The post 80s generation made a new house, and the tragedy of the post 80s generation was the problem

It's better not to tell the truth badly.

You said you have feelings, and I want to ask you how much your girlfriend loves you, or if it's true love. As for the question of buying a house, it must be two people who struggle together. What is true love, the true meaning of love is to join hands with each other and bear together.

Interdependence. Like your girlfriend, I feel like you're tired if you get married. Because she's not willing to pay for you, to put it simply.

If you can't afford a house, she won't marry you. If you were a millionaire, she would have married you. It's up to you to think about it.

In the same way, I am also a three-no character, and the situation at home is more depressed than yours, but my girlfriend still takes a fancy to me. It didn't say anything because I didn't have a house, a car, or a deposit, but encouraged me to ask me to work hard with her.

For us post-80s, these problems are something that everyone has to encounter, I think you should discuss it with your girlfriend, it's too unrealistic to buy a house by one family now. After all, you have been in a relationship for 7 years, and I think it's a pity if you are separated because of the house. Because my boyfriend and I have been talking for almost 7 years, our goal now is to save money to buy a house.

I have always believed that two people together should work together and share weal and pain. But if she really wants to separate from you because of the house problem, then I don't think you need to regret it, you can't understand your girlfriend when you are the most difficult, and you will not be able to understand your wife in the future.

I think the two of them should earn money to buy a house together, otherwise what are they going to do when they get married... If she really loves you, she will be willing to fight with you!!

Are you asking how much it costs to buy a house? Still illustrates the problem, a little confused, for us post-80s, there are washing utensils staged all the time, but there are indeed a lot of cups behind the washing utensils. The house problem is one of the biggest problems we face at the moment, some people have become house slaves, and some people have good fathers and mothers.

For us, the house was the first thing we solved. I think you can ask your girlfriend for advice and see what he thinks, and if she agrees with her friend and wants you to have a house or has to buy a house alone to marry you, I personally think that's okay because she cares about the house, not your people. Is that right?

Try to communicate with her well, see what she thinks in her heart, and don't be impulsive first, my girlfriend and I discussed renting a house to get married first. When you have the money, build a small western-style house in the countryside.

Hehe, good luck.

If she loves you, she won't care about that.

Big brother, when you buy a house, your joint property That is to say, you need the approval of both parties, so if you pay your own money to buy a house, the name on the registered deed must be your own in the future, which means that you own it, if you pay for your husband and wife's name, it may be that the husband and wife have personal property, and you regret it later, so you must pay half of the money to buy a house, and the place is different Some have a down payment of 20,000 Some have a down payment of 100,000 The loan must be signed by your husband and wife Both parties are responsible for repaying the loan What else do you not understand, ask me!

Seven years of love can't defeat reality! In fact, if there is love, no matter how difficult it is, two people can face it together, I think that the current housing price is so expensive, and buying a house can not always be traditionally regarded as a man's business, since you want to get married and form a family, you should work together to find a way to make enough down payment, and then repay the loan together. If the woman directly throws the difficulties of the problem to you, and she doesn't want to face it together, then I think your relationship is already very fragile, and you should know very well whether to give up or not.

It is recommended to communicate well with the woman, whether your feelings are important or material is more important, whether you want to bear the joys and sorrows together, or push it to you and let you solve it yourself. Then after getting the answer, what to do, you should be very clear.

You are very filial and don't want your family to pay for it, I appreciate it! If it is really difficult, you can also buy a smaller, more remote house first, so that it may be hard to commute, but you will not take out so much money at once.

Finally, I add: I'm a woman!

Now the post-80s generation is relying on themselves to buy a house, which is really too stressful.

Your parents have given everything to your schooling.

Is your girlfriend influenced by her friends or is she meant to be like this? You've been together for so long, haven't you ever talked about a house before?

Society is realistic, in fact, now the man pays the down payment, the woman is responsible for the decoration or home appliances, and the two repay the loan together is the most reasonable and relatively acceptable way to deal with it.

If you want to give up, there's nothing you can't do, you must be happy, this society is very big, there is no need to let yourself live under great pressure all day long, otherwise the degree of your loss will be much greater than the relationship of these 7 years.

Personally, I feel that your girlfriend is not very responsible for your future life, I don't know if you feel the same way.

The home is for two people, and it is best to have two people working together on the issue of the house, so that at least the family harmony can be ensured in the future, and I personally think this is more important.

It's not reasonable at all, give up early, bless you.

Forget it, I won't want such a woman, man, if you take out a loan to buy a house, you will be very tired in the future, next year the implementation of the property tax, you can rent a house if you have the money to pay taxes, and you can also set aside a lot of money to do something else, why bother to put all the money on the house....Wouldn't it be better to earn money in the future and buy it again when you have it?

In fact, this kind of thing is easy to do as long as two people work together.

The parents of both sides can't help themselves, so they have to rely on themselves, and the two can borrow some through their parents and relatives and friends, pay the down payment, and then repay the loan together. Struggle is a matter for two.

Or rent a house first, and then pay a down payment and then study a house when the conditions are a little better and you have savings.

I'll be honest, you're really not fit to get married right now.