You can ask your boyfriend why he doesn't drink and communicate well.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It doesn't matter, it doesn't matter if you don't have a banquet, as long as you get a marriage certificate, and if you get a marriage certificate, you are husband and wife.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can tell him that you want to let friends and family know that you are married. Marriage is a matter of two people, and you have to take into account everyone's feelings, you can take a step back and do a small ceremony to notify relatives and friends that you are getting married.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Of course, I can't agree to it, and I will get married once in my life. You also let him decide at will. You can't be hasty, you must put the wine, and the process should be the same.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    My boyfriend said that you should support him when you get married, which saves a lot of trouble and leaves a lot of free space for the two of you, which I think is very good

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think your boyfriend may not want to make a big deal, after all, both of them are out of town, and it will cost a lot of money to go back, if the money is not as good as coming to duty, I think you and her home are better, so I think your boyfriend should not set up a banquet.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you don't want to drink when you get married, then you can discuss it with him, if it is indeed understandable for financial reasons.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Whether to set up a banquet or not is completely different from whether people love you or not, there is no inevitable causal relationship, a lot of people who have set up a banquet are divorced, and a lot of low-key married people are very happy, their own happiness is the most important, the form is not important, who said that there must be, those people are afraid that the world will not be chaotic is to do evil.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you don't have a marriage certificate, if you haven't got a marriage certificate, it's easy to say anything, ask him why he doesn't put wine, break up if the reason is not sufficient, if he doesn't put wine, how can the wedding be held, is it a travel marriage? How to compensate you, if there is nothing, then it is better to say goodbye early.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If the man's economy is okay, it will be a bit of a problem if he is unwilling to set up a banquet, but if he doesn't have much money, he may be stingy and unwilling to spend more.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    My boyfriend said that I don't drink when I get married. Do you agree with him? If you agree, no problem - the hero sees the same thing. If there is a disagreement, we can discuss and resolve the matter.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    My boyfriend said that if you don't have wine when you get married, either you will set up a few tables by yourself to love your relatives, or you will leave this person.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    My boyfriend said that I don't drink when I get married, and I think you should communicate with your boyfriend to alleviate this phenomenon.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    My boyfriend said that I shouldn't get married, so what should I do? He probably just doesn't want others to know, and he doesn't want to spend so much money on this wedding.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Pretend not to know him, and it's fine.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think this question needs to be discussed between the two of you, I believe that as long as you want to hold a banquet, he will also agree, because he loves you, if he really doesn't love you very much, he will definitely not marry you, and he may think that it is now the epidemic period to hold a banquet, it is really inappropriate, and something is possible.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Are you sure he loves you? Or is it just that after being together for a long time, getting used to it, thinking that it is convenient for you, and he can't find a better one on his terms, he just should get married before marrying you? Regardless of whether to invite a guest or not, if the conditions are just bad and I don't agree to do it, then I have nothing to say, and I can't stand and talk without backache.

    Judging from the way you communicated, you consulted with him so decently, and he refused all of them rudely for no reason. I was even embarrassed to say that I just wanted to sit and receive red envelopes, saying that it was a bit light-skinned to be cheeky. It's all a matter of character.

    He is not in good condition now, and I dare say that this kind of person will only get poorer and poorer. Before you get married, think about it carefully......And "I'll repeat it again", who does he think he is! What "shall I marry you or you marry me", the ghost will marry him!

    even said, "If you don't get married, you won't look at the day",, who is afraid of whom, don't be so low as a woman. No one is inseparable from anyone.

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