What to do, annoying, some people I know fell in love in junior high school and are now married

Updated on society 2024-06-09
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You'd be wrong to think so

    First of all, everyone will meet the other half who is suitable for themselves, and the difference is just a matter of time or time

    Secondly, everyone's experience is different, it cannot be replicated, and what is suitable for others may harm oneself if it is put on oneself

    Correct your mentality, you can't force yourself to compromise just to find someone to fall in love and get married early, so that the final result can only hurt yourself and hurt the other party!

    You know, if you're in a hurry to find a marriage because your friends are married, that kind of marriage won't stand the test

    I'm not against puppy love, after all, there are people who have good results, but the probability is less than one in a thousand! Do you want to use this less than 1 in 1,000 chance to be the truth???

    When someone has a good marriage, you can bless them and envy them, but never use this to bother yourself

    Why bother, people live in the world, there are enough unpleasant things, why do you have to make yourself uncomfortable

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Uh....In fact, there are gains and losses, what you see is only their surface!

    It's not too late to find it! Don't be jealous, you don't get less than theirs! At least you've been single longer than they are, but they don't.

    I wish you happiness!! Hope.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Relax, there is always someone waiting for you somewhere, don't worry.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Jealousy: This trouble is self-inflicted.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Summary. You need to communicate well with your children at home The 15-year-old grade is the period of youth and ignorance, and it is normal to have a good impression of the opposite sex.

    My child is 15 years old and in his third year of junior high school, and I recently found out that he is in love, what should I do?

    You need to communicate well with your children at home The 15-year-old grade is the period of youth and ignorance, and it is normal to have a good impression of the opposite sex.

    My child, no longer going to school, fell in love at the age of fifteen.

    You should guide the children to the most suitable things at the right age, and work hard to make yourself better, and you will meet better people on the road of life in the future.

    Give a thumbs up if you're satisfied.

    If you don't go to school, what are you doing now?

    If he doesn't listen, what can he do?

    Play. Find a job.

    Doesn't communicate with family.

    You can talk to a family member of the same grade to talk to him.

    Lose your temper and ask for money.

    Children at this age are prone to rebellion against their families.

    Find a person at home who is serious about studying, has correct values, and is of the same age, and let him have a good chat with your son.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Now is the time to grow knowledge, what do you take to fall in love? Love needs not only milk and bread, but also other nutrients, otherwise, even the most beautiful roses will wither. Only when you have enough nutrients will the roses bloom more vigorously.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You are now in adolescence. It's inevitable to have such thoughts. It is advisable for you to divert your attention. Let's focus on something else.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Arm yourself with knowledge first, play in a place where you have no choice, and when you are armed and strong, you will have the right to choose, and I hope you will come out

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The love of junior high school students is not necessarily fruitless, my parents started at that age

    I believe that if you know what right is to like someone, then it is enough to fall in love. But to grasp the problem of goodness, there are some responsibilities that you can't afford to bear, so some things can't be done. Hehe.

    I don't think there's a problem in the case of not affecting others and not affecting my own learning. In fact, this is also a life experience, even if the relationship may not last long, when you grow up, you can't help but experience this kind of innocent feelings, support you to fall in love

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Personally, I don't think it's so early to date and insult me after the meeting.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Let's shift our minds to studying, and after you finish studying, you can talk to anyone.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'm also in my second year of junior high school, and I've watched idol dramas recently, and I've watched a lot of Korean dramas.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In fact, don't be too nervous, it's normal for children nowadays to have early love or something at this age. From a psychological point of view, there are probably two kinds of early love. One is a common phenomenon for children to be guided to self-guidance consciousness, he wants to be free from the guidance of parents and teachers, but he doesn't know how to do it, and parents and teachers are not able to find out in time or give him corresponding help in the heart, and at this time with a person he feels like, so that he can feel relaxed, which leads to early love.

    The second is that in daily life and school learning, children are not paid attention to, perhaps parents and teachers only care about academic performance, and ignore other things in the process of growth, such as psychological growth, etc., which is also the reason for early love.

    It is recommended not to talk to your child about his early love, if you feel that in your child's psychology, you or your couple are his idols, maybe share your psychological activities and love experience with your child closely, tactfully explain that early love will have a certain impact on school, and your success is an example of living out, and the child may understand.

    Sometimes, early love isn't always bad. It depends on how parents guide correctly.

    It is purely a personal suggestion, and it depends on the parents to pay more attention to their children.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The third year of junior high school is a very critical time, and it is found that if the child falls in love and is forcibly organized, the child in the rebellious period of adolescence will be very rebellious, which may lead to a decline in grades and not think about schooling.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's normal to drag on in the third year of junior high school.,Today's children are all precocious.,To be honest.,Only love in school is pure.,As long as he doesn't mess around with other girls.,It doesn't affect learning.,I won't interfere too much.。

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you are embarrassed to say it directly if the relationship with the child is not good, let him know from the side that it is permissible to fall in love, as long as he will not affect his learning because of this, and there is a good scale, so that he can clearly understand where the bottom line is.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's okay for a boy to fall in love, as long as the girl is not a gangster, the impact is not great, her studies will improve, and if she breaks up, she will affect her emotions, and the high school entrance examination will definitely be over. Encourage and enlighten him a lot, and tell him that the two of them will be admitted to a key high school together, so that they will not be separated in the future, and never scold him, or peek at his mobile phone.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Is the child studying well If you don't study well, you can try to get to know the girl and tell your son that if he doesn't study well, he will definitely be separated in high school, or when he goes to high school, he will meet someone better than him, if you don't work hard, others will surpass you, and if you follow the good advice, he will listen, don't try to stop him, scold him, if the rebellious heart comes up, no one can do anything

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    As a parent, we should not blindly blame our children for this matter, but should guide our children correctly, in fact, there are many ways to verify this on the Internet, parents can also use their own experience to communicate well with their children, any child can understand the intentions of parents with their parents and themselves in an equal tone. As a parent, you have to think of more ways to do it yourself.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Encourage him behind the scenes, maybe he will be sad, be the best supporter, I am also in the third year of junior high school.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Male or female? I'm a man. I started falling in love in the first year of junior high school, and it's nothing.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If it is a man, it will be supported, and if it is a woman, it will be educated.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's actually very difficult, it's hard to talk about it in junior high school to the end, although it's not nothing, but it's very little, it sounds like you don't particularly like it, and it's not okay if you just like the looks. If you think clearly, you really like it. Think about what to expect later.

    You can try to confess. After all, youth, no regrets.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's best not to fall in love, it will seriously affect your learning, and if it's serious, it will ruin your life, now is not the age of emotion, all your happiness is your hard work now, don't be entangled in studying hard is the right way.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Hello! I think you should study hard in junior high school and don't put your mind on falling in love.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Don't consume your emotions too early, adolescent girls are easy to fantasize about the beauty of the so-called love, but it is often easy to miss the best time to improve themselves, and when you enter the society in the future, you will find that it is difficult for only people with good skins to be difficult step by step, and you will be very tired with him, and there is more resentment between the two.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Generally in the learning stage, the suggestion is to concentrate on studying, if you give up studying, or don't care about studying, then you can confess.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's up to the individual, as long as it doesn't affect the learning.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It doesn't affect learning, you can talk about it casually... Can you?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think this is a different question for each person, and some students can help each other learn together, but some of them can have an impact on grades.

    Personally, I think junior high school students are not suitable for falling in love, because during this period, students are in the development period, their thinking is not very mature, and it is easy to affect their outlook on life and world view due to small problems and small frictions I think junior high school should be a pure friendship period Because it is not as naïve as elementary school Everyone is relatively mature I remember seeing a joke: primary school students are 1 team when walking, middle school students are 1 pile when walking, and college students are 1 to 1 pair when walking. At that time, after reading it carefully, I thought about it carefully, and it seems that this is really the case that in junior high school, I should learn how to deal with the emotional relationship between multiple people, that is, to manage friendship, not just the relationship between two people, and the road of life is still very long, I think that early exposure to love will make people's mental age grow too fast, like some people have been in a lot of love, and in the end they will feel so tired, lose their longing for love, and may face a lot of pressure to go to school in junior high school There are many problems such as rebellious emotions during the development period that will make you want to find a way to vent or divert your attention Learning is very annoying Parents and teachers are very nagging It seems that falling in love is the window of venting But I don't think it's love At least you haven't reached the stage where you can understand this emotion and manage this emotion It's best not to find a person who is almost pleasing to the eye to fall in love because you follow the public or want to taste something new I think this is irresponsible and blasphemous to love The above is my personal opinion Just to give your classmates a reference You can consider whether you want to fall in love like your classmates according to your own situation Remember that you have to be responsible for yourself Life can't be repeated Don't let yourself regret it!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You can try it if you want to, but it's definitely not the one that goes down with you, but at least it can be a beautiful and pure memory for you in the future, and it depends on whether you are satisfied or not, don't force it, in case the other party takes it seriously.

    Finally, we must remember that all love that is not aimed at marriage is a hooligan.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Yes, but it doesn't interfere with learning. You and he or she are not just friends, but help each other to learn together. It's just a suggestion.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Love at this time is the purest love.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    There is no need for others to talk about you, the key is whether there is someone you like. If you like it, it will be a good memory after talking about pure love.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    That's a play house, it's not interesting!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Generally nothing will come of it....

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