What are some things that people don t understand until middle age?

1. Understand the hardships of parents.

When I was young, I always quarreled with my parents and made them angry. Didn't think about the parents, and failed to fulfill the responsibilities of the child. And when people reach middle age, they understand that being a parent is also very difficult.

That is, when you are middle-aged and become a parent, you remember how good your parents are to you, and you understand the hard work of your parents in educating your children.

Second, I understand the hard work of taking on family responsibilities.

When you are young, you are not sensible, you have no worries, and you don't have to worry about firewood, rice, oil and salt. And when I have a family of my own, I understand how hard it is to support a family. If you don't know the price of firewood and rice, you have to consider your family after everything you do.

3. Understand that everything is not going well.

When you reach middle age, you realize that there are still many worries around you. Some are from work, some are about children, and some are about one's own family. In short, all kinds of trivia, a whole bunch.

I feel that life is not all smooth sailing, but bumpy. There is nothing to ride the long wind and break the waves, some are just non-stop storms, and there are huge waves on the head.

1. Human nature likes to be comfortable and likes to stay in the comfort zone, so on the contrary, you are likely to make a difference.

2. When people reach middle age, everyone has a tacit understanding and tacitly no longer contacts.

3. Life is a group of desires, and life is in the process of chasing desires, gaining and losing, happy and sad.

4. Bad people and bad things, people who can't get along, just stay away, there is no need to entangle, there is no need to entangle.

5. Human nature is almost the same, they all hate you, laugh at you, hate you poor, are afraid that you are rich, no one should laugh at anyone, they are almost like this, very few people.

If you don't have this kind of thinking, you are generally people with a particularly high level of cultivation, and there are not many such people.

6. You can't change many people and many things, only you can change yourself.

7. The world is so big, I want to see it. The wallet is so thin, it can't go.

8. Those who have not been in touch for a long time and suddenly contact you are generally begging you for something, or asking you to borrow money, or asking how you are doing now.

Well, I hope to get something from you.

9. It's useless to complain, there's no point, everything depends on yourself.

10. Dreams are beautiful, reality is cruel, and if you want to realize your dreams, you generally have to take the initiative to suffer a lot.

11. When people reach middle age, they don't want to make friends anymore, and their former friends are also being screened and decreasing.

12. The exchanges between people are based on the exchange of interests, and if two people have no interest relationship, they will basically not come.

Past. Interpersonal relationships are a complex science, and it can be a bit difficult to deal with well. If you don't know how to deal with interpersonal relationships, you can buy it.

Let's take a look at these two books and read more, so that we can figure out what others think, why others treat us like this, and what we should do.

What can be done to get along well with others?

13. There are too many unsatisfactory things in life, it is very important to learn to adjust your mentality, you must see things openly, you must think openly, you must be able to afford it, and you want it.

I can put it down. 14. When people reach middle age, they should start to maintain their health, pay attention to their diet, and exercise more.

15. It's hard to be a person, even if you think you're doing a very good job, some relatives will still be dissatisfied with you, and you don't even know what the problem is.

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17. It is important to cultivate your own interests and hobbies.

18. Everything has a reason, there is no love for no reason, and there is no hate for no reason.

19. It's good to be alone at home and drink quietly.

20. People spend their lives in the pursuit of money, fame and fortune.

What are some things that people don't understand until middle age?

1. Sometimes you will understand after middle age: the friends around you are like fish living in the sea, and the fish in the deep water layer that can withstand pressure and the shallow water fish living on the surface of the ocean can never have any intersection; There can be no so-called friendship between the poor and the rich, between the officials and the grassroots; Because they have different perceptions of life, the most important thing is that they are in different environments and different moods. Some things have a relationship of interest with each other, so there will be trade-offs.

2. We sometimes envy the charm of those young people, but our maturity is like a glass of old wine.

3. Be grateful to the person who has always been by your side, because home is the harbor of our life;

Learn to smile at the people you once hated, they made you learn to be strong; Thank you to the people who have never left you, who have taught you how to love. Thanks to those friends who have always trusted you, there may only be one confidant or friend who can treat you sincerely in life, please cherish it when you meet it.

4. In the world of feelings, there is no need for artificial control, feelings are spontaneous, and there will be no true feelings if artificially controlled and pursued.

5. The so-called things in the world are complex and simple, mainly because of what kind of mentality you have to look at things, you are simple and maybe the world will become very simple.

As you reach middle age, you will find that there are things that you have paid for, but they have subverted your perception.

1.No matter what the relationship, it's customary to tell the truth.

From childhood to adulthood, we have been taught to get along with others and to be honest with each other. Everyone is virtuous to tell the truth. But not all people and all relationships can accept the truth. After all, telling the truth is often more heartfelt and hurtful.

But everyone has their own life rules. Maybe you see that others are not doing well in your daily life, and you always like to give a few more words. But that is his own life, and outsiders should interfere and meddle too much, which will only destroy the relationship and offend people.

The relationship is not too familiar, you must know how to act in a roundabout way, preserve the relationship, and achieve the effect, otherwise the exchange will only hurt the feelings and destroy the relationship.

2.No matter what kind of friend you are, you are used to borrowing money easily.

Many people think that there are many ways to help people, and the most normal way to help others is to borrow money. Some people borrow money and say all the good things, but when they repay the money, they are full of all kinds of ugliness, all kinds of moral kidnapping, and in the end they are unwilling to repay the money happily. Money is hard to earn, but with a few words, you can easily spend other people's money, but it's easy.

So why don't you lend money to someone easily? Because if you don't borrow, the other party will only be sad for a while, and if you borrow, when you ask for debt, it will be a test day after day. It is understandable to help the emergency and not the poor, to help and help in time, but people who only know pleasure all day long and are not willing to work hard are not worthy of anyone's help.

3.No matter what kind of character you have, you are used to reaching out and pulling a hand.

To be honest, people will only feel when they have experienced so much in middle age, and boundaries must be maintained between people. If you break through the boundaries, you will not only indulge others, but also hurt yourself.

There are not many good friends in the fine. When friends meet, they get together, and if they don't, they disperse. Peace of mind is the most important thing.

When you reach middle age, don't be too kind.

At the beginning of man, * is good. When we are young, we always think that if we are good to others, others will be good to us. He is very tolerant of the people around him, as long as he can do his best, he will do his best, and he will do his best to help those who can help.

However, when people reach middle age, they will understand that kindness must also have a degree; Kindness also has to choose the right people. Some people can help, some people can't help, those who can help will take a hand, and those who can't help will explain the reason as soon as possible. Otherwise, with good intentions, it is likely that you will do something bad.

Whether it is family, relatives, or friends, kindness must have a degree and choose the right person. Don't let your kindness become a sharp blade for others to hurt you, after all, the person who can hurt you the most is often your nearest and dearest.

When you reach middle age, don't get too close to anyone.

When we were young, we always approached others with a warm heart, even if we were rejected. But when you reach middle age, you will understand: in this life, don't get too close to anyone. Leave a little distance, leave a miss, distance can really produce beauty.

Husband and wife should leave their own space, do not control each other's lives, and do not try to change each other according to their own wishes; Between friends, you must always have a grateful heart, others help you with affection, not to help is your duty.

It is only after middle age that people understand these things.

1. Less socializing and more solitude is a happy thing in life.

Now when I get older, I don't like to socialize at all, I don't like to make friends who are too messy, and I don't see people who go out to see too many people who don't have any friendships, I prefer to stay at home, do what I like, and enjoy a good time with my family.

Second, when people reach middle age, they should cross time and themselves, and always maintain a good attitude.

When people reach middle age, under the baptism of time, they have already become a lot calmer. Because life needs to continue to grow, continue to mature, and become a better self, you need to have a good attitude to face life. Therefore, when people encounter things, they can maintain a good attitude, which is the best kind treatment to themselves.

People with a good attitude can not only see things openly, but also give themselves a good mood and a good state to face life.

3. When people reach middle age, they understand that what they need most in life is that these are three friends.

You must choose your neighbors and make good friends. When you reach middle age, you need these three friends: a friend who cherishes you with affection, a friend who reminds you from time to time, and a friend who is willing to give you charcoal in the snow.

These three people are truly good to themselves, people who can improve themselves, and people who can make themselves feel warm in life. Therefore, life does not need to invite too many people into his life, three or two really good friends are enough.

Learn to look down on the warmth and coldness of people, look down on the heat and coldness of the world, live well, and enjoy the future life.

1. About yourself. When people reach middle age, their physical and mental state is very important, and they must be well adjusted and adjusted, otherwise all kinds of diseases and troubles will come to the door, and it is themselves who will suffer, and no one can help them!

2. About the business. When people reach middle age, they have something to do, not to ask for much to be big, but to do it themselves. Stop doing things that consume or damage your body for money. The dream of my youth has not been realized, reconcile, fate, luck, you should be able to read it!

3. The code is lifted in the family. Return to the family, the high hall, the wife and husband, children, this is the focus of your life!

4, Chi Lao about friendship. Xingmeng learns to do subtraction, there are only a few dead friends, and the rest is fate!

5. About the pursuit. There must be something that can be pursued for the rest of your life, no matter how big or small, stick to it, do it to the extreme, and be worthy of the world!

This life is a process of continuous growth and progress. We are all discovering ourselves and finding ourselves all our lives.

Maybe when you are young, you won't understand any big truths, but when you reach a certain age, you will experience some things before you understand that there are many things in life that you can't help it.

When people reach middle age, they should recognize the truth and see the essence of life.

Some things should be relieved, some things should be awakened, and after you have tasted all the ways of life, you will understand that there is nothing in life that you can't get by.

Therefore, regarding this matter, we must understand and wake up as soon as possible.

Life is inherently imperfect.

In many cases, I see that many people often struggle with themselves because of some trivial things or fall into pain.

In fact, to put it bluntly, I still haven't figured it out, and when I really wake up, I will feel that there is nothing worth being sad about, and life is imperfect.

No one's life is perfect, happy, all through continuous efforts and dismantling and accumulation, there is no need to be overly anxious if you are unsatisfactory, and anxiety will not solve the problem.

When people reach middle age, they should be more mature and rational, able to accept all kinds of life, no matter how good or bad life is, they should start from themselves.

Therefore, when a person can begin to accept the imperfections of life, be able to think calmly, and not pursue perfection too much, then it is easier to be happy.

Your mindset determines your life.

I haven't experienced anything that I think is a very simple thing before, and there are also the concept of life and death and some things about dealing with people and holding the world for people.

1. A few friends or friends who have nothing to talk about are the richest of the wealthiest people;

2. No matter how hard you try, there will always be someone who doesn't like you, so let him go to the banquet;

3. Listen carefully to the opinions of others and resolutely walk your own path;

4. No matter how good you are to others, others may not appreciate it, but you want to be worthy of it;

5. Be kind to yourself, people don't live a lifetime to wronged themselves.