In a relationship, should we have a cold war with the person we like?

At this time, the war between the two people without gunpowder began. It was supposed to be intimate lovers, but you turned out to be like enemies, you ignore me, I ignore you, you don't bow your head, I don't bow my head.

You're always used to not giving in to each other, as if whoever speaks first loses. But in fact, whoever speaks is good, and the most fearful thing is that none of you are willing to speak.

There is a couple around them, both of them have very stubborn personalities, every time there is a little conflict, the two of them face each other coldly, not only unwilling to say a word to each other, but also do not even eat together, and sleep in separate beds at night.

They often have a cold war, and the reason for the cold war can be for who to mop the floor, it can be for which movie to watch, but for the purpose of returning information late, it is often a very small matter.

Whenever they have a cold war, sometimes a cold war, it's a week, sometimes a cold war, it's a month.

At the beginning, the relationship between them was originally very good, but later with the cold war again and again, the two of them were like ashes, and they became more and more unwilling to deal with each other, and they directly became their own ones.

I have to say that the Cold War really hurts feelings. Many times, in fact, there are some things, as long as you talk about them, seek common ground while reserving differences, and do not require each other to agree with themselves, then those things are nothing at all.

But if two people, one doesn't ask, the other doesn't say, one has to let the other party listen to him, the other is not unwilling to listen, and no one is willing to give in if there is a contradiction, and they are waiting for the other party to admit their mistakes first, then no matter how deep the feelings are, they will be tossed away.

If you can, when you like someone, you'd better not have a cold war with him. The two of you are together to live a better life, not to torture each other for the sake of being strangers.

Every time there is a problem between you, if you have any words in your heart, if you have any anger, just spill it out. When two people are together, even if they quarrel happily, it is much better than having their own hearts and refusing to communicate.

Remember, don't have a cold war with the person you like, people's hearts can't stand coldness, it may take a lot of time to warm a heart, but it only takes a few moments to cool a heart.

When there is a conflict, it is not the one who takes the initiative first and loses. There is such a thing as feelings, some are just win-win, or they both lose, and there is no such thing as if you lower your posture a little, and you will lose face.

In this life, it's not easy to have someone who loves you, so don't just hold hands when you can hug, don't let go if you can go down together, and don't just give each other a cold face when you can play together.

You must not have a cold war with the person you like, and a cold war with the person you like is to destroy the relationship between two people, and it will make the relationship between two people weaker, which is very unworthy of advocating.

No, the Cold War can't solve the problem, let alone communicate well, and the Cold War will only make the relationship worse and worse.

I don't think you should have a cold war with the person you like, if you keep having a cold war, the relationship between two people will be very hurt, and after a long time, you may break up.

Personally, I don't think there should be a cold war, since two people like it, they have to treat each other with their hearts, if there is a cold war, there is really no benefit to the relationship between two people.

In fact, we should not have a cold war with the person we like, because this way may hurt the feelings between two people.

I don't think so, because the Cold War is a way to force others to compromise with themselves, and the reason why I choose this way is because I feel that the other side likes me, so if I use the Cold War to hurt others to achieve my own goals, I will feel despicable.

As far as I am concerned, I think that the relationship between the frequent Cold War, in fact, is not very necessary, because at this time, the two people cannot run in through this Cold War, but deepen the misunderstanding between the two people. And in the cold war again and again, it also consumed all the enthusiasm of the two people.

Because when two people are in the Cold War, in fact, the relationship cannot be improved, but will be slowly consumed, especially when girls are in the Cold War, they will constantly be cranky to question each other, whether they still love themselves. In fact, in the Cold War, if the boy does not take the initiative to coax the girl, then the girl is likely to have the idea of breaking up, which is actually very common. Boys may think that this can calm down two people, but girls will feel that this calmness is alienating themselves.

I think everyone has heard a saying that quarrels can temper the relationship between two people. But quarrels can be run-in, and the cold war will only consume the feelings of the two people, so when it is consumed to the end, I think that there is no need for this relationship to continue, and the cold war cannot solve the problems in the relationship between the two people at all, but it is possible to intensify these problems, escalate, and even possibly, this problem will slowly accumulate bigger and bigger. Until the end, even if you communicate well, there is no way to really solve it.

Once or twice the cold war, I don't think it has much to do with it, because the cold war in the relationship may also be a stage that everyone must go through, but if it is said that it is a frequent cold war, it proves that there is actually a certain problem in people's feelings, two people are unwilling to communicate, and the problem is not solved, then the relationship may be slowly consumed. So I don't think there's much need to continue the relationship that often has a cold war, otherwise both people will be very tired in this relationship, and it will even affect our normal life.

There is no need to continue, if it is always a cold war, it will hurt the two people very much, indicating that the two people are not suitable and should choose to break up. The feelings of the Cold War are not good, and the feelings of the Cold War will only scar two people. If two people often have a cold war, it means that the other party does not take you to heart at all, and the other party has not considered your feelings.

Such feelings should still be chosen to let go.

There is no need to continue, my opinion is that if there is a situation of a continuous cold war, it is better to choose to break up with the other party and never stay together again.

I think it's still necessary to continue; It's just a cold war, there is no big misunderstanding or principled problem, you can slowly communicate with the other party, have a good chat, and solve this matter.

There is no need to continue this kind of relationship, because if there is a cold war all the time, it means that neither side will compromise, and neither of the two people will feel sorry for the other party, so there is no need to continue.

Their self-esteem is very strong, and they always want the other party to bow their heads and admit their mistakes first, maybe the other party will bow their heads first and admit their mistakes, but they still maintain an attitude of ignoring them. So when you meet such a person, you should reconsider whether you should continue the relationship.

People who like the Cold War tend to be headstrong. In communicative psychology, inner dissatisfaction does not affect the attitude and relationship with others, which is a social skill.

I must hope that the other party can understand me and take the initiative to apologize to myself, maybe because of the problem of face, and the personality may be relatively strong.

Or they don't want to express it in their hearts, they all hope that the other party can take the initiative to show weakness.

The Cold War is nothing more than three ideas: 1. If you make me angry, I will ignore you; 2. Take some time to calm each other down; 3. Or sad or disappointed, in summary, I don't want to pay attention to you at all People who like the Cold War, in terms of personality, this kind of person is generally more taciturn, does not like to argue, and is not good at talking.

Everyone's attitude and thoughts towards feelings are different, and generally people who like the Cold War want to make the other party compromise first. Or you want the other party to bow their heads first and give themselves a step down. Sometimes the relationship is still solved as much as possible, don't go to the cold war, because the cold and cold feelings will be gone.

People who like the Cold War are thinking in their hearts waiting for you to apologize, and then they are happy. I feel that my dignity is more important, I won't come to you to apologize, I just wait for you to bow my head, and then come to forgive you, and I don't want to solve the problem with you, and things will always exist.

Probably because I don't want to communicate, if two people don't communicate together, it's not done. Send a good relationship, so the Cold War is not a good way to solve, you must communicate well, so that the relationship can be solved in time when there is a problem, and there will not be too many problems.

People who like the Cold War may just put it in a different way, avoid a bigger conflict with you, and in their opinion, their behavior is to take a step back. There are also people who are cold because they express their dissatisfaction with you, and they punish you with emotions because they don't know how to express their emotions.

Their thinking is that if you ignore me, I won't pay attention to you. In fact, the two people in the Cold War were very good-looking, and they were reluctant to pull down their own face and admit their mistakes to each other. After a long time, the relationship will change, leading to the last two saying goodbye.

I think people who like the cold war in their relationships actually hope that the other party can take the initiative to reconcile with them, so if they all have such a mentality, then this kind of relationship cannot be long-lasting.

Most of the people who are used to the cold war in their relationship are face-loving people, even if they find out that they have done something wrong, they are embarrassed to admit it, and they can only wait for the other party to give him a step, otherwise they will continue to have a cold war. Their communication skills are also problematic.

Generally, there is an attitude of indifference, that is, if you are willing to think like this, I can't do it, or if you want to be in this cold war, I will accompany you to the end. This kind of person advises to stay away from each other, otherwise it will be very difficult in the years to come.

Hello, this type of people are usually calmer and don't like to quarrel, and many times they may feel that quarrels are meaningless and can only make things more intense, so they choose to be silent and give each other a time to calm down.

They are reluctant to face such contradictions, they want to get in touch with such contradictions as soon as possible, so that they can get on the right track of life as soon as possible, and feel that this is their own life.

People who like the cold war in their relationship generally don't like to quarrel, don't know how to face disputes, and are afraid of communication, so they simply don't say it, ignore it, don't justify it, get angry themselves, and make the other party uncomfortable by the way.

In fact, such a person is a person who is not good at arguing and causing trouble, and many times may feel that both parties are still, calm down, and many problems will be solved naturally.

Machismo doesn't want to pay attention to girls; I have a disgust for girls and am tired of this kind of quarrel; The last one is a difference in the way of thinking, the boy thinks that calming down will have a better result, but the girl thinks that the boy is ready to be cold.

I think it means that those who like the cold war in their relationship may mean that there is a kind of face-loving expression in their hearts! Because they are not willing to be the first to take the initiative to take their mistakes, they think that the other party will take the initiative.

This is a posture of self-defense, to prevent others from approaching us, and when we see others in this posture, we like and approach them too much, giving people a sense of distance.

I think they all belong to people who have a boring personality and are not good at or don't like emotional expression, but emotional expression is very heavy, love has ten points, and seven points rely on expression.

Each of us will play a role in life, and in interpersonal interactions, we will inevitably encounter some troubles, many people are outspoken and have something to say, so when there is a conflict, it can be resolved immediately. Personally, I think that when you have a conflict with someone around you, such as with your family, with your lover, or with your friends.

<> it's okay to distance yourself a little bit, leave for a few days, and let the two sides of the conflict calm each other down. However, the Cold War should not be too long, and if you don't contact each other for too long, you will really become a stranger or even an enemy. Freezing a foot is not a day's cold, a friend of mine has someone outside and his daughter is quite old, there is a son and a daughter at home, almost ignoring his wife at home, giving his wife a few hundred yuan a month to now rising to more than 1,000 yuan, or because the two children are now in primary school to buy books, buy materials with more money to add money, hurt the son of the family every time to buy a son is a brand, the daughter has not loved well, just because there are daughters outside, hey!

But some people like to hide and tuck, and when they have conflicts with other people or others do things that make them unhappy, they will use the cold war to solve them.

In fact, people who like the Cold War have fragile souls. Yes, fragile! Don't look at them as bullish as they ignore you, in fact they are afraid of further conflict with you.

The people of the Cold War were fearful. They did not dare to face the conflict head-on, did not have the courage to solve the problem completely, so they had to keep a straight face and not speak, hide their emotions, and retreat into their own world. Every time I want to take the initiative to speak, I think of what you treat me badly, so I shut up; Then think about how you came to apologize to me, how I would reject you, or how I would forgive you; Then I started to think about what I would do if I didn't come to me all the time, and as time went on, my anger value would get higher and higher, and my brain would make up all kinds of pictures of you sorry for me, and then it would get colder and colder, and finally it would either break up completely, or it would burst out uncontrollably, and then the problem would either be solved or still be broken.