Why don t some people take the initiative to repay the money, and have to wait for others to ask for

Such a person may be cheeky.

It's thicker, and then I feel that it doesn't matter, so I don't take the initiative to repay the money, it may be that I simply want to borrow money, but I don't want to pay you back, it's very selfish, and I only care about myself and don't think about others.

It may be that he is also in a hurry, and the funds cannot be turned over, which is understandable.

This may be related to the personality of the individual, this kind of person is more procrastinating, does not have a good living habits, borrows other people's money, and has to wait for others to urge him to pay it back.

Because he felt that he lost face when he borrowed money, and he had to earn back face when he repaid the money.

Such people are actually really annoying, mainly because they themselves are not clear about these debts at all, and they are not willing to pay them back.

Because some people are not very good in character, she doesn't know the reason that she has to take the initiative to repay the money when she borrows money, and he doesn't want to pay it back after borrowing money, even if you ask him again and again, he may not be, and don't lend him money anymore if you repay such a person.

It may be because these people are not so wealthy, or they do not have the habit of taking the initiative to repay the money, and they are used to repaying the money after others repeat it repeatedly.

In fact, it's not that they don't plan to pay back, it's more likely that because of life reasons, and then choose to delay again and again.

I've met such friends before, and the best way now is for him to ask you for money, and you say when you owe me money and haven't given it to me.

It's hard to say, it's possible that he is really financially tight, and he can't pay it back. Maybe it's because he's in the habit of not paying it back if he doesn't urge it.

I think he may not have enough money in his hands, or he doesn't want to pay it back at all, and he gets used to it

They are holding on to luck in their hearts. They just think that if someone forgets him, they don't have to pay it back, so they just keep waiting.

After all, money can do a lot of things in your own hands, and generally those who have money and haven't paid it back are selfish

People are very sensitive to get along with each other, especially when it comes to money, which is really troublesome.

However, I think since the other party is willing to lend money to you, you should trust you more, if the relationship is iron enough, you can have a heart-to-heart conversation with the other party, be sincere, say what is in your heart, and let the other party understand your difficulties, provided that the other party does not use money for the time being, if the other party is in a hurry, it is not easy to say.

If you are really afraid that your relationship will be affected because of your dishonesty several times, there is only one most helpless but also the most effective way - tearing down the west wall and making up the east wall. It's not bad to borrow money from other places and pay it back, which can not only save your reputation, but also buy you more time to raise money.

I wish you a speedy way out of this difficult situation!

You can repay a part of it to others first, such as 5,000 yuan or 2,000 yuan first, and express your sincerity in repaying the money with actions. Then explain your difficulties to others sincerely, and in the end, the important thing is that you still have to work hard to earn money and try to pay it back to others as soon as possible. Now, you can't give it back to someone at all.

Give people hope and confidence.

You should first borrow some money from other friends who have a better relationship and pay back his money first, and then you save money to repay this friend as soon as possible, so that you will have more time to save this 10,000 yuan. I think it's a good way to do it, after all, it's a matter of credibility and can't be pushed any more!

Ask someone out for dinner.

Then pay back the previous part first.

Discuss with the creditor.

It's okay to push it a few times.

This time, show some sincerity.

Don't let him think you're talking like you're talking.

I think he lent it to you because you have a relationship.

Then be brave enough to make it clear.

I had to push it again, but I will definitely not be able to borrow money from others in the future, so it's best to find a way to pay it back quickly, and my reputation is not good

There is no way to do this, and it is a matter of course to repay debts. If you really don't have it, you can't do it, you can sincerely talk to the creditor, you really can't get the money, and there is no way. But you can't just ignore people, so that people think you don't want to pay back or excuse yourself.

Communicate well with creditors.

Apologize, and take the initiative to say that you will pay it back monthly, 1000 or 500 per month, so as to show your sincerity in returning, of course, this time you have to do what you say, and people will not think that you are not keeping your promises.

It's not difficult to borrow well and borrow again, you can't pay it back all at once, you should pay it back slowly, and do your best at one time, so that you can also show your sincerity.

Ask him out for dinner alone, let's be blunt, although it may feel a little awkward, but it won't have much impact on your friendship in the future.

Let's just say I don't have any money now

You're too. Since you borrowed money and said when you will pay it back, you have to save it yourself before then, now hurry up and save it. The most important thing is to return it to others as soon as possible, and say more about the substantive use of rice.

Don't take advantage of what you shouldn't take, it may be that the boss is testing you, if you are greedy for this little advantage, maybe.

As long as you remember it clearly, you must return it. If you pay it back, there may be more room for you to develop. I have a friend who has also experienced a similar thing, because his company's purchaser was "sick", the boss asked him to buy materials, and told my friend when he took it away, this material is about 2000 yuan per ton, as a result, my friend went to inquire, 1800 yuan per ton, and rebates, he ordered 50 tons at a time, in fact, if you don't tell the boss, my friend can earn tens of thousands of dollars at a time, but he finally told the boss, the boss didn't say anything at the time, and within a few days, he was promoted to sales manager, in fact, The boss knows that the material costs a ton more, but he thinks that my friend is very talented, and he wants to test his character?

Don't fall for it! Ha ha.

En well, she must have done it on purpose, how nice it would be if I had such a good boss.

Good people!

If she was like that, you're sure you're not mistaken. I feel that I can't get over it, so I can invite her to dinner or sing or something. This way you will at least feel more comfortable!

It may be that I don't want you to pay back the money, I want to help you but I'm afraid that you will be embarrassed, so I deliberately remember it wrong. Hehe, if you have the ability, you will continue to pay it back, if you can't pay it back now, keep the boss's kindness to you in mind, and repay her well in the future. You have to know how to repay it.

Your boss is interesting to you.

It may be that I don't want you to pay back, and I am afraid that you will be embarrassed, so I deliberately remember it wrong. If it's the opposite sex, it may have a crush on you.

A full man does not know that a hungry man is hungry.

The roof leak happened to rain overnight.

Rich man.

It's hard to be a man without money.

You owe money to others, you go to explain, it's a good thing to worry about, it's a friend who borrowed it, and it should be understood, my friend still owes me money, and he didn't chase him without me.

Won't I rush you if I pay back the money? Trouble a bird.

Is it difficult, and it's not borrowing money. Paying back someone's money is a very happy thing.

It is possible to borrow the same amount of money from them

Just say: I'm in a hurry to use the money, give me some back first. "Repeat it a few times, and you're good to go.

Eh, you're too entangled, aren't you... 2000 is not less, in short, you remember very well that he borrowed 2000 from you before, so you can take it with peace of mind, which is completely inappropriate. If it were me, I would definitely only see that he was a brother, if I think he remembered it and said it on purpose, then why do you insist on debunking, maybe you feel that you have lost face, and there will be a chance in the future that you will repay him This favor is it, not necessarily to pass these two thousand yuan.

It's very simple, it's very likely that he remembered it. It just said, "2,000 yuan, what a big deal." 2,000 bucks is a lot for you, but for me it's about playing two games. It's boring for you and my two brothers to talk too much, forget it."

Then as long as you take the money and say two words, it's OK, "okay".

That way he'll know you all know what's going on with the $2,000 problem. It's also a kind of consensus.

I'm most afraid that you push for a long time and finally twist and pinch to take the money, so that he is not short of it, and you still don't remember what happened to 2000. Or maybe he'll suspect that he's having a memory problem, or maybe you're joking at first. So he thinks you owe him a favor.

In fact, you don't have to worry about pretending to be stupid. Sometimes it's important to play dumb. Besides, he was looking for you to borrow 2000 You don't have to think too much, and then even if you owe him a favor, what if you owe him a favor Favor and favor are not the same 2000 fast favor can be the same as his favor to save your mother (metaphor) Don't have too much burden in your heart Again you are good friends. There's no need to think about him too much.

I also suspect that he remembered it, if he didn't remember it, he would definitely not be so generous, even if it was good before, unless he was a rich second generation, and he couldn't use up the money but the fact was not, just because he said it wasn't 5000. It seems that he doesn't want to say it directly because he is afraid of losing face, and cares about what others think of him, now that he understands, don't embarrass him anymore because you have no loss, you say that you are afraid of owing favors, which is not right, people want to survive and have contacts and friendships with people, since they are good friends, do you still care about owing favors, such as one day when he is in difficulty, do you not want to help him? Or will he not help you one day when you are in trouble?

Finally, I have to remind you to borrow money in the future, especially if the amount is large and you feel that writing an IOU hurts your feelings, and you can use the recording to record the conversation at that time, if you tear your face one day, that is evidence.

Isn't he older than you? As the saying goes, brothers still settle accounts, nothing to be embarrassed about, just talk about it! You must make him understand, and then if you feel uncomfortable, arrange for him according to the two thousand dollars!

Reply to him, no one is bad for money, I may be mistaken, this 5000 You take it One day I think about it, let's calculate it separately, first like this, what else do our buddies say, If you talk too much, you will be a foreigner, and you don't owe favors to death, what kind of favors can you buy for 2000 yuan? Over the years, owing favors is a lifelong thing, even if what I say is not good enough, you don't owe favors

Two thousand for him. Tell him, "I know very well how much money I owe to others, and I know in my heart that I will never pay my debts." Who is with whom do our buddies, isn't it?

To be honest, you buddy doesn't have a terrible memory, really, really not very well. It stinks. It's best not to associate with him.

Because you lent him 2000 if he doesn't remember. Why do you ask him to borrow 5,000 and he understands so well? If he plays dumb with you, this friend stinks even more.

Let's stop talking. In fact, after reading your above, I asked you that your friend is not bad at all, so let me tell you, if someone who is not bad for money can take advantage of it, you should also take advantage of it. Also, your friend, you can take a closer look at him, is he really the kind of person who is forgetful?

Actually, if he is also the kind of person who is particularly bold, I mean a person who is bold and bold on the surface, and loves face, but in private, if you calculate small accounts, you can completely don't want these two thousand, and then find him for something and ask for two thousand back. The premise is that you friend really stinks. You don't want to deal with anyone else.

If he's the kind of forgetful person, you point to him. Anyway, I don't think you're a good friend. When someone borrows your money, you must make a name for it.

He pretended to be stupid with you, and you explained it, but it was also a joke, so he said: I remember that you ran out of money last time and borrowed me 2,000 yuan, and I almost forgot if you didn't mention it today.

Since you're a good brother, you won't be angry if you say something dirty, right?

You may need to adjust your mindset and mood. Things can be done slowly. Everyone is confused. Hopefully, you are the most brainy and of your own.

The one that is the power. It is most appropriate to deal with things calmly, and I hope you have a calm approach. In the midst of troubles, you will exercise your wisdom.

Whether your husband loves you or not is known only to you, but from your statement, I have come to the conclusion that there is something wrong with your husband's character! Loving you is not simply a matter of whether it is good for you or not, but to be responsible for you and your family!

If he can't change, for the sake of the child, for your own sake, leave him! Who the child is given to, it depends on you, don't worry too much, children can only grow up healthily in a healthy family environment, is your home environment healthy at present? Unhealthy!

The road has gone down according to his own wishes, I know now, why bother to say this kind of thing anymore, since he is very good to you, just work hard in life and career, all difficulties will pass, if the heart is in a dream.

Such a family is not something that you can change as a weak woman, your husband is also very good to you, your in-laws are also very good to you, and poverty and wealth are fate.

Dear, leave him, such a life pattern will be broken one day, such a man is not worthy of your love, since you know that you don't know people clearly, why don't you stop it quickly, the baby must not be given to him, it will be destroyed in his hands.