What should I do if my child is hostile to the homeroom teacher and does not want to go to school?

I think you can change the class teacher.

The child should not be hostile to the class teacher for no reason, maybe the class teacher has done something bad to him, such as corporal punishment, which damages his self-esteem, or the class teacher himself is not wrong, but he is straightforward and fast-talking, which makes your child unacceptable. Then I think you can communicate with the school, change the class first, and then ask the child what he means, and if he agrees, then do it first.

After a while, if your child doesn't think that the homeroom teacher is bad, then most of the time the homeroom teacher has a problem, if he still thinks that the homeroom teacher is not good, and is hostile to the homeroom teacher, it is most likely his own problem.

You can do ideological work and communicate with him, but if it doesn't work, you can also do psychological counseling, that is, children's psychological counseling, maybe it makes sense, and the child's world is not so complicated.

I feel like if I were a mom to a child, I would usually do it first.

I found that every child has the experience of not wanting to go to school, and I have had it.

As for the feeling that the head teacher does not want to go to school, you must immediately persuade him to talk to him. Tell him about the benefits of going to school and what consequences he doesn't want to have going to school. If he still wants to go to school, but he just doesn't like the class teacher, he should either be transferred to another class or another school.

If he still doesn't want to go to school, let him experience life without school and work.

I remember when my brother was in the sixth grade, he also didn't like their homeroom teacher, he skipped class all day and didn't want to go to school. Then my dad made an unexpected decision at the time. When my younger brother repeatedly skipped class and didn't go to school, he <>

After the persuasion failed, his father asked him to go to work on the construction site the next day. At that time, my younger brother was only 12 years old, and he moved bricks and carried ash buckets on the construction site every day for two months. The next year I started school and went to school again. And the grades are very good, and I also became the class president of their class.

I think it's a very good idea because it's only when he's tired that he knows how good it is to learn, and it's a pleasure.

If he's really simple, he just doesn't like the teacher and wants to go to school. Then transfer him to another class or school, and if he can't transfer, then talk to him. It's a very stupid thing not to go to school because you hate teachers.

This has no impact on the teacher, but affects his bright future.

I remember that when I was in junior high school, I did very poorly in chemistry because I hated our chemistry teacher. He lectured in class, and I played below, and the homework assigned was never completed, and when he pressed it, he would take his classmates' and copy it.

It was the stupidest thing I've ever done, and when I got to high school, I chose science and had to study chemistry. I found that the gap between myself and others was too big, and it was very difficult to make up for it.

Immediately convince your child that learning cannot change anything, but it is a shortcut to your success.

I think that as a parent, we must keep our children in a state where they want to go to school and learn, so in this case, we must untie the knot in the child's heart, let them know that it is not easy for the class teacher, and be more considerate of the class teacher.

I think you should ask your child about the specific situation first, why do you have hatred for the class teacher? Is it the homeroom teacher who is always targeting the children in the class? Or do you always have too much homework in your class?

Or is there always too many things forbidden in the class, which makes the child feel uncomfortable? I think the first thing is to understand the situation so that we can take the right medicine.

After figuring out the situation, I think you should first symbolically criticize the class teacher, saying that you are in the same camp as the child, and after that, you should tell the child that learning is your own business, even if the class teacher is indeed a little excessive, but you can't not go to school, if you don't go to school, you will live in a broken house, it will make you live a very hard life and so on.

The second is to let them be more considerate of the class teacher, even if the head teacher has some unkindness, but the starting point of the class teacher is always for the discipline of the class, for the good learning of the students, not for their own good, or the class teacher in the class to set some very unreasonable rules, then you can let the child try not to touch, so that you can ignore those unreasonable rules, no matter how excessive he is, I just absorb his own knowledge, the most important thing is to let him know that he has learned knowledge is the most important.

Even if the child doesn't like the class teacher, but still can't lose his learning, you can also set some prizes for him, for example, if he learns a lot during class, you can ignore the class teacher and just listen to his lectures, and give him some rewards, which are all feasible.

There are children who seem to be hostile to all teachers and not interested in all classes. Like a hedgehog, no one dares to say. At school, in the class, everything has to go according to your own heart!

First of all, parents should be introspective. You can imagine how angry the parents were when they said this, and it is true that unless they don't want their children to go to school, they will be very angry at anyone. But calm down and think about it, if the child is a compulsory education student, the class teacher does not have the right to expel your child, but why does he still do this, it is your child who has done something that the class teacher cannot tolerate.

In this regard, as a parent, you can do the following:

1. Go directly to the class teacher and ask the class teacher why you don't let your child go to school in accordance with the relevant provisions of the Compulsory Education Law. But this method is not advisable, because even if the class teacher has no choice but to accept your child, he will not care about your child in the future, which will make your child go further and further down the wrong path, and it will be more difficult to clean up later.

2. Take the initiative to take the child to apologize to the homeroom teacher. If your child is really difficult for the class teacher to discipline, you need to calm down and find out the reasons why the child has developed to where it is today, some of which may be simply due to the child's own personality, and in many cases, it is the parent's reason.

For example, maybe it's because you're too busy with work to discipline your children, or maybe it's because you're spoiling your children too much, if that's the case, you need to take on the responsibility of educating your children, and you have to change your mentality, and work with your class teacher to study how to manage your children and manage your children well.

In short, when something like this happens, you must first be calm and find the reason from yourself, otherwise even if you can gain the upper hand, even if you are upright, the final result can only be that you are becoming more and more passive and worse.

You can find the Education Bureau, you can find the Education Bureau, and the Education Bureau may handle this matter well.

I think the head teacher's idea is good, if you can't keep up with your school grades, it will be very difficult in the third year of junior high school, so it's better to repeat the grade to accumulate energy and fight again.

The class teacher does not let the child go to school, depending on whether she is in junior high school or elementary school, and what is the specific reason why he does not let her go to school? Only by prescribing the right medicine can you solve the problem, you can try to change schools or classes.

The class teacher does not want your child to go to school. There must be a reason for that. You'd better lead your child to school. Talk to the principal directly and see what causes it? And then put things out. Only then will the homeroom teacher want your child to go to school.

You can talk to the principal, and if it can't be solved, then go to the head of the Education Bureau to solve the problem.

In this case, find the principal to coordinate and let your sister change classes.

1. Understand, acknowledge and sympathize with the child's feelings, do not explain and defend, do not reason at length, and respond to the child concisely, no matter how extreme the child's performance seems.

You could say to your child, "I understand why you're so angry. You must be feeling very sad and painful.

I know you've had a tough semester and you're dealing with a teacher you hate, who is always yelling and you don't like him at all. It's sad that you just want to express your thoughts and you get such a rude response from her, and I wish she didn't talk to you like that again! When you learn to treat your child gently, your child will calm down with gratitude, and he will feel that his mother understands and loves him, and this love will eliminate his anger and give him the courage to face the difficulties and setbacks he encounters again.

2. Fully trust the child and believe that he has the ability to handle his own affairs.

You can skip school, but, I'm sure you won't. I trust you. Trust in the child is more important than all preaching, and this trust will be injected into the child's body as a firm force, making him more confident and calm.

3. Pay attention to children's wishes and provide solutions and ways to solve problems.

What do you want me to do? Do you need me to talk to your teacher about it and get him to pay attention to it? You can write down all your grievances!

I'm not asking you to stand up to authority, but when you have a small accident, learn not to blame, but to seek a solution! Rather than complaining, children will learn how to face and solve problems, and become more positive and optimistic. In addition, if we do need to communicate with the teacher, we should avoid arguments and provocations, and focus on finding ways to help the child.

I don't know how old the child is, maybe the child is more sensitive. In such a situation, the best way for parents is to personally take their children to contact more with the teacher, chat more, and open the child's heart.

Because the child does not like the homeroom teacher, he also does not like the subject, and in this case, the parents must be very anxious. Indeed it is. Only by finding the cause can we prescribe the right medicine to solve the problem. Once you have a thorough understanding, do a further analysis to find a solution.

The society is diverse, which can guide children to learn to accept. Because changing shifts is almost impossible, and changing shifts is an escapist and won't solve your child's problems. So, how to do children's ideological work?

Changing shifts may solve the problem. But if it's hard to integrate with your classmates, you can't talk about it, and it may be the same which class you change to. Tell them that they will encounter more people and things they don't like in the future, and they can't run away from it, but learn to be patient and accept!

Educate your children to adapt to their environment and change their inability to live in harmony with the majority. Have you helped your child solve too many problems as he grows up, and the problems he encounters will not solve them?

And it will form a habit, as long as you don't adapt to it in the future, you will change it, what if you can't change it? How will children integrate into society in the future if they lose the ability to adapt? It can be understood that the head teacher is rough, but it is difficult to integrate with the classmates, which is not necessarily the problem of the head teacher.

In short, only by understanding others in an all-round way can we discover the strengths and strengths of others, and only then can we establish a good relationship with others. This kind of self-centered child grows up and has no future, and he must be allowed to change himself, adapt to the group and society, and treat everyone well!

The class teacher is a very important person in the study and life of a student, and it can be said that the influence is relatively large.

As a parent, you should first understand why you don't like the class teacher, and if what the child says makes sense, you can ask for a change of class; or the fact that the class teacher is targeting the students and the school reflects them, and asks to change the class teacher; I can't change schools again. If what the child says is not very reasonable, the parent should enlighten the child so that he can understand the work of the class teacher and slowly accept the class teacher.

The child did not like his homeroom teacher. This is a very common thing. This is because the management of children in school mainly comes from the class teacher.

As a result, children often blame their class teachers for their discomfort. You first need to understand, why does the child dislike his homeroom teacher? What did he dislike about his homeroom teacher?

Only when we understand clearly can we prescribe the right medicine.

To understand the responsibilities and hardships of the class teacher, there are dozens of students in a class, and there is only one class teacher, so it is obviously more realistic and easier to let dozens of students adapt to one class teacher than to let a class teacher adapt to dozens of students.

The child does not like his homeroom teacher, first of all, if you can adjust the class, you can adjust the class, of course, you can also enlighten the child to learn, not to like someone, but to learn for his own studies.

Take your time and tell him that just because you don't like this teacher, you don't like the class, and the person who regrets it is yourself.

What should I do if my child doesn't like the homeroom teacher and doesn't want to study? Understand what the child asks about what he doesn't like from the class teacher, and communicate with the child and the class teacher. If it really doesn't work, change the child's class. This is a last resort.