The whole family vehemently opposes my current girlfriend 30

It's a real headache. Cohabitation is still unacceptable to many of the older generations.

Living with your girlfriend without the consent of both family members is indeed disrespectful to your parents. But since it has happened, you should take this responsibility, and I hope that no matter what, you don't give up.

Maybe your family is very different, so your family thinks that the woman has other plans.

Option one, you just have a baby. Didn't your family think she would abandon you? With all the children, they should be at ease.

The second option is to spend it. Time can explain and dissolve everything. As long as the two of you are willing, it will take two or three years, and then your parents will see that you have been doing well, maybe they won't care so much. It's just that you have to be wronged by the woman to make this sacrifice for you.

But you must work together. Being together means not just living together, but also working together. Don't be looked down upon. Especially your girlfriend. When your family finds out that the woman is actually very good, it will be easier to accept her.

Also, don't get into arguments when negotiating with your family. Deal with it calmly. Can't talk back.

This matter will definitely cast a shadow on the woman. So, be sure to handle it properly.

I wish you all happiness and happiness.

I just want to say that you really want to be with your girlfriend. Want to defend your girlfriend's words. There is no problem at all.

For the family, it will be your wife who will live with you in the future, not them. It's so simple, it's because your own heart is not stable enough, don't talk about how difficult your family is. It's simply you running away from your girlfriend and taking her home.

Fear of family members. Coward.

This thing sticks to one belief. You think you're married now. Nothing else is a problem.

As long as the two of you don't have civil strife, it will definitely be resolved. Those problems in the family are external causes. The two of you are the internal cause.

Internal factors can change external factors. It's important to persevere.

In fact, the old man is just worried, worried that he will repeat the mistakes of the past. Why do you want to tell them that you used to like girls? I don't think your parents and your girlfriend have met???

I want your girlfriend to meet your parents. Have a good chat, no matter how bad they say, you must stay calm and let your girlfriend speak to your parents. Speak out about your love for you.

Maybe things will get better. Try it, how can there be a turnaround if you don't try???

It is advisable to break up, so that it is good for you and her. Better a finger off than always aching.

First, your family is strongly opposed to it, and for good reason.

Second, now that your position is also unstable, you have also discovered the problems that exist between you.

It doesn't matter if you have a rural hukou, but your attitude to life and your cognitive perspective must get along with each other. Otherwise, how can we live together in the future?

It is said that people in love are blind, you now clearly know the problems between you, if you don't want to give up, you must first solve the problems between you. If it can be solved then get along and see, if you feel that it cannot be solved, then you have to tell the truth as soon as possible, the longer it drags on, the more damage it will cause to the other party.

If you really like her, really love her, then, get along for a while, maybe things have taken a turn for the better, but if you don't like her a little psychologically, then you have to figure out whether you want to be with her by yourself, if you think she is a rural hukou short and has no job, then you can talk quickly, or you will regret it.

The truth should be told.

Hiding it from her is probably also a harm to her.

Hurt to self-esteem.

Rural hukou is actually nothing, short stature, and it is not very important, as long as it is not a boy, it doesn't matter.

But not having a job is a big problem. How will you live in the future?

Should talk to her.

If she doesn't want to change the status quo at all, it can only mean that she is a person who does not seek improvement, so it is better to give up.

There are times when this society still pursues the right door

Love what you love...

yes, let's spend some time together

So do you love your girlfriend or not? We don't need to say anything more about love.

Give up, this kind of person is not worth your effort.

elope, what's the **.

Go to the ends of the earth.

There are only two people to go.

Note: MS is not realistic.

People are selfish, her family is, why don't you?

Everyone wants to have perfect love. Men think, and so do women.

However, since ancient times, how many people can always be a winner in the face of love?

This requires "competence".

To put it simply, "ability" = "money" and "power" ......What do you have now?

Cheer up, a man has money equals everything.

There is really no direction, you might as well buy lottery tickets, looking for psychological comfort but in your current state, I advise you not to buy lottery.

To get their family to agree, only to solve the root cause of poverty However, poverty is not something that can be solved all at once, of course, if you are lucky enough to win the lottery, then it is another matter, so you can try to buy a lottery ticket Otherwise, the problem of your poverty cannot be solved, no matter what you do, her family is still against it Or, you simply don't care whether you are poor or not, you fall in love is your personal business, don't care about her family, when they are dead, they don't agree with it, do what they want, put their hearts sideways, Men are meant to be strong! You've been a soldier before.

Even if you get married and have children, do you think you can raise them? You can't even satisfy the simplest material life, is it interesting for you to be together? Do you think you love a woman who suffers with her children with you?

Ah Mu sings well, there is a kind of love called letting go. It is not required that life is very good, at least it must be more than what is less than what is below. Hopefully, you'll think it through.

Be strong, first prove that you can give her happiness, prove that your ability may not make a lot of money, but it is the most suitable for her, if you can't, give up.

Big brother, I really don't understand, what are you afraid of, what era is it now, prepare to elope, talk to their family first, do you marry your daughter or marry money, is that man good for your girlfriend.

Then he beat them up and ran away overnight.

Like a man, you are a soldier, at least you have force, can't you beat them?

It is said that unblessed love will not be happy, and if you are together, it will definitely be very hard.

Stay the course, I believe you will be happy!

Understandably, if you are in the right direction, please persevere, persistence is victory.

You can change your situation only until her family agrees. But then you need a long time, you can ask your girlfriend if she is willing to wait, and if she does, you should do everything you can

I'm more in favor of the upstairs statement. (Honestly).

The society that is not now is very realistic, not the same as before.

My daughter-in-law and I were both parents against it at the time, but we persevered and experienced many difficult setbacks. If you feel that you are capable of facing the difficulties ahead, think clearly. I think your girlfriend has a good family condition, and it is difficult to face life independently.

Work hard, you're excellent, her family naturally agrees, but it takes time, and your girlfriend has to wait for you.

If you love, you must persevere to the end no matter what!! Go hard, struggle, and make yourself better!! Sometimes, life is not for two people, and marriage is a matter of three families. It's really hard to choose!!

1。You work hard to earn more money than that person

2。Take her to elope, this is the last resort

1.Not in vain. She'll remember it. ~

2.You don't have to worry what his family thinks. The main thing is how your girlfriend wants to know no. If your girlfriend really likes you. No matter how much his family opposes it, he will still be with you. ~

3.The third question is very correct.

4.Everyone is a family member who puts it first. Aren't you the same? It's the same for everyone. The first family. 2nd brother. The third is your girlfriend.

Then you have to do a good job with his family. Communicate more with his family. It's all about time. The days are long. His family will slowly accept it. Be patient! I've got your back!

Your own happiness is something you have to strive for

It's your own happiness. And not your parents'

Believe in yourself. You're sure to be able to do both...

I wish you happiness

Many times, what deeply hates infiltrates the soul is often just some faint past, just some faint words.

However, because there is a sincere love in it, there is an unforgettable touch like years.

Let your family tie the knot for you, and let your wife raise them.

The happiness of love is earned by oneself.

Break up, she didn't stand on your side when you were in trouble, and you can imagine it later.

Go to her house and behave better Consult your family members Comprehensively give her advice Love her must be determined to be firm, but there must be no unequal treaties If her family's economic conditions are better, then it doesn't matter if you coax a little more Everything must be discussed If it doesn't work then I don't know.

It's a big problem, I think time will test your relationship, the important thing is that your girlfriend doesn't give up, if she gives up, I think it's useless for you to do anything

Good luck

Didn't your parents tell you why? Believe your parents, and the old man should listen to them.

Marriage is your marriage, marriage is not the same as falling in love, a day or two, if it doesn't work, it will be withdrawn, marriage is a lifelong thing, I will tell you a thing about me, I used to be always alone, especially lonely, so I found a girlfriend to fall in love, maybe I suddenly found that I could not marry him, and delayed her for so long, I especially regret it, since you met, the person you like, you should not care about your parents' opinions, although parents are for the good of their children, but in terms of feelings, Especially for my life's events, I still have to feel good about myself. My dad told me that marriage is a person's second reincarnation, and you have to make your own decisions.

It's a tricky situation, but there's a solution to everything. First of all, you have to be quite patient, you must calm down, if the people who oppose you are not hard-hearted, you just need to use your true feelings and patience to slowly impress and persuade them. And the most important thing between people is communication.

What's wrong with opposition, if you really love each other, you will get a marriage certificate, and you don't need your parents' consent to get the certificate. Don't have a wedding yet).

When the time comes, take it slowly and fight Getting her is the most important thing, and when she is willing to really unite with you, her family will not be a problem.

It's up to you to show more, it's good if it's been a long time! I used to be in the same situation as you.

In the past, my friends used to tell me that it would be good to cook raw rice into cooked rice, but I never did that, and I used my actions to succeed.

Then show some sincerity to their families and see if you can give her happiness.

Go and please your father-in-law! Show them what you're made of, and they should be able to make a difference about you.

It's OK to bring a baby back, or you can take root in Hunan, and if you have money, your family will pick up Guangdong together.

The question is whether that person is willing to give up everything for you and if so, don't miss out.

If you don't want to give up, go to Hunan to work and live! If you insist on being in Guangdong, you two can only break up!

There is no other way! It's true!

In fact, everyone understands the hard work of her parents After all, there are only 2 daughters in the family I definitely want to be by my side Why don't you communicate with her parents and show your determination to take good care of his daughter, after all, his parents are not worried that their daughter is so far away that no one will take good care of them, it really can't work, you just obey her and go to Hunan.

Can't put it down? Let's go to Hunan! If you don't want to go, let it go, and if you don't dare to make sacrifices, that's not true love.