How to change a person through online conversation

People who talk to people on the Internet generally have bitterness in their hearts, but it is difficult to tell the people around them, so they expect strangers on the other end of the network. So first of all, you have to give him a message – you understand him.

Give your own example to show that understanding is important.

For example, if someone says that his mother is stricter with him, then you can give an example of yourself being controlled by your mother, so that you can get closer to you. In fact, we are all human beings, and our experiences will be more or less similar. This is a skill, but it is not deceptive.

Second, we have to listen to him spit out his bitterness, psychologically, listening is very important. Whatever he thinks, you don't have to agree with it, but you have to understand it first.

You must be skillful in your speech, and you can't speak too rigidly. For example, what is wrong with this, and it is absolutely wrong to do so, try not to say. It may seem a bit hypocritical, but it's a communicative technique.

Generally, when others and you spit bitterness, they are under the control of their emotions, and their thinking is inhibited, and you can't listen to the words that go against your ears, so you have to follow them and wait until they calm down.

The specific situation depends on your own grasp, psychological counseling is very skillful, and copying books is not enough.

The third is that both online and face-to-face conversations are detached from reality. For example, after your conversation, he said that he understood that his parents were strict. But if you don't really experience your parents' nagging about him, but you can't verify whether your conversation is effective, it's definitely a long-term process, don't think that one or two times will work, and if you go through a few conversations, he can't change and don't be discouraged, it's normal.

These are some of the experiences I've learned, and I feel pretty good, but they haven't been verified, and I don't know if they can be universally applied. But I can give you a reference.

Aunt Bi Shumin said that if he himself doesn't want to change, no one can change him.

So if the person you're talking to doesn't want to change, don't force him.

If he wants to change, then please gently tell him that everything is in time, help him come up with ideas, don't rush, take his time, maybe he can't change for the time being, just wait patiently and guide him in time. Of course, you don't have to have a low posture, after all, ......Doesn't seem like you owe him anything.

In fact, online chat is the same as chatting in real life.

It's easy to say that influencing a person.

It's hard to say change.

Because changing a person is a long process.

I recommend a book to the landlord, "Psychological Counseling Interview Manual", which is not good-looking, but every word is beautiful.

Hope it helps.

Please remember that if you want to hurry, you can't reach it, and you need to have a good atmosphere for a long time.

It's easy to open up to each other as complete strangers.

It is possible to use the virtuality and mystery of the network to help, but the process can be long and difficult.

I think it's very difficult Even if you are usually in contact, it is a long process, and it requires subtle changes in your thoughts.

How does it sound like you're talking about me! However, it is difficult to change a person, so it is better to persevere, and you may be moved and want to change.

Yes, but online dating is very hard, if you are sure to insist, go and confess, I wish you success

If you feel that the other party's conduct is good, you can confess, and if you want to meet, you must choose a place where there is a lot of excitement. You must not go alone.

Confess, don't leave regrets.

Just don't regret and regret it

Crushes are the most beautiful. Wait until you fall in love a few more times and you'll understand. Don't act rashly, not everything has to be acted upon.

Let's be realistic. Are you sure you're going to get along well after dating? It's nothing more than regret in the end.

Friends got along. Once you lose a bet, it's not the same as before.

If he's interested in you, it's been two years. Isn't it enough for him to confess to you?

This has a small chance of success.

I don't recommend going, because you don't know what kind of feelings she has for you, and maybe you can't even be a friend after you confess, but I'm just a suggestion, and it depends on what you think about it or not.

Go with your feelings, say what you like, but be cautious.

If it's a woman, forget it, this kind of thing is embarrassing.

What kind of game is it? Well, it should be hard. Now there are more and more people playing games, and according to statistics, if you complain now, the staff may not see it until next year or the year after.

Why do you want to adjust it? Is it close? Landlord, you can't help, you can lower your requirements and play with peace of mind!

Anyway, it's almost 2012......Hee-hee, if you can design a game in the future, I think, you'll handle it well. In fact, it's okay to be close, but it's even more disturbing ......to be far away

You can't modify online games, this should be common sense.

Give me the best.

You should learn.

Smile. Hippie smiley.

Compulsively face and forget to laugh at yourself.

You should learn to be narcissistic.

It should be spoken with momentum.

It should have the charm of its own voice.

Try to be as concise as possible.

Don't talk too much nonsense about irrelevant words.

Try to talk about the most important things in the conversation.

Don't get involved if it's irrelevant.

Listen carefully when communicating.

Don't interrupt. Small case in the face of customers

Don't take your customers too seriously.

They are also people.

You should just go out and ask for directions.

Of course, politeness and idioms are all neat for me.

Don't waste your time with all that uselessness.

Be careful about the length of time you spend talking to different people.

It's a long time, you can play again next time, don't delay others, it's okay to have too much time, and there are many things that depend on the specific arrangement system of your company.

You have to strictly follow it.

There are also some secrets.

Be considerate of other people's questions.

And if you don't understand, you can ask your elders.

It's best to let the other party hang up before the fight**.

There are many others to study their own.

Experience. May you have a smooth work and a happy life.

Don't be so burdened in your heart.

Spend one or two evenings doing some homework.

Let's start by summarizing the possible problems.

Think about how other colleagues have solved it and write a few solutions.

Refine the text.

Sort them out and copy them in a small book.

There are also clichés and words that procrastinate to think about yourself and problems.

Then pick up the ** and open the small book.

Half to the mind ...

You're definitely a lot more confident.

I'm also a customer servicer.

So know your embarrassment.

That's when it's all about smiling.

Then there is the repeated practice before the branch.

The most important thing is to stand in the customer's shoes.

Think about what kind of service they need at the time, so that communication will be easier.

Customer God, their eloquence is not very good, but the position is different, you can empathize with the following how they want to embarrass you OK, you are eating a bowl of rice, you should think about what possible problems first, and slowly find a friend to solve it

Don't think of your customers as scary and treat them as your parents.

First of all, you have to have self-confidence, keep smiling, have a demeanor, occasionally have a little humor, don't not talk to girls, you treat them as sisters, learn more about the topics that girls care about, this conversation is more tangible, it is easier to approach them, remember that gentleness of men is king, fighting to support you.

Typical colored hearts have no color gall.