What is it like to get along with someone with low emotional intelligence in a relationship?

It's very damaging to the mood, for example, if you go shopping with him, and then you meet a beautiful woman, you jokingly ask him, who is more beautiful, me or that beauty? As a result, he said seriously at this time, her legs are better than yours...I want to roll my eyes instantly.

Be understanding and tolerant of each other. After all, our lover is our own choice.

It's not fun, I can't understand what I'm saying, I don't know what I'm talking about, and I feel like getting along with a wooden person.

Maybe he won't understand your heart, but a boy with low emotional intelligence is really heartfelt.

Be aware of your own emotions. Because there is only correct self-knowledge. in order to better grasp their own life. Able to manage their emotions sensibly.

Recognize your emotions. Because only by self-knowledge can we better control our own lives. Able to manage their emotions well. That is, to be able to control oneself. ‍‍

I had dinner with another female friend with him, he was not very familiar with the girl, after we finished eating, the girl had to leave first, and then the girl asked him to send me back, the friend thought he was interesting to me, in fact, in addition to low emotional intelligence, he also seemed to be humorous, and he was very happy with him, because I also had a little headache at the time, I asked him to send me back, I said no, I didn't expect him to buy it and said, a little headache is fine, she should be able to go back by herself, I heard it and dizzy.

Emotional intelligence, also known as emotional intelligence, mainly refers to the quality of a person in terms of emotions, emotions, will, and tolerance to setbacks. In the past, a person's likelihood of achievement would be measured by their level of intelligence, but now psychologists generally believe that a person's emotional intelligence also has an important impact, and sometimes it may exceed IQ. ‍‍

Every time I buy new clothes, or try on new pants, he will point at the side, saying that this dress does not match your temperament, you don't look good, this dress is too big, this dress is too expensive, and I have been pressing on the side, I think what is the matter with you.

Others say that boys should be sympathetic to girls, for the sake of girls everywhere, my friend is very strange, once a colleague chatted together, inadvertently talked about weight problems, I was a little fat, he began to say in front of others that I must be a three-digit weight, eating must be terrible, usually chatting is nothing, the relationship is relatively iron, but I didn't expect this time in front of so many people, and at the same time there are leaders to discuss these things with me, when my face was green, and then I didn't give him a good look, But he didn't think it was anything, and I was speechless.

Self-motivation can enable people to get out of the low tide and start anew. Recognize the emotions of others. This is the basis for normal interaction with others and smooth communication. Relationship management. That is, leadership and management skills. ‍‍

EQ is different from IQ, IQ is rational, and EQ can be improved through some experience, insight, etc. When falling in love, we must pay attention to methods, learn to observe words and feelings, and learn to judge the situation in order to grasp the right time and pursue the person we like in an appropriate way. ‍‍

Many people are too straightforward in the process of falling in love, of course, it is a wise choice to show their true selves, but in the process of falling in love, a lot of words blurted out without thinking about it are often not a wise choice, and it is also a sign of immaturity in the eyes of the other party, so we should look at ourselves!

1. That was the first time you tasted love.

Youth is young, and love is beginning to bloom. It's so wonderful to fall in love with someone. I have experienced the love of my parents, the love of teachers and students, the love of friends, and the love of brothers and sisters, but I have never experienced love.

Love is so different. Before I knew it, I fell in love with someone. He or she is not beautiful, he or she is beautiful.

I started secretly writing love letters to him (her), it was late at night, and the surroundings were quiet, but the mood was surging, and you were already sweating profusely. You can't even bear to look at him or her more, for fear of ruining the beauty in your heart. The feeling of looking at each other and blushing on the face is wonderful.

You have affection, I have intentions. Even the touch of a fingertip can cause atrial tremors, which ...... like an overelectric sensation throughout the bodyThese are the feelings of first love, and they are also feelings that can only be experienced when you taste love for the first time.

2. There are good ideas about all things love.

All beauty comes from illusion, especially love. You are Jia Baoyu, and you will think of it as Lin Daiyu. You are a weaver girl, and you will think of her as a cowherd.

All the beautiful love stories that you read will happen to you with the illusion that they will happen to you. If you don't see him or her during the day, you will toss and turn at night and can't sleep, close your eyes, and he or she will stand in front of you, so beautiful, so ecstatic. You show him or her the best and the best side of yourself, for fear that he will see the slightest flaw in you, because that would ruin your image of the beauty of love.

The love you want is to be able to have him or her forever. And he or she will always be as beautiful as you think.

3. He or she has become your memory.

Perhaps, before you have tasted the taste of love, the beautiful love has already left you. Your first love becomes your memory. All the memories can only be fragmented and fragmented.

And every piece that remains, it is the most beautiful of all. Sometimes, it may not be so beautiful, but when you think about it over and over again, it becomes so beautiful. Yes, it's your subconscious mind that makes you do it.

Now that it has become a thing of the past, it is no longer possible to have it, and what can be done is to make the memories more beautiful. When you grow up slowly, enter into marriage, have a new love, and are unhappy and unhappy, you will unconsciously recall your first love. It's also a subconscious that you can't get it.