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It is because women are inherently more sensitive and emotional, so they are always obsessed with many things, and they can live more comfortably by learning to give up.
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In life, we will have a lot of things that we don't need to use, and these things take up a lot of storage space at home, such as some old clothes and old shoes. In fact, you won't wear it at all, and if you will break away, you will feel very comfortable, and you will get rid of all the things you don't need, and the storage space in your home will become larger.
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Because to establish one's own economic position. Breaking away will give you a lot of spare money, so that you have confidence in your future living arrangements.
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Women will not break up when they learn, and it is themselves who will suffer sooner or later. A man who treats himself badly should leave decisively and don't have anything that he can't let go. You have to learn to give up in order to find a better one.
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Break away"It means to cut off and discard all things that are unnecessary, inappropriate, and obsolete, and to cut off attachment to them"Break away"After that, you can live a simple and refreshing life. "Breaking, giving up, and leaving" are actually three concepts, "breaking" unneeded items, and "abandoning" superfluous items, so as to get rid of "separation" attachment to things and achieve a state of freedom.
It is a minimalist way of life, keeping only the few and fine, and throwing away the useless. Steve Jobs was a great advocate of minimalist living, and his room consisted of only a bed, a chair, a lamp, and an Einstein's **. He brought "minimalism" into Apple's design, and when he returned to Apple in 1997, he cut 70 projects, 90 products, and made the iPhone 4, his request was to simplify the most complex and powerful functions.
As we all know, Apple ushered in the era of smartphones. Compared with the general organization technique, the disconnection focuses on the person itself, and the relationship between people and objects is used to measure the value of an object. For example, when we tidy up our room, we always have this mentality when faced with those useless things:
It's a shame to lose it, so I don't know when I'll use it if I keep it. This kind of psychology is object-centric, and when judging whether something should be thrown away or whether it should be bought, it should be people-centered: Do I really need it now?
In fact, the objects around us also conform to the 28th law, and if we look at them with a disconnected mind, we will find that most of them are useless.
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In fact, most girls are indecisive, when faced with a thing, always do not know how to decide, many times, hesitation will make us lose a lot of things, the so-called giving to gain, the real to do the renunciation, we can really face life, for girls what is the real "abandonment"? I think for girls, the real renunciation is to become self-disciplined, to give up what they don't need, to give up unnecessary consumption, and most importantly, to leave those who are not worthy, if you keep being nostalgic, you will make yourself very humble. <>
One. Get rid of what you don't need.
In our daily life, many girls are always hesitant when facing a thing, because they are always worried that the consequences of things are very serious, consider many aspects, sometimes it is good to be careful, but always reluctant, it will make us lose a lot of things. Only by learning to break away can we have a clearer mind, self-discipline to live, make us more excellent, life becomes better, indecisiveness, will only make us stop, and even make our lives a mess, not knowing what our goals are, and not knowing where we should go. <>
Two. Leave those who don't deserve it.
Especially in love, many girls are always reluctant to leave each other, although the other party has long lost their feelings for themselves, clear their attitude, but sometimes reluctant, always pestering each other, I think this is a waste of each other's time, but also a waste of their own lives, we must learn to leave those who are not worthy, this is the most important point of breaking away, life is so long, we must be with worthy people. Perhaps the process of disconnection will make us feel like we have lost something, and at the same time, we have something better. <>
The above is just a personal opinion, so how do you think girls should break up?
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Cut off unnecessary socialization, the better the woman, the more she can handle it properly. Abandon unrealistic consumption, excellent women, live with heart, rather than relying on consumption to understand life. Leave the unworthy people, live well, know what to throw away, what to keep, what to add, and decisively make your own choices every step of the way.
There is no better woman than these three kinds of renunciation.
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I think that for girls, the real "renunciation" is to break off inappropriate feelings, give up unnecessary socialization, and leave unworthy people.
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Get rid of the things you don't need, stay away from the garbage people, and leave as soon as possible for those you don't like or wishful thinking, and don't waste your life.
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The real renunciation is when you can invest, you can pay, the relationship will be broken, the knot must be very resolute to pay, and when there is no need to pay, you will break off the relationship in time, the unnecessary ties in the community, and leave those who let themselves lose more.
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Why is it said that a high-ranking woman must know how to break, give up, and leave?
There may be many things in life that make us hesitate and can't let go, whether it's career, life, or love, so we must know to make decisions when we hesitate.
As a girl, it is not a simple thing to want to give up, because women may be more emotional, reluctant to give up on many things, but unable to give up.
When dealing with things, you must know what you have to give up, because you have to give up decisively what is useless to yourself, and if you want to live a better life and live a more comfortable life, you must understand this truth.
In this life, we may meet all kinds of people, many of them may be just a passerby on our journey, who can only accompany us for a while, or pass by, so sometimes we have to break off some interpersonal relationships that are superfluous for us.
In addition to interpersonal relationships, in fact, you should also know what attachment is for love, and sometimes persistent love will only become a burden for yourself. If you face the future again, you may be able to live better.
Compared with some entanglements, I think a happy life is what everyone wants, so learning to break away can also keep us away from some unhappy emotions.
There is no need to dwell on the embarrassment in front of us, look at the past or turn around, and we will find a lot of beautiful things.
An unworthy person or an unworthy love, we must know how to take the initiative to leave, if we let our minds go to an unworthy person, this will only waste our time, but will make ourselves become cringe, become more and more selfless.
Therefore, instead of hesitating and not being able to decide, it is better to let yourself learn how to break away from knowing what is the most precious thing, so that our life can become clear, and breaking away is not only for girls, but also for every adult to understand the truth.
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Because girls buy things very irregularly, they want to buy what they like when they see it, and they don't take into account its practicality at all, and it will pile up there after buying it again, so it is necessary to update or clean up the definition time, so that they will make themselves better, and it will also make the space and air in the home fresher.
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Because this will make the girl very clean, it will also make the girl very qualified, and it will also make the girl very capable, so the girl must learn to give up.
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