Who knows how to redeem their love?

In fact, once the relationship is lost, it can never be recovered, don't try to deceive yourself and think that the relationship has been regained.

It's like spoiled food, if it's spoiled, you have to throw it away, maybe you can eat it, but the nutrients in it have been depleted, isn't this like feelings?

If you lose, it's good to move on with the rest of your life, find out your shortcomings from the failed relationship and learn how to deal with the next relationship well. If you have it, you must cherish it more.

In fact, sometimes giving up is also an option.

After a few days apart, do you think we will see each other again as we did at the beginning? It's changed. Everything changes. It just depends on how you treat it.

Once you change your mind, you still need to redeem it, even if it is redeemed, it is no longer what it was at the beginning.

If life is only as it is when you first saw it, the feeling of meeting for the first time will be returned. It's hurt, it's painful, I don't want to love, in fact, I still have him in my heart, travel once, change the environment, find my mood again, and find a happy time.

Dear, I can only say with sincerity, if you are sincere but have not succeeded, it can only mean that he (she) is not the person you are looking for.

It depends on how you got it in the first place, and how you lost it. If you make some changes, you can make the reason for the breakup no longer become a reason, and the redemption is natural. However, some reasons for breaking up are desperate, such as empathy, life and death, such as that he never loved you...

1. Set a goal for yourself Don't radically adjust your mentality, whether you are in a two-sided block or being able to be friends, the point is that the mentality is good, the state is good, and the situation is only temporary, so you don't need to worry about the current situation, whether it will have any impact on your future. 2. Change your sleep quality I know that you will definitely have insomnia, and you will definitely not sleep well, because you have no way to control yourself from thinking about him, you might as well put a little hypnosis ** to relax yourself, or even do exercises to make yourself tired enough, so that you will be able to fall asleep well and face the battle in the best state. 3. Change your style of clothing He has been with you for so long, it's time to change it, so that he has enough freshness, people will like beautiful things, and men will of course like beautiful women, just like women like to look at handsome guys, everyone will pay special attention to beautiful things.

4. Freezing treatment Don't pester him, don't go to him, give him enough time to think, two people temporarily maintain a certain sense of distance, it is a good thing for both parties, you don't have to worry about whether he will forget you, a person's memory can't be deleted so easily. 5. Create your own mentality and personality When you are freezing, you must remember not to let yourself be idle, but to build yourself, your appearance, personality, and circle of friends are all lively, and you can attract each other with positive energy, rather than self-pity, so that the other party wants to alienate you more. 6. Make yourself prepared for all kinds of situations What kind of situation you will face, you have to prepare well, all kinds of possibilities can not defeat yourself, you must do a good job of risk assessment, make the situation clear, if you are sad all day long, you can't complete the recovery process, take out a smile.

7. You have to start building a framework and let your girlfriends help you, play cover, send a circle of friends, interact a little more, be positive, and make your circle of friends come alive, this step will make him feel that you are different from before, you have really changed a lot, and you are better, let him think independently about whether the decision to break up is wrong. 8. Let yourself become an elegant woman Reading, yoga, painting, flower arrangement, and cultivating the interests that can be cultivated not only make you better and better, but also make him feel that you have come out, no longer rely on him as before, no longer focus on him alone, and let him form a sense of gap. 9. The secret of letting him take the initiative to redeem is actually attracting, the better you build yourself, the higher the probability of him coming back, and the more stable your relationship will be, the more you ignore him, the more anxious he is, a good attitude and skills in redemption will definitely make you a winner in redemption.