What is it like to be pampered?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-04
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I used to have a boyfriend who doted on me very much, because he was my first love, and he appeared when I was still very ignorant about love, so I always accepted his love for me, and even sometimes, I would like everyone to know, look! I have a boyfriend who spoils me every day and I am very happy, but as time goes by, I get older, my thoughts have changed, he is still as good to me as he used to be, and I find that this has become a burden for me.

    I was with him in high school, he spoiled me, spoiled to the point that a meal was almost fed to the point of feeding, every morning when I woke up, I could see him downstairs in the dormitory, carrying the breakfast he had just bought, quietly waiting for me to go down, he felt that the food made in the cafeteria was too unpalatable, and there was no nutrition, so he had to buy me breakfast every day, breakfast was the most always wanted, and he had to eat well, although I said I didn't have to do this, and he just looked at me, and didn't refute anything, The next day, I still showed up on time at the downstairs of our dormitory.

    On the day of the end of the summer vacation of the third year of high school, he hid from me, secretly bought a lot of snacks on the Internet, and couldn't wait to give them to me when he arrived at school, saying that he wanted me to be the first to open him, and said, you can't eat it all at once, you must eat a little bit every day, so that you can think of me a little bit every day, but I feel that it's good to have him, he will listen to everything I say, and he will always do whatever he wants, and he will catch up with the bus that just drove away because of my efforts. I would also risk being scolded by my teacher to give me a cup of porridge when I was sick, and at that time I thought that I was probably the happiest person in the world.

    But after a long time, I found that I no longer felt any guilt for his dedication to me, as if he should have done it, and I should have accepted his kindness to me, and then he was still as good to me as before, even though we were no longer in the same university, and from time to time I would receive a snack and a warm note from him.

    And I feel that I am so tired, his love is too strong, and I don't love him very much, and even more so that I am just used to his existence, and I don't really like him the most, I know that I am very selfish in doing this, but I can't help it, the relationship between the two of us has deteriorated because of me, so I finally said that I said something separated, perhaps, he is the most sorry boy in my life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Who doesn't want to be held in the palm of their hand, and who doesn't want to be spoiled all the time? Especially for girls, even more so, since I was a child, I have been cared for by my parents in the palm of my hand, after going to college, I feel that I have found a boyfriend, and my boyfriend is very fond of me, so I am willing to marry him and give him children.

    I think being pampered in the palm of my hand is a very warm thing, because being pampered is very loving, so I will feel very warm.

    After I got married to my husband, I found out that I had a child, and at that time, my husband did all the sanitation from top to bottom and from the inside to the outside, so after both my parents and her parents came to see it, they felt that my husband was very tired and felt that I didn't do any work.

    Often at this time, my husband is very handsome to fight back and tell them that even if I am not pregnant, he doesn't want me to do these things, because if the girl does too much housework, his hands will become very rough, and he doesn't want my hands to be rough, so he doesn't want me to do these heavy housework.

    At that time, I thought that my husband just wanted me to be happy when he said these things, because at that time I was pregnant, even if I wanted to do some housework, there was no way to do it, but when I gave birth to a child, I had a misunderstanding with my mother-in-law during the confinement, and my mother-in-law was domineering when she accused me.

    As long as my husband knows, he will come out to defend me as soon as possible, and then tell my mother-in-law very handsomely, and she is not allowed to say that I am not good at all, because I am not living with my mother-in-law, I am living with him, so as long as he thinks there is no problem, there is no problem.

    In fact, it is a very happy thing for someone to spoil him, but people are relative, because you love him enough, so he will spoil you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Being pampered is divided into being pampered by your parents, pampered by your love object, in fact, being pampered is really happy, there is a warm feeling of being valued and cared for, as a boyfriend he will remember all your personal habits and hobbies, what you like and what you don't like, from time to time to give you a small surprise, a small accident, will buy you a lot of healthy and delicious food, will do all kinds of housework, do not disturb your work when you are busy, accompany you to eat, drink and play when you are not busy, never dislike your stupidity, nor dislike you for getting fat, No matter how nervous you are in front of him, he will think that it is your cuteness, you are unhappy and he will coax you, when you cry, he feels more sorry for you than anyone else, and will buy you bags and buy all kinds of things you want, but first you need to have an object.

    Then the pampering of the parents is the most unconditional, unlike the pampering of the love object, today he can pamper you but, once he changes his mind and does not love you anymore, all the pampering will be withdrawn, but the pampering of the parents will not change, selfless. So cherish all the people around you who love you, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No matter how old a woman is, as long as there is someone who can spoil her like a child, spoil her to lawlessness. She just keeps the heart of a girl forever. Outside, in the eyes of outsiders, she always looks like a grin.

    It's like always being an 18-year-old girl. In fact, they are very old and have more wrinkles. But in front of his beloved, he is still able to maintain a delicate image.

    If you want to be coquettish, you can be coquettish, and if you want something delicious, let your beloved buy it.

    It is really very happy to have someone who spoils himself. In front of your beloved, you can show him the worst of you. I think you're cute.

    No matter how difficult it is, he is always more anxious than you. Subconsciously, you are the object of his protection. In front of him, you can not open the lid of the bottle.

    You can not cook. You can't clean up the house, you can't take care of the children.

    Because only if he is there, he will feel sorry for you. I don't want you to be a little tired. can make the girls outside jealous, why did the boy find a girl like her who can't do anything? It shows that this girl is very happy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It feels light and fluttery, and it feels like everything is as it should be! Not really.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I haven't been spoiled, but I must be happy to be spoiled.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Regardless of the reality, but in the senses, the world is his, and he is mine.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This question ah can't be because it hasn't been spoiled.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Why was I invited to this way I really haven't been pampered.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When you are beloved.

    If you are spoiled, you will feel that you seem to be the happiest person in the world, and even no matter what you do, there will be a sweet smile on the corner of your mouth. When I look at anything, I feel so beautiful. Because you are infected by the mood, you naturally see the world as beautiful.

    In addition, I have a feeling of special satisfaction. is always pampered by his beloved, and he will feel that he can do everything for himself, and he doesn't need to worry about it. When you are lonely, you have someone to accompany you, and when you are sad, you have a shoulder to lean on.

    And then I usually don't understand why others always have so many troubles, or why others always keep arguing with their little couple.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Needless to say, of course it's that sweet and beautiful feeling.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Of course it's beautiful! You say yes!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This life is very long, I don't want you to be alone, I only want you to be accompanied, petted, and someone to light the way home for you. Writer Yang Daxia expressed that happiness lies in being in the same boat through thick and thin.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I like to be pampered, and I like to be felt as cute.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's normal for girls to like to be pampered.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You have to learn to love yourself.

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