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If a woman has saved enough disappointments in her marriage, she will actually take the initiative to let go and leave. And then fulfill each other. In fact, women are also very tolerant, because if you do something wrong, she doesn't have to deal with you, which makes him seem ungenerous.
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When a woman is really disappointed in this marriage, she may directly tell the other party about divorce. Because he has given the other party many chances, but he has never changed, and one day he is still unwilling to continue like this.
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Personally, I think that if a woman has saved enough disappointments in her marriage, then this woman will definitely leave this man sooner or later, and she will no longer care about this man.
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will decisively choose to leave each other, will not contact each other directly, there are many times when the situation is particularly serious, will choose to divorce the other party directly, and the two people will not be able to continue to live together.
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may choose to treat each other indifferently, and will feel that it is useless to say anything to the other party, so simply say nothing, and the two of them will just get by.
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What is the most disappointing thing about a woman in marriage, and what is it that influences our emotions? Money? Desire? Or is it a family of origin?
Some women can choose marriage without hesitation when a man has nothing;
Some women can leave their hometown to marry a man, just for this beautiful love;
Some women can also accept naked marriage and accept the fact that they have to fight with men;
Such marriages are not uncommon and are staged almost every day.
I always feel that when a woman is willing to marry a man, it must live with this man for the rest of her life. After all, who doesn't want to love someone for the rest of their lives, solid and reliable can brew happy and envious flowers.
Everyone knows this truth, the difficulty is to enter marriage, there are still many variables, and what disappoints women is often like this: they are not taken seriously.
In other words, you can't feel the love of men for you.
Men don't like to spend money on women, which will disappoint women.
Because I didn't buy clothes for 300 yuan, my wife angrily divorced, should I leave? Is it the man's fault or the woman's?
I saw a news that the wife and her husband went to the mall together, and the wife took a fancy to a favorite dress that cost 300 yuan, but the husband refused to spend money to buy it for his wife.
The reason is that the husband does not think it is necessary to spend this money because it costs less money to buy the same money online and it is better to buy it online, but the wife insists on buying this in the mall.
The wife told her husband that she had been fancy the dress for a long time and was reluctant to buy it, but today she just wanted to buy it because she knew that her husband had paid several thousand dollars today.
But her husband told her that the money should be spent on raising children and the elderly, deducting living expenses, there is not much left, there is no need to buy this dress, it is cheaper online.
The two of them began to quarrel in ** because of this incident, and the angry wife couldn't buy the clothes she liked and even smashed the **cash register, and left sadly.
The husband accuses his wife of being ignorant and short-tempered, while the wife complains that her husband will not earn money and is reluctant to spend money to buy things for herself.
It seems that nothing is wrong from each perspective, but in fact, they are all wrong.
I really want to proudly say that money doesn't solve a big deal. After all, money is something outside Sun Hong. Of course, I'm just talking. In real life, money is still important.
The husband is reluctant to spend money on clothes for his wife, apparently for the sake of a common life, but his wife is missing. He thinks about children, he thinks about the elderly, he has the place of a wife, but he doesn't think there's anything wrong with it.
In fact, many people in marriage are guilty of this problem. They naturally accepted the efforts and compromises of their other half. They think it's right, but they forget the pain behind the giving, which needs to be faced.
A man's reluctance to spend money on his wife will make her feel unappreciated, because this attitude of the man is wrong.
Imagine if the husband promised to buy it, the wife might not really want it. Women don't care about objects, but about men's "I do".
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Women who are disappointed in their marriage, if they want to find their own happiness, they must learn to look at it rationally in their feelings, and believe that no matter who they leave, we can live well, we must have an independent consciousness, do not blindly trust in the relationship, if there is a conflict with the other party, you can choose to separate from the other party, since you don't love, there is no need to continue to hurt, and you don't have to blindly cater to each other in the relationship, if the other party loves yourself, he will definitely be willing to pay, Believe that you can meet the person who will accompany you for the rest of your life.
If a girl is disappointed in her marriage, she will not want to pay attention to the family anymore, and at first she may want to take care of the family and her husband wholeheartedly, but once disappointed, they will not care about the family. And I don't think of my husband at the first time, this is also because my husband doesn't bring enough warmth and protection to the girl in many cases, but it brings some harm, at this time, when the girl encounters a problem, she will find a way to solve it by herself, and she won't rely on her husband at all.
In fact, if you want to feel happy in marriage, you still have to calm your mind, sometimes some people feel that their marriage is unhappy because they want too many things, even if they already have a lot of things, they still feel unhappy, and this mentality will make them extremely tired. These people always see a negative side in marriage, even if they live in a happy marriage, they will feel very unhappy, so it is very important to have a good attitude, only the mentality is in a good state, and everything they see is beautiful.
In the end, many girls will feel that they are unlucky and can't find someone who can accompany them for a lifetime, in fact, it is wrong to have this kind of thinking, because happiness is different from person to person, cold and warm self-aware, and whether they are happy or unhappy in marriage is also determined by themselves.
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Improve yourself, make yourself better and better, better and better, enrich yourself, let yourself find a job, let yourself have a certain economic **, so that you can find your own happiness.
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First of all, don't take yourself too seriously, try to improve yourself, make yourself better, and when you are good enough, you will be able to firmly grasp your happiness.
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If you want to find your own happiness, you must work hard to adjust your mentality, appropriately shift your attention, invest more in yourself and learn more, so as to effectively improve your personal ability.
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It's obviously the life of two people, you are alone when you encounter a little thing, you are tired from work, and you want to chat with your husband and confide in you, but he is lukewarm to you, and even thinks that you are hypocritical and vexatious.
After many women get married, they find that their married life is different from what they imagined, so they are not happy.
Since we are married, it means that we have a desire for happiness and want to live together well.
However, married life is not easy, and it requires actions and management, not just words. Rotten dates.
People who can get married must have love for each other, but love cannot solve various problems in marriage.
Because marriage needs to be managed, and management is the process of running in and making concessions to each other.
Especially two people with different personalities, different living habits, and different family environments, there will inevitably be quarrels and conflicts, which is normal, and we must pay attention to them and treat them with a normal heart.
After all, you have already chosen someone, and there is still a long way to get married in the future.
Zhou said in "The Quality of Love": "A harmonious marriage can be achieved by manpower, but it is God's will to get a happy love." It can be seen that a harmonious marriage depends on management.
First of all, knowing how to make concessions at the right time is a sign of loving the other person.
Just like doing business, if you manage it well, your marriage will prosper and last; Poor management, that is, a shot and two scattered, the reason is here.
Husbands and wives are lovers, relatives, and friends.
Then, when two people move forward towards a common goal, they encounter contradictions and disagreements. Don't be in a hurry to dismiss your partner's views or opinions, don't argue with the other person, and know how to give in to the other person.
After all, the other party is the lover of the other party, not an enemy, not an enemy. There is no need to blush each other over trivial things.
The winner wins the real loss, but loses the other person's affection for you.
Marriage is a mixture of you and me, and you and I are both separate individuals. We might as well come across things and look at things from the other half's point of view. Maybe you will find that you have forgotten the original intention of getting married, and you will find that you should know how to seek common ground while reserving differences.
As the saying goes, take a step back and open the sky. When you know how to let go of unnecessary disputes and no longer obsess over temporary gains and losses, marriage can go further.
Gentleness at the right time is a form of respect, an expression of love, and a manifestation of love.
Only in this way can the relationship between two people become better and the marriage can last.
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Disillusionment in marriage with a husband or elders.
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She treats you very badly, she treats you very coldly, she doesn't want to see you, she refuses to accept your things, she resists your touch. She cried a lot. She gets angry very easily. She had a lot of troubles. Her courage has become very small. She was emotionally unstable.
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First of all, this woman has become relatively calm in this marriage, or he will no longer nag the other party, and will no longer have any expectations for the other party.
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It should be that the attitude towards you is not so resolute, and she is speechless to you, so it means that this woman is really disappointed.
Women are naturally sensitive and thoughtful creatures, and Cao Xueqin's "daughters are flesh and bones made of water", which is destined to be soft hearts and intestines since ancient times. Compared with men, women are more likely to be trapped in love and are more likely to be hurt in relationships. Some of a woman's behavior in marriage seems to her to be a deep affection for the other half, but it is a wrong behavior that pushes the marriage to a dead end. >>>More
Don't worship him too much. Sometimes he's nothing. Believe in yourself.
You should face it bravely and tell yourself that there is no need to put pressure on yourself, the pressure in the marriage can be borne by the other half, and if the other party is unwilling to bear it, you can choose to separate, so that women will not be tired in marriage.
It is indeed because he is not ruthless enough, he always has expectations for men, but he will be disappointed again and again, thus making his marriage unhappy.
Women who do not conflict with their mother-in-law, in marriage, they understand that their mother-in-law is not their mother. You have to live your own life.