Whether to go home to accompany your parents or work hard outside

Don't worry, like this, it's unlikely that you will go back and discuss it with your parents, so you have to make the decision yourself. But I think you've just graduated now, and it's good for you to go out and work on your own future, and I mean whether you stay out there or go back, it's good. Because adults, your parents' thinking has certain limitations, and your family's situation may be relatively good in the local area, so your parents want your son to inherit his father's business, and you should also understand their feelings, but it mainly depends on you.

Only give you a small influence, the boy is ambitious

It depends on your situation: your parents are in good health and have their own things to do. So you can still leave your parents, live the life you want, and do what you are supposed to do.

You're right, too: get out there and learn something while you're young. Accumulate point capital.

But you should have a good talk with your parents, tell your real thoughts to your parents, all parents are thinking about their children, they will understand and support you.

If you fight well, your parents will be pleased.

Believe you? If you're confident in your abilities, go on your own and take care of your father.

But if not, stay with your father!!

Of course, you have to stick to it, and giving up easily on your ideals is the biggest irresponsibility to yourself.

As my parents get older, I say the best choice is to be by my parents' side.

First,It's gold** that shines

First of all, capable people can have their own careers even if they stay in their hometownsAnd then before the parents were oldIn fact, you have been working outside for many years, if you can have a piece of the sky,It's already broken out, you can take your parents over and live together.

On the contrary, if you work outside the home, you also need to rent a house, etc., except for itThe heavy cost of living is actually similar to staying in your hometown and working.

It is better to stay in your hometown and be with your parents.

Second, filial piety and career do not conflict.

Many people bring their children back to themselves after work, such as the child Brother He can study in the city where he works.

So, why can't you change to a parent? It may still stem from China's "downward" love.

Filial pietyIt is not in conflict with the career, and you can take care of your parents by your side.

A mother can raise several small children, butThe mother is old and does not necessarily have a child to support him, yes, what a sad thing.

So filial piety and career, I will chooseFilial piety, stay in the parentsWork around.

I think it's an ambivalence in the first place, and in order to strike a balance, you can only have time to go home and see them more often and cherish every opportunity to spend time with them.

Of course, if you can, you can also choose to pick them up and live with you for a while. However, it is still necessary to consider the thoughts of the elderly, some of whom are not very accustomed to life in the city, and taking them to live with them will make them feel uncomfortable physically and mentally.

This --- filial piety to parents is very good!

Of course. When your parents are old, they don't want to move anymore, and it's not easy to adapt to the new environment.

Of course, the specific situation needs to be carefully analyzed by yourself:

On the one hand, in terms of your own development, what are your current living conditions? Can you let your parents come and live with ?..If there is a condition, then let the parents come to live for a period of time, it can be regarded as a trip, or a change of environment, if the parents live comfortably and happily, then it is better.

In fact, living in ** is almost the same, but these conditions are not easy for relatives and friends.

On the other hand, you think carefully about how the working conditions will ?.. back homeCan you have suitable conditions for a job or start a business in your hometown? If it's really hard to do, then explain to your parents that you can't go home to work!

This is indeed a dilemma, it depends on yourself, whether you think the future development is important or the parents are important.

If you can, you can bring your parents to you?

In fact, if the development in the field is not bad, it is not easy to work alone, then it is not very cost-effective to give up and return to your hometown, now the technology is so developed, the transportation is also convenient, as long as you have parents in your heart, always worry, ** chat, often go home to see, care about them, you can also express filial piety.

But if the family wishes to let you go back to your hometown, it is understandable, after all, your family is the closest person in the world, and you can also develop well when you return to your hometown, and your parents can't always accompany us and cherish the current time.

There are very few good things in the world, there are giving and giving, sometimes look a little away, the most important thing is to go with the flow, measure which is more suitable, which one receives more than the return, and chooses which.

1. If you have the ability, you will take your parents out together.

2. If you have the ability to plan and develop, you can develop first.

3. If you don't have much ability, and your family can help, then go back to develop.

The above is quite in line with the reality of the situation, and many people have encountered such problems.

To add: people are alive, earning money and career is the first thing, and I also encountered the problem of going out to work or taking care of my mother at home. Mom is 73 years old, and her body is generally fine, but her legs are not very convenient.

But after being at home for many years, the family really can't make money. You can't survive without money!

Going home can also be about the same as the income outside, so it's still cost-effective to go home.

Which famous person in history was successful at home guarding his parents?

Therefore, survival comes first, try to weigh between survival and filial piety according to your own situation.

Hello, if you feel that you can find a certain direction and a suitable job in a short time, then you can solve it as soon as possible and let them rest assured. If you can't persuade you to go back to your hometown first, start with a stable job and think about the long term.

I think if you have the ability, you can take your parents to your place, or try to communicate with your parents and say that when you save enough money, you will go home and work.

I'm in the same situation as you, but I choose to go back to my hometown for half a year to work and spend time with my family. I think companionship is a must, but it's also necessary to be able to live.

Parents who have the ability to pick it up.

If you have the ability, you will take your parents out together.

In today's developed Internet, it is more common to "ask about the latest situation, talk about homely things, and play with their mobile phones after speaking", which can be called "guest" companionship. In fact, it still hasn't entered the lives of the elderly, and has not entered the hearts of the elderly.

You just take care of yourself, I don't have to worry about you", "You don't have to come back if you're busy with work", "You don't have to come back if you don't have anything to do", which belongs to the unique "stubbornness" of the father's generation. The fathers are more reserved and sacrificial, but they lack "positive expression", so they must understand the real needs of the elderly.

1.Let the elderly know about their children's lives and ask for their opinions. Talk to the elderly about their work, life, or topics that the elderly can participate in, so that the elderly feel needed.

2.Children listen to the old man talk about the past, talk about the highlight moments of the old man, talk about his family, talk about the old man's relatives and friends.

3.In addition to communication, there must be action. Follow your parents' habits, help them clean up, organize their clothes, buy groceries, do laundry and cook.

4.You can have some body language with your parents, such as hugging, holding the elderly's hand and arm, and assisting the elderly in washing their feet and bathing.

5.Care for the health of the elderly. Help the elderly massage, help parents measure blood pressure and blood sugar, and help the elderly apply a plaster when needed.

7.Accompany your parents to the places they frequent.

In short, children can make all breakthroughs in accordance with the ideal family relationship in their minds, truly enter the life of the elderly, and accompany them with love with heart and wheel.

Parents are here, there is still a place to come in life, parents go, and there is only a way back in life. While we are not old, while our parents are still there, we all need to spend more time with our parents.

Of course I am willing, because honoring our parents is the responsibility and obligation of each of our children, it is not easy for the two elders to raise us from an early age, and we must embody filial piety when we are older. Let me share with you, what is the best gift for parents?

1. Massage chair.

Now people's living conditions are getting better and better, and the elderly have become richer in old age after retirement, so they pay more attention to health preservation, and naturally hope that they can live a long and healthy life. For the elderly, it is naturally best to do more massages, so if you go home for the New Year, you might as well buy a massage chair for the elderly, which is undoubtedly one of the best choices. Insist on massage every day, the posture stove can relax the muscles and conceal the vitality, and not only the elderly can use it, but also other people in the family can use it, which is very practical and very healthy.

2. Electric foot massager.

We all know that there are a lot of acupuncture points on the soles of our feet, which are basically connected to various organs of our body. Especially for the elderly, pressing your feet more can relax your muscles and activate your nerves, which is conducive to the health of all organs in the body, and will make your complexion look better and feel very energetic every day. So at this time, you might as well buy an electric foot massager for the elderly, and you can insist on massaging the soles of your feet at home every day, and the effect is still very good.

3. Soak the feet in a wooden barrel.

I believe that many people know that foot soaking can have a good health effect, so many people insist on soaking their feet every day before going to bed at night, and they will also put some medicinal herbs in the water of foot soaking to have a better health care effect. In fact, many people use some plastic basins when soaking their feet, in fact, the wooden barrel can not only maintain the water temperature, but also the health effect will be better, so it is recommended to buy a foot soaking barrel for the elderly, ** cheap, the key is that the health effect is good, I especially like this kind of small gifts, it is really special to send some parents!

When you get home, you can do the following with your parents:

Chatting: Have a light-hearted conversation with your parents, sharing the recent situation of each other's shaking the stove and the joys and confusions in life. Listen to their stories and experiences, laugh with them, and confide in them your worries and confusions.

Cooking together: Preparing dinner with parents can be a wonderful family activity. You can get your hands dirty or help them chop vegetables, wash dishes, etc. This will not only strengthen the parent-child relationship, but also enjoy the pleasure of eating together.

Walks or outdoor activities: Go out for a walk with your parents and enjoy the beauty of nature and the fresh air. You can choose a park, lakeside, or surrounding location to enjoy the natural scenery together, or you can have a chat and enhance the communication between parents and children.

Watch a movie or TV series: Pick a movie or TV series that your family likes and put it together at home**. Not only can you relax, but you can also share the fun of watching the movie and discuss the plot and characters together.

Play games or puzzles: Choose some family-friendly games or puzzles to play with your parents. This can not only enhance the interaction and tacit understanding between parents and children, but also enjoy the fun brought by the game together.

Read together: Choose a book that your family likes and read it together every day. You can exchange your understanding and feelings about the content of the book, and you can also recommend your favorite books to each other.

In conclusion, accompanying parents to do these things after returning home can enhance the parent-child relationship and increase communication and interaction with each other. The important thing is to be attentive to your parents' needs and feelings, and to create a wonderful family time together.