Falling in love with a man with a family, is it cheap At least the feelings are sincere

Updated on psychology 2024-06-25
47 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Love is not expensive or cheap, just love the wrong person, women will never be rational and will not treat feelings, but the ridiculous thing is relative, that is, men are ruthless, go out to travel, find a good place, it is best to work there, find the person who really belongs to you, although this is also love, but his love does not belong to you, you will only be more painful, and eventually the body will be injured, it is recommended that you stay away as soon as possible, even if the pain is to die, that is, those days or months, what can you do compared with a lifetime?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    What is not cheap?

    Is your relationship real, and is the man real? Maybe I'll treat you like a free chicken.

    Besides, why do you steal other people's things.

    I'll give you a word: come out and mix, sooner or later you will have to pay it back.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I believe that your feelings are sincere, and your helplessness and discomfort are revealed between the lines, I have always believed that there is nothing wrong with feelings, and it is right to love someone.

    But I have also heard that it is not right to base one's happiness on the pain of others, let's analyze, who will be hurt if this thing develops, his wife, his husband falls in love with someone else, empathize with you are this wife, this wife's pain is no less than you are now; His children (if he has children), his own father has a mother, and an aunt, and this aunt is strong on his father; He, do you think he's happy now, don't you? Yourself, since you fell in love with him, is it more sweet than bitter, or more bitter than sweet, I think the latter, otherwise you would not ask such a question again.

    When you think about it, almost no one is happy. To be a man, you must be able to take it and put it down. Although I know it's hard to give up feelings, the difference between humans and animals is that they can control, including feelings.

    I'm sure you can do it, put your energy into something else, read more books, go to the gym. There is no extra time to spare, and it is not very difficult to give up an undeserved relationship.

    Take a deep breath, there is no hurdle that you can't pass, but there are hurdles that you can't pass, but that you don't want to pass. But if you don't go, you may miss the relationship that really belongs to you.

    Finally, I wish you a happy life, good dreams, and finding your true other half.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Everyone has the right to love From a certain height, your point of view is right, I imagine that you must have a more comprehensive and clear understanding of this situation, how to control your emotional desires is your biggest problem at the moment, either pick it up or put it down, because you don't have too much capital to spend time, love is like this, and at the same time, you must have to bear some of it, so you make a choice, think about it, what you want, what you can't want, why?!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's not cheap, it's that you're stupid!

    It's just your unilateral here.

    There is no attitude of that man and that man's feelings for you.

    Anything is unfounded.

    There's nothing wrong with falling in love with anyone, it's up to you to do it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    People can't live too romanticly, and if you're together, it's bound to cause many, many people to suffer, and until then, is it really just sweet?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's not cheap. But be aware not to cross the final line. Usually such men are simply seeking sexual gratification. Feelings are just a coat. With reservations. It's all about protecting yourself.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You don't know if you're cheap or not, it's obviously your own weakness, the dog can't change its, its mouth is cheap, the meat is cheap, it has no face and no skin, and it will be retributed, really, your husband will be slept with by other women in the future, and cause and effect will be reincarnated.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes, I don't want to use the word cheap, but ......Knowing that he has a family, you shouldn't be like this, then this blow is a big blow to the man's wife!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Not only cheap, but also brainless.

    You don't have to wait for reincarnation in future lives, you will be rewarded in this life.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello, you did the right thing, you finally saw through him for what he really was, and you didn't let yourself be hurt. It is safe to say that if he really got it, he would not cherish it, and he would not marry you in the end. However, it's not good for you to generalize, and it's not right for you to assume that all men are like this just after one or two of them.

    There are so many good men, but you haven't met them yet. I won't say much about the superfluous, praise one for your previous behavior, and in addition, I wish you that you will meet a man who really loves you in the future, and I wish you happiness. Hope.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    As a man, I also want my girlfriend to agree to this kind of request, but a man who really likes you will not solve the problem by breaking up, whether you agree or not. There are not many girls who can insist on themselves these days, I hope you will continue to persevere. But if you meet a good boy, it's okay to have sex before marriage.

    People should live in the moment, cherish the people in front of them, and it is good to stick to it if there is no need to stick to it, but maybe your persistence will make you regret it.

    I remember watching a ** or TV, there is a plot in which two people love each other very much, the girl is going to get married, and the man respects her decision, but the man loses his fertility unexpectedly. The girl regretted dying. Of course, the probability of this in the real world is very small, but I think it doesn't make much sense for an adult to take responsibility for his own behavior and trust his own judgment no matter what he does.

    I'm getting married too, and my daughter-in-law is still holding on to ......I can't help it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No way, who told you that you can't look at people, know such a cheap man, hey, there are many good men, why bother.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I would venture to ask you how many men have you dated and you say that men are like this?

    Is it the same with your dad as a man?

    Don't open your mouth and shut up and say that men are like that.

    Do you say everyone if you encounter something bad yourself? Hello yourself, why are you looking for this one?

    It's funny.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Congratulations, what a smart girl.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    A stick overturned a boatload of people,

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No matter what, it's always the woman who gets hurt, let's be realistic, society is like this, don't retaliate, just take it as an increase in experience, and choose someone next time to see clearly!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I've had an idea like yours before.

    I even wanted to get revenge on all the boys, but it only put myself in a painful situation. When you want to take revenge on him, you hate him, but hating him is based on love, and only if you don't love him at all, you won't have the idea of revenge against him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Do you have to get revenge? You said it yourself, you love him very much.

    It's just that the person you love is wrong, or the method is wrong, he's cheap, he's cheap? You didn't say that you must say revenge, in fact, while you retaliate against him, you are also hurting yourself and making others feel that you are the stupidest.

    Leave him quickly, if it is not worth it, put your mind right, revenge is not feasible.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It depends on the degree, if it's completely harmful, it's better to be ruthless. So that he can't do it in the future. But don't hurt yourself!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I don't have a brain. Why didn't you think about the consequences when you were with him in the first place?

    Girl. Please love yourself.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Kill 10,000 enemies and damage 3,000 yourself, his conscience will be condemned, and I have such a thing around me.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Instead, he went to play with him and abandoned him when he was most happy.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    My experience is: no matter how hurt you are, don't be cruel.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's better to let go, it won't help you to retaliate against him, it's better to be an open-minded person, it's hard to hate others.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Be! People are like that! Not just men, but women too! As long as the breed is human, it's almost the same!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Personally, I don't think necessarily, it depends on the boy's heart, everyone has a first love, but not everyone has the same view of the first love, if the other party is persistently good to you, care about you for your sake, it has nothing to do with his first love.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Yes! Everyone's first love is simple and young!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Continuing what you said now, I think it's your fragility after your girlfriend of 6 years abandoned you.

    Now you have a girl to talk to, which makes you feel a little comforted inside.

    When people meet someone to talk to when they are hurt, they can also be together when they have a good feeling.

    Like you said, your girlfriend has been with you for 6 years! Say break up, break up!

    After the breakup, I immediately found another one.

    It's clear that she doesn't love you

    Personally, I don't think you have to wait silly for her to change her mind.

    Men do not hang themselves from a tree.

    Open your heart and seek your love.

    Just say youIn fact, my feelings are also very bad.

    I wish you to think about it sooner and figure it out sooner.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    What do you want to know?

    Should I be with that 23-year-old girl?

    First of all, I want to tell you something.

    Your girlfriend who has been in love for 6 years.

    Don't get your hopes up.

    First of all, you have been together for 6 years and still haven't.

    Go to the end. This shows that you are really not suitable.

    It's not her that you can't bear.

    It's just your efforts in the past 6 years.

    As for this 23-year-old netizen.

    To be honest, I wouldn't recommend that you consider having a boyfriend or girlfriend with her at the moment.

    Because at the moment you two.

    are in a serious emotional emptiness.

    and emotional frustration stage.

    Very irrational. A little bit of someone is kind to themselves.

    will want to accept the other person immediately.

    But have you thought about it.

    Once you come back to your senses.

    You'll also be in this form.

    Accept a girl.

    So what you need now is:

    Let your mind be quiet for a while.

    Think about it.

    What you need.

    What kind of life do you want to live.

    What kind of partner do you want to find!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Hey Feelings are a pot of porridge, people who are anxious drink uncooked, people who are slow always drink boiled, but when the porridge is just right, no one is there, anxious people say, how is it still raw, slow people say, why is it so fast, but no one says that this porridge is cooked just right. So the anxious people blame the small fire, and the slow-hearted people blame the big fire, in fact, this fire is added by ourselves.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's problematic that such a girl is too active, girls should be shy and reserved, and don't believe too much in things on the Internet, because you haven't really gotten along, I think it's okay for you to chat with her online to relieve boredom, but don't move the truth, it's better to find a girl in life, don't worry, take your time and look at fate.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    When you say that the girl doesn't love you, do you mean the one who was going to marry you, or the one in the back?

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    The network can't be trusted, don't get caught up in it.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You go on, be detailed, otherwise it's hard to say.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    This shows that she likes you a little, but if you don't take the initiative, she's going to fly.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you don't have feelings, you won't get married, if you don't get along for a while, don't be stupid to like it, don't do anything, if you can't control your feelings, you like it silently, if he is divorced, then congratulations, you have a chance, if there is no divorce, please don't destroy other people's families, don't use your likes as an excuse to destroy other people's feelings.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    The third party is not good to drop. Married men are attractive again. There is also a master. If you don't want to get into trouble. Don't touch it.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    1 You are just wishful thinking, 2 Even if he is divorced, he likes you, can you live with him in peace? You were scolded by someone?? So stop immediately, there's nothing wrong with liking someone, but love the right person!

    This kind of person still doesn't want to love, he is still so young! There will be a better one, why bother! Think about it calmly, I hope it helps you.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    You can't blame anyone for this, don't love him and marry him?! This is an irresponsible behavior to yourself, and even more irresponsible to your husband! Since it has been done, it should be used to bear the consequences.

    Also, now that he knows that you have a family, or have something to do with you, I don't think this person is very good.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Ask yourself what you want, break up with your husband if you want love, make do with children if you want them, and if you are sure to hide from your husband, then you will have everything.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's a matter of responsibility and love.

    I suggest that you wait until your child is old enough to understand you before making a decision, after all, the child is innocent and you are responsible!

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Do it yourself, love yourself and your family, and don't be too selfish.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Love, not above all else. Don't just think about yourself.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    I can't bear the child, I can't trap Lang!

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    In fact, he married a man with a family.

    The system is not good. I'm not talking about the wind and the cold, I'm going to do this first

    Something to talk to you. He can get a divorce, zhi in disguise said that he can also divorce if he marries you, this sentence is true. However, there are several types of men, the most basic is divided into 2 types, one is very flamboyant and especially willing to dress up.

    If he is such a person now, don't believe him, their credibility is not worth your belief, the novelty is over, or you have already given him a baby, he can still replace you. Second, if he is stable and introverted, he can't say that the credibility is more than half, at least he really wants to live with you, and whether the two of you can work together to the end is a later story.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Upstairs is all the truth.

    If you believe, you will regret it later.

    If a man really wants to marry, he will divorce first, and what he says is always false.

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