What is used to maintain love without spoilage?

Little brother, love is maintained with heart, and it will not deteriorate. Based on your age, it should be a sophomore in high school, so love should be beautiful, and full of happiness and purity. Therefore, everything should be unrelated to matter.

Of course, I probably don't know how to fall in love with high school students nowadays. But the uncle feels that he doesn't really need to give any gifts, maybe he can try to understand the other person's thoughts, give care and care when he is lonely and helpless, and give care and encouragement when the goal is clear. You don't have to eat out for a big meal, sometimes you can learn a dish that tastes great, and you can also try to cook it for each other.

It's going to be a great memory.

Of course, I personally think that you may spend a lot of time thinking about or guessing about the other person's thoughts. But what I want to say is that Chaohua is easy to fade, and youth will no longer come.

In the way I said before, keep it good. And set a goal together, I think this kind of relationship is easy to last for a long time, and it is not easy to waver, and it is not easy for the person who suddenly has ideas about the future to have the idea that the other party is his own bond, and it is not easy to be terminated.

I want to know. Love is maintained with material and will not deteriorate. (To put it mildly, love is maintained with money and will not deteriorate.) ）

It's realistic, but it's realistic

I think it's a little more solid with responsibility, although it's not so romantic.

To tell you the truth, if you want a child, you probably don't think I want an adult, then you may understand that money and sincerity must coexist and are very realistic.

In the early days of love, the two people were like glue, sweet and sweet, as if they were happy in everything. But love also has a shelf life, and after a period of time, the relationship may not be as warm as before, and it may feel bland. So in love, how to increase the emotional shelf life?

I think we can do it in terms of trust, space, commitment, and ritual.

First, trust. In a relationship, both parties will feel very happy, but they may also be suspicious of each other because some of the other party's habits or actions are different from usual. Doubt each other, doubt yourself, and doubt whether the love between you is not pure.

If you don't find substantial evidence, don't arbitrarily create this feeling of distrust. The feeling of distrust will only make the other party feel more and more that you are unreasonable, and no matter how good the relationship is, it will be turned into nothingness by your suspicious approach. So if you want to increase the emotional shelf life, you must trust the other person unless you have solid evidence.

Second, space. People in a relationship may want to stick to each other every day, and even if they don't do anything, they may feel happy. But for people who are just starting to fall in love together, both parties will feel that such a life is good.

But after being in love for a long time, each other may need some space, and they no longer want to stick together every day, but want to have some space of their own. So at this time, you must not put all your eyes on each other, give yourself a little space, and also leave a little space for each other, and appropriately maintain their own free time.

Third, commitment. Some people say that the promise between lovers can sometimes not be fulfilled at all, but a proper promise will also give the other party a little expectation and happiness. Because you will give a promise to your lover, it shows that you have him in your heart and him in your future.

On the contrary, if there is no commitment, the other party may feel that there is no hope with you, you don't even give him a commitment, he can't imagine what your future life will be like, and whether you have him in your future life. So I think giving each other a commitment to the relationship can enhance the shelf life of love. Because as long as there is that commitment, both sides will work together for that commitment.

Fourth, a sense of ritual. When you are in love, you need some sense of ritual, from time to time to create some small surprises and romances for each other, so that the other party feels that you still care about him, still love him, and will still do some romantic things for him, so that he can feel that love has a sense of ritual, life also has a sense of ritual, and he will also be full of expectations for your future life.

All in all, it is indeed important to increase the emotional shelf life in a relationship, but it also requires a certain amount of skill. Love is the most fundamental reason of all skills, as long as there is love, you can think of ways to increase the emotional shelf life, and if there is no love, there is no way to increase the emotional shelf life.

In love, increase the emotional warranty period. Therefore, we need to add some preservatives to love, and these preservatives are our love for each other, as long as we love each other with our hearts, sincerely pay, really care about him, let him feel our warmth, and naturally increase the emotional shelf life.

I think that in love, we can maintain a sense of distance and mystery, which can increase the shelf life of love.

The way to increase the emotional shelf life in a relationship is to spend more time with the other person, and at the same time, your work and career should not be left behind. Body management should also continue to be adhered to, and only if you are excellent in all aspects can you always maintain your attractiveness to each other.

In love, often create some small surprises to give the other person some space and enough trust, which can improve the shelf life of love.

If you want to increase the shelf life of your emotions, you must first do it, learn to have your own independent space, no matter what problems you encounter, you must learn to protect yourself, so that you can increase the shelf life of your emotions.

If you want to enhance the shelf life of the relationship between two people, you must be honest with each other in the relationship, and you must trust each other.

If you want to enhance the shelf life of love, you must make love flow for a long time, so that he has feelings every day, but it is not strong, only in this way can love last longer and longer.

If you want a normal emotional shelf life in a relationship, you need two people to do more activities. Only if you interact enough then you will be able to find this spice between two people and keep the mood up.

There is a psychological phenomenon in psychology called positive illusion, which is, to put it bluntly, what we often say is that the lover is in the eye. When they first fell in love, the two were like glue, and they didn't see each other for a day. But as time goes by, the beauty of the other party disappears in the friction between the two.

The maintenance of the emotional shelf life is a university question, and its maintenance depends on the attitude and efforts of both parties to love, if both parties ignore it and let it develop freely, then the final love time of the two may be very short.

You can do more things that the other person is interested in, or you can go to a place where two people feel romantic, you can choose to travel, you can also go to other cities to develop, or you can care more about each other in life.

Surprises should be prepared for each other often. Also ask the other person how they feel. You should also cook some meals for each other. You should also prepare some small gifts for each other. The anniversary of two people should also be remembered.

Communicate more with each other, communicate with each other more, and negotiate with each other when encountering some bad things, and should not be angry directly. Go to more romantic places.

In love, it is possible to increase the emotional shelf life and create a little surprise in life.

In love, two people must be asked to do something new, and two people are also required to change the mode of getting along and understand each other more.

Maintain it with your heart. Only when two people do not change their hearts and sincerely love each other, this love can last for a long time. Hope, thank you.

Sometimes the longer a boyfriend and girlfriend get along, the more their shortcomings will be exposed, and the more difficult it will be for the other person to accept. What you said at the beginning, your shortcomings are all advantages in my eyes, and sweet words like that are! What men are always obscure about women is beauty, and it will scare them when they look at it up close, otherwise how can there be such a statement that what cannot be obtained is the best?!

My husband and I got engaged after only two months together, and got married in less than a year. It's been more than two years now, and the relationship between the two is still very good, I'm not very good at cooking, I don't look very good, and my temperament is sometimes not good, in his words, I have a big temper! In this way, I can still have a man who dotes on me and loves me so much.

I'm glad I made the choice. I summarize that the friends around me fall in love, and the longer they talk about each other, they tend to end up breaking up. Because it is said that love can only last for ten months, and the rest becomes family affection.

If you want love not to deteriorate, you can only manage it with your heart, what is the use of relying on your own strength unilaterally like you. Maybe he will be touched for a while, but when he gets used to your dedication to him every day, so over time, your body and mind are tired and you can no longer afford to give, then what will happen to your relationship??? I think you can have a showdown with him in person and ask him what he thinks of your relationship now and what his plans are for the future.

When I have a problem, I will not be alone in my heart, I will have a good talk with my husband, of course, we will have quarrels when we talk, but he will take the initiative to talk to me and make me happy! If you think you still love him in your heart, then let yourself work hard! Even if you break up later, you have no regrets!

Because you did your best.