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Wrong, people born in the 80s know more than the previous people, at least they will not be married by their parents like the people in the past, at least they know what they want and what they don't want, and the post-80s know what life is and how to enjoy life. If you want to compare married life to a dish, then people before 80 should be a plate of pickles, light and tasteless. And the post-80s generation is a dish full of color and flavor, because 80 knows how to make their married life continue to heat up, their enthusiasm, and their romance will make their married life more colorful and happier!

Don't worry about the post-80s anymore, let's worry about the post-90s.

Even the post-70s and post-60s generations have all experienced such a process.

The concept of love of the post-80s generation may be different from that of the 70s. I am a post-80s person, and I will talk about my understanding of love and marriage. Marriage is not a matter of two people, although happiness is for two people, but this marriage has brought the two families together, so marriage should be cautious.

The children of the post-80s generation may not have the spirit of 70 people, but the responsibility of society always needs 80 people to bear, and marriage is that everyone learns to love and understand others. Marriage made him understand responsibility, but after marriage, she had children but understood what true love was. Because this is the integrity of the family, let them understand that it is not easy to be parents.

In fact, each generation has come through this way, and the experience and habits of life are different. In fact, people born in the 80s work hard because they can't, this is the growth process of people.

You're right, I understand it pretty much the same as you said.

Of course, it is different for each person.

The post-80s generation has now reached the age of maturity After all, the mainstream of society is going to talk about the post-80s It is said that the marriage of the post-80s cannot last long, but I think the marriage of the post-80s has what the predecessors lack, their personality, their enthusiasm, how much they earn, how much they use, they enjoy the moment, they are from scratch, they struggle together, they create a new life together

For post-80s girls, Tong Song should choose a responsible person as a marriage partner, post-80s girls are not young and hungry, don't have time to fantasize.

You can choose a partner from the direction of character, appearance, education, and family, but many post-80s girls think it's good not to get married.

We must choose a man who is mature and stable and has an economic foundation, and the three views must be positive, and the character must be valuable.

China's post-90s generation refers to the generation born in the 1990s, and their views and attitudes towards marriage may vary depending on individual differences. Overall, however, here are some of the prevailing views and trends:

1.Diversity of Marriage Concepts: Compared with previous generations, the post-90s generation is more inclined to pursue personal independence, freedom and self-realization. They are more focused on partner equality, mutual growth, and mutual respect in marriage.

2.Postponing marriage: Compared to some previous age groups, the post-90s generation tends to be more inclined to postpone marriage. They prefer to focus on career development, self-growth, and finding the right partner for them first.

3.Changing values: The post-90s generation pays more attention to personal happiness and emotional satisfaction. They are more inclined to find a partner who has true love and shared values, and wants a stable and quality marital relationship.

4.Rational choice: Compared with traditional concepts, the post-90s generation considers more factors such as economic conditions, quality of life, and family background to make rational decisions. They are more willing to communicate and understand their partners fully to ensure the stability and sustainability of their marital relationship.

5.Personal development first: The post-90s generation focuses on personal growth and career development, and places more emphasis on self-realization. They tend to share goals with their partner, support each other and maintain some independence in their marriage.

It should be pointed out that this is only a general description of the overall trend of China's post-90s generation, and does not mean that everyone will fully comply. Everyone's perceptions and attitudes are influenced by a variety of factors such as personal experience, educational background, and social environment.

After that, they didn't want to find a partner or have children. When they are urged to get married and have children, they tell their parents a different story"Theory"These girls believe that they are now financially independent and have a certain amount of security in their lives, and they will take care of themselves in the future.

Moreover, I am afraid that if I meet a bad other half, I will not only be hurt emotionally, but also bring a lot of distress to my later life. If you are old in the future and can no longer take care of yourself, you can go to a nursing home with good conditions, which is better than a bad family life and allowing children to care for the elderly. In this regard, I also have a deep experience, there was a post-90s girl who said that she didn't want to have children when she got married, she didn't want to be affected by children, she just wanted to enjoy life.

Weddings, funerals, and childbearing are the great traditional customs of the Chinese nation, and they are also the outstanding achievements of the recognition and practice of the 5,000-year-old civilization. We regard marriage and childbirth as a major and important event in life, and it has also created countless wonderful families for us. And these excellent traditions of the Chinese nation have been passed down from generation to generation in the family unit.

Oh, yes! In recent years, some female friends will feel that it doesn't matter whether they get married or not, have children or not, but the reality is actually very cruel, and there are other confusions that you can't imagine.

I think the basic meaning of the existence of children is that when you are old, they can take care of you, and they can entrust you to the nursing home, so that the nursing home can take good care of you. Taking care of you is the responsibility of the nursing home to your children.

Due to the times, your children are busy with work and life, and you don't have to take care of them personally, but after you go to a nursing home, your children are your guardians, which is a potential force to protect your rights and interests. With the supervision of children, the elderly will feel more secure. Here we will talk about a real case, some time ago, we told netizens such a thing, Uncle Zhao Yufu, who originally lived at No. 44, Changhua Road, Shibei District, Qingdao City, is 82 years old this year, after the death of his wife Ms. Duan, because his children were busy with work outside, Uncle Zhao Yufu met Ms. Zhang, who was 40 years younger than him, and the two later registered their marriage.

During the marriage between Uncle Zhao and Ms. Zhang, Uncle Zhao's savings and millions of real estate were transferred to Ms. Zhang.

Later, Ms. Zhang divorced Uncle Zhao Yufu, because the house was gone, and there was no savings, Uncle Zhao Yufu had to rely on a pension of more than 4,000 yuan to live in a nursing home. Now Uncle Zhao Yufu said with deep feelings"I am very good in the nursing home now, the nursing home staff take care of me like a relative, and my son often takes time to visit me, and I feel that it is a blessing to have a son.

Therefore, whether your children support you or not, but the feeling of having children and not having children is different, they must be your confidence and protector. "

Now many post-80s and post-90s generations don't want to get married, first of all, because they haven't met the person they want to marry, they may be busy with work, or busy with other things, and don't put their minds on falling in love.

They don't even have a relationship partner, let alone a marriage partner, so they won't consider getting married. So the reason why they don't want to get married, and the reason why they don't want to get married is that it's too expensive to fall in love now, and it's not like before, just go to the park and go to the library to read a book.

There will also be relatively large expenses when falling in love, because today's girls are not as easy to fool as before, and now a casual gift is a few hundred yuan, and a casual meal is also hundreds of dollars, if like some people, his salary is not high, in fact, the money earned is not enough to date. The cost of falling in love is already a lot, and if you want to get married, you need to spend more money, and you need to spend more money.

Now this society does not say that you can get married if you want to get married, not only boys have high requirements for girls, but now girls have high requirements for boys, in the past, boys always wanted to find a gentle, beautiful and virtuous woman, but now there are many older leftover men, and they have not been able to find a wife, because the requirements of girls will be relatively high, requiring boys to have a car and a house.

It is that the price of goods in this society will be relatively expensive, many people can't afford to buy a car, and they don't have a house, so girls won't be willing to marry them if they know that boys are like this, they know that girls have this idea, so they also dismiss the idea of getting married.

But in fact, with the development of society and the progress of science and technology, a person is also very happy, can play mobile phones, play games, go on the Internet, maybe when two people are together, sweet times will make others very envious, feel very affectionate, but when there is a conflict, it is also very scary, so they are very afraid of trouble, want to avoid these troubles, that is, do not find someone to fall in love, do not get married. Now people's ideas have also changed, and it is normal not to get married or to get married later, so many people want to get married after their economic foundation is better, so that they will not care about the great pressure they face after getting married, and this idea is also there. Return to Sohu to see more.

Here's an answer to that question for you. First of all, different ages have different attitudes towards marriage. There is a huge age gap, and of course there will be different views on marriage issues.

First of all, the descendants of the 70s, but also the first generation of reform and opening up, now they have either seen half a hundred, or they are also in their forties, and they are about to run five. The current situation of this generation's life, from the concept of marriage and love to the concept of childbirth, is generally imprinted with the more traditional imprint of the previous generation.

In terms of marriage and love, you will feel that men should marry women when they get married, and when they reach the right age for marriage, if they have not been married, they will be so gossiped by the people around them that they can't lift their heads, as if Qingqi's life should be at the mercy of others.

The second is the post-80s, especially the post-85s born in the 90s, the understanding of marriage and love has almost no traditional shadow, more of a self-demand appeal, what do I want, how I want to, how I like it, not how to do it appropriately, otherwise what will be the consequences.

Since marriage is a matter of two people, of course, the two people have to be in agreement, or at least they are more eye-to-eye, and it is extremely important to be able to talk together, play together, get high, and sleep together, and whether the sex life is harmonious when sleeping together, as for what other people say, it is just for reference. As for the birth of a baby, it is even more backward, anyway, this is not a must for the reputation of life, if all conditions allow, you can consider having a baby, otherwise it is more important to take care of your life trip first.

Then there is the generation born after the 00s, who are even more flamboyant, their own personality is flying, they don't care about other people's opinions, opinions, visions, etc., they are self-respecting, everything is based on their own feelings or moods, and they almost don't pay attention to other people's views.

Their perception of marriage is no longer limited to the concept of traditional times, and the relationship between the sexes is more intolerant and empathetic.

I hope I can help friends in need.

Hello questioner! I'm glad to answer your questions, first of all, thank you for your question, the post-70s, post-80s, post-90s, attitudes towards marriage are very different. The attitude towards Cong Ru's life is also very different. Because of the difference in age, the idea is different, and the way of living is also different.