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Marriage doesn't have to be a drink. As long as you get a marriage certificate, you are a legal husband and wife, you don't have to set up a wine and invite guests to dinner, the wedding is just a formality, and it doesn't have to be held.
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According to common sense, marriage must be set on the table, but now during the epidemic, according to the actual situation, you can also avoid the practice of putting wine, I don't know what reason you are, if it is an objective reason, there is no way, if it is a subjective reason, or choose to set the wine, after all, it is a major event in your life, both for men and women.
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Marriage is a major event in life, most people will set up a drink to invite relatives and friends to celebrate, of course, there are a few people who choose not to drink, whether to put it or not is your freedom, others can't control.
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But I think it's better to look at the living conditions of married relatives, friends and neighbors, simple weddings and ** "grand" marriages, which type of people are happier, we will follow her approach.
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You can put it or not, but the customs of the Chinese are to be placed, lively, there is a sense of ceremony, look at yourself, discuss with your family, most people still pay attention to this sense of ceremony.
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You don't have to put wine, there are many choices, and traveling to get married can achieve the purpose of marriage.
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Consider according to the wishes of both parties
Getting married is a big deal, and I think it's good to do it within my ability.
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Generally speaking, you have to put it up, and it's okay if you don't put it, you make your own decisions.
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The meaning of the wedding banquet is actually to celebrate, after all, marriage is a lifelong event, it is something that everyone deserves to celebrate, and at the same time, it is also called to relatives and friends, neighbors and neighbors to celebrate together, lively and lively, happy events should be lively.
Why do you have to hold a banquet when you get married, this may be a question in the minds of the younger generation, since I was a child, I have participated in so many weddings like a model show, and I have seen so many embarrassing scenes of welcoming relatives and spoofing people.
However, the concept of parents is completely different, many times the wedding is often the intention of the parents, in their opinion, marriage must be held, otherwise others do not know that you are married. When they attend other people's weddings, they may think that their own cubs will have to put on such a scene in the future, and the money given away in this year must be recovered, so the concept of the older generation is that they must have a banquet when they get married.
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1. Marriage should have a sense of ceremony.
Obtaining the certificate means getting married, but there are only two people, or two family guides, and the wedding banquet invites relatives and friends to participate, and under the witness of everyone, the ceremony is held, which means that the combination of the two is more ceremonial.
2. Make memories for the future.
Usually at the wedding banquet, there will be someone to take pictures and videos, and then the couple will get a CD, USB flash drive and the like, which can be taken out to watch at any time in the future when they want to watch it, and recall that sweet day.
3. Return the favor.
The older generation thinks that when someone else gets married and invites you to go, then when you get married, you have to invite the other party to come, and when someone else's child gets married, you have to invite him, saying that it is a treat, and it is also in the process of returning favors.
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It's just to collect money. If you don't put the wine on the table, no one will come.
Why do people in the countryside come to pay tribute? Not because they like the bride or groom, but because they like to come to the feast.
No one cares if the groom marries a man or a woman, and no one cares who the bride marries. They only care if the dish can be eaten and when it will be served. Can I eat the gift that I came with?
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Now our wine culture pays great attention to decency, that is, whether it is a wedding, a reunion of classmates and friends, or a Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, as long as it is luxurious enough and the scene is grand enough, the more it reflects the friendship between them (her). However, I personally think that although I don't know enough about the world, as long as everyone has a tacit understanding, a feeling, and an atmosphere enough, it is okay to arrange the scene just right, but the friendship between the two people is deep enough, as the saying goes, love is stronger than gold, after all, the focus of marriage is to live hand in hand in the future, and share weal and woe together, and it is not how luxurious the wedding scene is. In this way, it will be humiliating and disgraced to the family, how grand the banquet was at the beginning, how humiliating it is now. The above is my personal opinion, you can refer to it.
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The wedding wine is mainly for the blessings of relatives and friends, as well as money.
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1. In order to recover the money.
2. In order to announce that all the relatives and friends I know are married.
3 Girls generally have fantasized about their weddings, dreamed of becoming princesses, and fulfilled their dreams for girls.
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Marriage is a lively thing, our country has a way of hospitality from ancient times to the present, I like everyone to sit together lively, very happy.
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Wedding wine is basically a custom of life.
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Marriage is a major event in life, and it is lively to receive blessings.
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In fact, the wedding wine is just to announce it to the friends around you, that is, to introduce each other. Notify relatives and friends to come over, and everyone has a lively time, which is also a celebration of marriage. Moreover, marriage is a lifelong event, and for the newlyweds, they also hope to get the blessings of relatives and friends, and love each other for a lifetime.
Secondly, it is influenced by some local customs. In some places, there may be a custom of serving sake for the sake of joy.
Marriage does not have to be a wine, in fact, the first rush, marriage does not have to be a wine. Generally speaking, if the two families discuss it and feel that it is necessary, they will put it on the table, as mentioned earlier, and celebrate it well. But if the economy doesn't allow it, it's normal not to swing.
Some brides may want to have a strong idea of having a drink. After all, a girl's marriage is a major decision in itself, and most of them hope that they can marry in style, influenced by traditional concepts.
In short, getting married doesn't have to be a wedding wine. Fuliang mainly depends on the customs of the hall of the people, the attitudes of male and female parents and male and female parties. <>
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