What kind of speech is considered to be level, what kind of speech is considered to be level ?

For example, when a scientist goes to the farmland to talk to a farmer, he can't be too academic, but he can speak something that the farmer can understand, and he can explain complex scientific knowledge in an easy-to-understand way.

Everyone's purpose of speaking is different, as long as you can achieve the effect you want, it is level. However, clear logic and crisp speech are the basics of speech.

Enough personal experience. How abundant external objects are, it is not as real as trying them yourself. This is a prerequisite for having a level of speech.

If you want to sublimate your personal experience into a universal truth, you also need to have extraordinary wisdom. Different people experience the same thing, and the emotions they get are very different. Here's an example:

Since the beginning of the world, the apple has fallen on people's heads many times, and I and other mortals just have to come to the conclusion that the next time the mother will never sit under the tree again, it will hurt me to death. Another magical creature foodie can get from oops, so it hurts. Hey?

Delicious! Among them, I found the true meaning of apples falling to the ground: apples are delicious only when they are ripe.

There is only one word in the world that has given the world one more word: gravity. We say that this person has a level of speech.

My father always told me that to listen to a person is to listen to what he has not said, and if you can make people do this to you when you can do this, then your speech must be level.

Many young people always like to focus on the details of speech skills and connections, and want to take shortcuts. Frankly speaking, whether the speech is well delivered or not, in the vast majority of cases, does not make any sense. Why are others willing to listen to the leader but not you?

What's the use of you speaking better than singing? Speaking skills, personal connections, these are just externalities created by your own strength. If you have the strength, people will be willing to listen to you and seriously understand the spirit of your speech, regardless of the way you express it.

If you don't have the strength, even if you accompany the smiling face and choose the good ones, others will think you are annoying, like a fly buzzing around.

First of all, I feel that I have to go through it from my heart. Get things straight. Don't say things that hurt too much, it's not hypocrisy. Bad words hurt people and June cold. Remember.

Everything in your speech should serve the center of your speech, and examples, arguments, and even interspersed paragraphs should serve your center. Even if there is a hiccup in between, it should be returned to the theme in time. Taking full account of the interests of all parties means what everyone wants to hear and cares about.

For example, the audience has a unified interest, and you have to take care of them. If the audience is divided into several groups, each with a more typical position, you should take care of it. A speech that does not focus on the interests of all parties cannot be considered a good speech.

Your audience will lose interest or even fall asleep because they have nothing to do with you, so don't forget the topic of your speech while taking care of your audience's interests. ‍‍

Personally, I think that people who have a level of speech have very strong logic.

Know what to say on what occasions and what kind of people to say differently with.

The study of the level of speech is divided into two parts: content and form. Say what you say. The second point is to be logically clear.

I, a male colleague, and a female colleague who was a little chubby, took the bus to run errands together, and the seats on the bus were just full, and a few people were standing, and then we stood in the middle of the bus. Because of a red light, a private car in front of it braked temporarily, causing the bus to brake sharply, and then tragedy happened, and the female colleague rolled forward with someone with a gripper and a pull ring. I hurriedly went up to help the female colleague up and asked her if she was okay, and the female colleague blushed and said it was okay.

Then the male colleague also ran over, and after confirming that she was really fine, he exaggerated and joked loudly: Wow, you are too unlucky, you actually caught a bad pull ring. It's so unlucky.

Listening to my male colleague ridicule like this, I secretly gave him a thumbs up in my heart at that time, the young man has a future. In fact, it was very embarrassing at that time, in public, a little fat girl pulled the pull ring off, and the people around would think that this person was too fat, so everyone felt uncomfortable. Then as soon as the male colleague ridiculed, it turned out that this person was too unlucky and grabbed a bad pull ring. ‍‍

During the interview, I made a mistake in remembering the field of development of the company and added real estate, and the interviewer sitting in the middle was very unhappy. The scene was very embarrassing. The interviewer sitting next to him said lightly:

Well, yes, yes, this is all thought out for us, and we will try to develop real estate in the future. At the time, everyone laughed. Worship, male god. ‍‍

It's very comfortable for everyone, but sometimes it can be a little fake, and I don't know if it's really sincere. It's very straightforward, direct, the main thing to speak is to be very sincere, seek truth from facts, don't beat around the bush, don't need people to bother to guess, but don't speak too prick and too straightforward, know what to say and what not to say, I don't think there should be anyone who doesn't like sincere people.

It's listening. Leaders should be targeted in their speeches, what to say to what groups, and what to say to whom. Speak in plain language, so that people can understand, and don't talk about the common people.

Make people remember. Leaders' speeches should be logical, organized, with clear views, prominent points, clear hierarchies, and easy to accept. If the leader talks at length on the stage, plays and sings by himself, and the people below are not in the state, sleeping and playing with their mobile phones, it is in vain. ‍‍

My daughter, when she just could talk and just walked, she was more than a year old, and once she took her out to play, she was tired of sitting on the small cart, and she got down to help the car to go, and met a security guard in the community, and thought it was cute, and teased her, your little cart is not sitting, give it to your uncle, right? Without thinking, she pointed to the cart and said, bad, bad. I didn't even react to this mother, and I was still thinking about how to educate my child not to be too stingy, or tell her that her uncle was joking, but they solved the problem by themselves, and both parties were not embarrassed, I really admired her, this kind of emotional intelligence should be a talent. ‍‍

What kind of speech counts as "[level]"?

Leading cadres are tasked with mobilizing, organizing, and propagating the masses, and they need to speak frequently. However, in real life, some leading cadres are not very good at speaking. In today's extremely fast and convenient information dissemination, a careless word by a leading cadre may be quickly posted on the Internet, and netizens will be hotly discussed, and sometimes it will even have a negative effect.

It can be seen that raising the level of speech is also a compulsory course for leading cadres.

Let's be honest. Concealing facts and telling lies, turning black and white upside down, and violating the principle of seeking truth from facts, are absolutely not the actions of communists. Practice has proved that what the masses love to hear most is the truth.

Even if leading cadres encounter difficulties that are difficult to resolve in their work, as long as they explain clearly and clearly to the masses, the masses will be able to understand them. "If you don't tell the truth, you can't tell anything. "Leading cadres must be responsible for the party's cause, the interests of the people, and their own duties, and persist in telling the truth.

Speak words with a level. In the Internet era, ordinary people can keep abreast of the domestic and international situation and the party's principles and policies through the Internet, and some of them have a fairly high level of policy and analytical ability. This requires leading cadres to use their brains and hearts when making speeches, and to be good at speaking at a high level, so that a report can educate people, a speech can enlighten people, and a heart-to-heart talk can benefit people.

Speaking of a high level, we need to be good at learning from books, learning from the masses, and learning from practice, and constantly improve with each passing day.

Speak the words that work. If it works, it's if it solves the problem. If the leading cadres always talk about empty words and clichés, talk about things that have no purpose in mind, and are in the clouds, and if they actually avoid contradictions and bypass problems after talking for a long time, it will be impossible to truly untie the knots in the hearts of the masses and the ideological buttons.

If we want to be effective, we need to do a good job of investigation and investigation, know what the masses are anxious about, know the crux of the contradictions, let the speech have a definite purpose, go directly to the problem, and be able to truly solve the problem. If we talk about what is effective, we also require leading cadres to have the spirit of responsibility and not evade contradictions or shirk responsibility.

There is a bridge in Du Lala's Promotion, when Sister Xiaodi watched it, she sweated two handfuls in her palms. 

Durala's superior, administrative manager Rose, is ready to resign. She is dissatisfied with her immediate boss Liszt, and wants to encourage the capable Dulara to find another job, so that Liszt will have no one available at that time, and play him ugly. 

Pregnant with a ghost fetus, Rose invited Du Lala to dinner, and said with ulterior motives: "Now that your strength has surpassed the position of the director, you haven't talked to Liszt to see if there is a chance to go up?" "Durala smiled noncommittally, no. 

Rose encouraged: You already have the strength to be a manager, Liszt does not give you this position, the market will give it. Durala still didn't speak. 

Rose continued: "I really wronged you, I did it for nothing, and I was used by Lao Li so alive, he was bullying an honest man, and I am not worth it for you." "

Lara didn't understand what Rose wanted to do, and said, "I really learned a lot from doing this project, and it's good for me, and I'm very grateful to Liszt for giving me this opportunity." "

Originally, I had been sweating for Du Lala, for fear that she would fall into a trap. Seeing this, I couldn't help but applaud. Durala's, seamless, and watertight, is simply a classic teaching material for chatting with colleagues. 

But in real life, people who can't speak abound, and they often make these mistakes.

The workplace speaks of the "seven deadly sins".

We all know that every word you say in the workplace will definitely get out.

But many people still repeatedly commit the "seven deadly sins" of speaking:

2.Judging others: Some people love to point fingers. If you find yourself being judged by others when you are talking, it will be difficult for you to listen to others with an impartial mind.

3.Negative dialogue: "This is definitely not going to work, how can this be done?" "It was a terrible day. "- So negative, it's hard to communicate.

4.Complaining: Complaining is a disease, and it is also "contagious", transmitting negative energy to the whole world.

5.Excuses: If things are messed up, they will shift the blame to anyone but themselves, and even bad weather and poor projectors are their excuses.

6.Whitewashing and exaggeration: to go further, is to deceive.

7.Assertiveness: Confusing right and wrong from a subjective perspective. Imagine the feeling of someone blasting in your ears and only thinking they are right, and it's hard for us to listen to what they have to say.

Chat skills for the workplace and in life.

Expressing ideas accurately in words is really an ability that most people lack.

In many cases, people can be distinguished from their words.

The way you speak often reflects a person's emotional intelligence, cultivation and vision.

Sister Xiaodi has summarized some chat skills that are applicable in both work and life, and you can try them to make your conversations with colleagues interesting.

A speech that is gripping and moving, can fully mobilize the audience's emotions, and makes the audience full of positive energy is a speech with a level.

Speech is a science, but how to speak is learned, and the level is not only reflected in the surface of the speech. It is more important to look at the individual's cultivation and words and deeds.

How to speak is called level

First of all, you need a knowledgeable brain to be able to say something when talking to others.

Secondly, the logic must be clear, no matter how much you understand, you can't express it in one sentence. Be organized and sequential.

Again, be concise and focused. To have a level is to grasp the key points. What are you going to talk about today and what do you want to achieve? Okay, just follow this goal, don't beat around the bush and say things that don't matter.

The last point is to be authentic. It's okay to brag about it, but don't brag about it... Although the audience may not be as smart as you, and not as knowledgeable as you, they are definitely not stupid.

If it blows up, anyone can hear it. I think in real life, you often meet people who like to brag, and the first reaction is to be disgusted. So let's not be that kind of person.

In addition, we should throw away facts, not emotions. Give examples of resentment, don't be close. One recognized brag will result in a long-term credit discount.

How can I improve my speech?

Read more and learn more. As the saying goes: the book has its own ** house. Not without reason. In order to improve their writing and language skills. At the same time, I also have the knowledge in my brain to do what I said above.

What's more important is that you have to practice diligently, talk more, communicate more with people, you can also participate in debate competitions or something, plus the improvement of your previous writing skills, you have to try to apply those skills in terms of language, and over time, your language expression will improve. <>

Just like your written expression, it is a subtle process to improve your speaking skills, so don't rush and practice slowly.