Why is it said that when people reach middle age, the real hard days have just begun ?

Because the life pressure of middle-aged people is the greatest, there are elderly people at home who need to be supported, children also have to spend money constantly, and at the same time, physical strength is worse than that of young people, and their physical fitness is slowly declining.

Because middle age is the most difficult choice to face, there are wives and children to support, and at the same time, my parents are also old, and I need to fulfill the obligation to support the elderly.

Because after middle age, in fact, the pressure of people will become more and more, and life will become more and more painful.

Because when people reach middle age, they have already become the pillar of the family, and they need to do a lot of things.

I believe that many friends have heard such a sentence on the Internet, that is, people are old, the real hard days have just begun, when I first heard this sentence, I still agree with this statement, because when life reaches this stage, in fact, I have begun to slowly experience a lot of things, physical skills are like passing life, will gradually decrease, people's cells will gradually age, lose a lot of ability to move, and begin to have some troubles for their families.

In fact, there are so many people around me who are troubled by this kind of life, because they can't make their bodies better, so their attitudes towards their families will gradually change. In fact, there is a friend's father who is in his eighties, and he has always been taken care of by others, so it can be said that his heart is very painful, and he has also caused great trouble to his family.

However, we can't look at this problem pessimistically, in fact, when we reach the stage of old age, life will still become a little better, and we can be idle to do what we want to do, whether it is to learn painting, to play table tennis, or to sing, to learn musical instruments. These are all things that can be done in the elderly, because at this stage, they will actually slow down the pace of their lives, let themselves see a lot of things, and let themselves look at life more often, so that they can slowly realize that the image of life is still very beautiful.

Life 70 years old, in fact, when each of us looks at such a problem, we must have a very optimistic attitude and a very understandable attitude to **, not necessarily that life is very painful after reaching the stage of old age, but after such a stage, if the reality is like this, then we let our spirit live better.

Personally, I quite agree with this sentence, people get old and their bodies gradually deteriorate in all aspects, and people are easy to get sick, but it is also true that there is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time, so I think that when a person is old, the real hard days have just begun.

If you don't agree, when you get old, we will be very leisurely, you can go out shopping with friends or go out to travel.

I agree because when people get old, they not only face all kinds of diseases, but also all kinds of pressure, especially the problem of unfilial children and helplessness.

I disagree. Because we have struggled all our lives, we can enjoy happiness when we are old. And we already have savings when we are old, so we can travel and enjoy life.

I agree with this sentence, because the life of the elderly is actually very long, and they are struggling with fate and illness, so it is very painful.

I agree with it very much. Because of his age, he will not be able to do anything in the future, and if the child is not filial, he will simply suffer.

I don't agree with this sentence, there are many people who start to enjoy happiness when they are old, and when they are young, they generally live a hard life.

There is no perpetual motion machine in the world, and it is impossible for people to live forever, and the law of life is irresistible. Birth, old age, sickness and death, the laws of nature. As ordinary people, elderly comrades often sigh when they are together: rely on not life, die quickly!

People have not reached that step, they have never experienced what it is like, but once they have reached that step, they are helpless. When I see the elderly in their old age and frailty, I can't help but think of myself, what will happen in the future?

Among the old people or the deceased, there are those with good family conditions, those with poor family conditions, those with more children and only children, those who are filial and unfilial, those who die of natural old age, and those who die of illness and disability. Two of them impressed me. One is that an old man was blind in his later years, his limbs were broken, and he was finally paralyzed in bed.

Fortunately, there are more children and their respective economic conditions are okay, so they began to take turns to take care of them, and later hired a nanny. The children are also filial, and they are constantly taking care of them with medicines and nutrients. But after all, it has been a long time, and it has been delayed for several years.

As the saying goes, there is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time, and the enthusiasm for careful care at the beginning has slowly been neglected, and the old man has no hope of being cured, but he is living in painful torment, which can be said to be lingering, and the children look at her painful appearance, hoping that she will return to heaven as soon as possible. He died at the age of 88.

The other one is not so lucky, although he also has a full house of children and grandchildren, but his family background is average. The elderly live alone by their sons, and their children and grandchildren pay little attention to the elderly. One day, the old man was roasting on a firewood fire at home, and suddenly fell into the fire pit and could not get up, and was burned alive and charred.

It was only discovered a few days later. The juniors are heartbroken. But it was too late.

After a lifetime of hard work, it is embarrassing to get such an ending!

Thinking of the above, people are old and useless, and the hard days begin. When you can still work, young people think that you will never know fatigue, that you will never know rest, that you will leave the housework and the children's tasks to you, that you are a nanny or a maid who brings money. When you can't do it, you won't consider your dedication and dedication, let alone understand your mood and needs, and being considerate and caring is simply a luxury.

From disgust to disgust.

Those who have more children also take turns to take care of them, and the final result is to eat round meals, you take a month and he a month, take a shot to change places, and make a small move. If he is an only child, he will serve tea and pour water, and he will be alone with feces and urine, and he will be bored for a long time. If your daughter-in-law is not virtuous, this is even more sad, this bowl of rice is very difficult to eat, and you are not qualified to blame others with capital.

The heroes don't mention the courage of the year, and when they are old, they have to admit defeat. We must learn to be patient and swallow our anger. It is better to go to a nursing home and burn it out with a fire.

There will be a particularly negative mentality in life, and there will be a mentality of compromise, and they will be very picky when living in life, so that life will be particularly difficult.

If you get by and have no plan, it will make life more difficult and very painful.

The mentality is particularly bad, not contented, cranky all day long, particularly lazy, unmotivated, wanting to rely on others, and not having their own principles and bottom line.

Because when people reach the age of 50, the health of the old and the young is getting worse and worse, and their children are facing a lot of pressure to get married, so the hard life for them has just begun.

When everyone enters the age of 50, there will be all kinds of small problems in their body, so the real hard days have just begun.

Because when a person reaches the age of 50, then his own level has passed, so it is time to worry about the children, so the hard days have just begun.

Because after the age of 50, life will become tense, and the body will be abnormal, and there will be all kinds of diseases, if you don't have enough material life, then the hard life will begin.

Because of the age of 50, the life of the family is very stressful, the children need a lot of expenses, and their parents are old and need to be taken care of.

At the age of 50, there are many times when the pressure is relatively large, and there are many times when you are old and young, and you need to pay a lot at this age, and then there are many times when you are 50 years old, and your body is not as good as it used to be.

Because everyone enters old age after crossing the age of 50, slowly all aspects of their body are not as flexible as when they were young, and they will also get sick, so the hard days begin.

Because after the age of 50, people's energy will decrease, people's appetite will also decrease, and their economic ability will become worse and worse.